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I know someone who has had vagioplasty, but that's because she had cancer and surgery down there. She was happy with it, but I don't know the details aside from that. She decided to do it after hearing about it from Sharon Teese, so maybe you can google her experience.

As for bleaching, I don't know if you can bleach the skin around the v****a, but there are places that bleach the a**s, however there are risks involved. You're bleaching the skin, so it can burn. I know there's a clinic here that I saw offers it, it was a clinic that dealt with general appearance issues. Like minor cosmetic plastic surgery and what have you. So I guess just look into those kind of places.

I don't know if it relates to the AMOUNT of sex you are having, but there are women who develop the "roast beef" look down there. From what I've heard, kegel exercises help with that. I think it's more an issue after childbirth rather than just sex.

Porn often features women with tiny pink labia and no pubic hair. That doesn't mean that that's the norm though. It just means that that's the current fad, so it's what they want to show right now. But there is actually a huge amount of variety when it comes to labia size and color. And that's ok. Unless your labia are so large that they're making it difficult to walk or are getting pinched a lot, then you probably don't need surgery. If you're tempted to get surgery purely for cosmetic reasons, then it would probably be a lot cheaper and healthier to learn about all the different shapes, sizes, and colors that are out there and that are perfectly normal and to embrace your body as it is. When we give in to these purely cosmetic and unnecessary procedures, we're just giving in to these stereotypes and unrealistic expectations, and we're making it harder for the next generation of girls to understand and accept their bodies.

This is a great clip that talks about how much variety there is in vulvas yet how we often only see one type of vulva in porn. It also shows a young woman with perfectly normal and healthy labia getting them chopped off because her sister saw her naked and said they were too long.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sn2IO7mQpCI&feature=youtu.be (PG-13 warning for vulvas and labia surgery)

Unless you get pregnant or get an STD, sex probably won't change your body in any noticeable way. People used to think that sex made the vulva darker over time, but now it seems that that's probably actually due to age, not to sex.

Wow, thank you all for your responses!
Well, I guess it's a good thing I cold go either with or without, so I will hold off on it until/unless it becomes a serious health risk or something detrimental.
Thank you for your replies =)!