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 Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2012 10:18 am
the bf and i had a little chat about how we're both dtf at any time. im not sure if he knows im a virgin or not...i should probably bring that up sometime.
but uhhh yeah spontaneous or planned?
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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2012 10:27 am
Planned. He knew I was a virgin, we planned to do it on said day. There were a few set backs because we thought we wouldn't get the house to ourself but it really was necessary to plan it. I got a nice babydoll to wear and was showered and had everything clean and tidy, in general it was nice to feel sexy when it came to it. We bought lube too, though we didn't use it, it's a good idea and fun for doing other stuff. Do tell him you're a virgin 'cause it hurt like gonk for me, and I bled quite a bit, on him, because of hymen-breaking. You'll both need to be prepared in case it hurts for you etc.etc.
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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2012 10:43 am
Spontaneous. Planning it probably would have made me feel more awkward about it, though the first time is pretty much always awkward. But mine wasn't as much as I expected but I think it's because we were 'in the moment'.
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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2012 11:20 am
Planned. We went to my favourite restaurant beforehand, and had everything ready in terms of lube and condoms and that.
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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2012 12:30 pm
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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2012 1:27 pm
spontaneous. neither knew the other hadn't intercourse'd before. XD
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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2012 7:57 pm
Spontaneous. We were making out one day, and it was just kinda like, "Hey, do you wanna?" "Sure."
VIRGINITY LOSS IS SO ROMANTIC YOU GUISE
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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2012 10:52 pm
Planned on eventually doing it in a certain time frame but the actual time happening was a GO FOR IT time.
And it was actually a pleasant first time. No bleeding, no pain. I was just really really ready go go. surprised
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 11:43 am
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 7:54 pm
spontaneous.
i don't care much for the guy it was with but
it was raining and there was Halloween candles flickering about so i liked that
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 8:15 pm
Planned? I guess? I mean...you do plan on having sex on your honeymoon right? Yeah, I was the bride that hid in the bathroom on her wedding night.
HOLY HELL IT HURT LIKE A MOFO! I don't think we actually got it in there for 3 days. I felt like such a failure at woman hood it sucked LOL.
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2012 11:46 am
i think our first time will be spontaneous. he lives alone so we don't really have to worry about parents or anybody else being around, and we both know the other wants to so...
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2012 11:51 am
Arianah Planned? I guess? I mean...you do plan on having sex on your honeymoon right? Yeah, I was the bride that hid in the bathroom on her wedding night. HOLY HELL IT HURT LIKE A MOFO! I don't think we actually got it in there for 3 days. I felt like such a failure at woman hood it sucked LOL. I couldn't get it in the first time either. Turns out I'm kinda small down there and he's above-average so yeah. xD It took us like 3 times before I 'actually' lost my virginity. They were all semi-planned I guess? There were times I thought it might be spontaneous, but he never went for it, and when I talked about it with him, he said he knew it was going to be my first so he had to make sure I was really ready. So we didn't have like a date in mind or anything, just a point after which I was like "i'm ready".
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2012 12:46 pm
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2012 4:20 pm
Planned on it but ended up doing it spontaneously one night because we had a chance. I didn't bleed at all.
All in all it was kind of retarded.
1. He couldn't get it in. I had to sit on him.
2. HIs mother was home so he didn't actually want me to hump him...just sit there with his d**k in me.
3. It was kinda uncomfy, I guess, but I'd been playing with my vag since I was 12, so his d**k sure as hell wasn't the first thing ever up there.
4. He stuttered a lot so that was weird.
I remember when I was a lot younger I was like OHHHH I HAVE TO HAVE GUSN N ROSES PLAYING. IT HAS TO BE PERFECT.
I really had no emotional attachment to my virginity and do not regret it. He was kind of a ********, but I cared about him at the time, and it was consensual, so *shrug*
I've always been super comfy with my body in the sense of exploring my vag and masturbated voraciously in middle school. Most of my self esteem and insecurity issues about sex came after I got fat.
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