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That d**k sucking thing sounds like c**k gobbling.

I don't have a gag reflex, but like holy s**t, "take his d**k all the way in your mouth and down your throat, as far as you can."

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Well, here's how I suck d**k, and my husband enjoys it very much...

I do take the whole thing in my mouth, but I obviously can't do it too much because it would hurt my throat lol. But I do it a few times to get his d**k all wet, and then I spend some time sucking at a more comfortable length, and he really likes it when I swirl my tongue around the tip of his p***s, especially where it meets at the shaft and glands. Occasionally I'll deep throat while doing that, to shake things up a little, because doing the same thing for too long is boring. I also use my hand on the base when not going all the way. Occasionally though, I will cup the balls and massage them gently with my hand.

So yeah, lol. Hopefully that wasn't too graphic and I get in trouble. Not meant to turn anyone on, just from a "this works for me" standpoint. xd

Iono if anyone else does this or if it's even normal, but I know the girlfriend loves it;


When I go down on her (which I do daily, even semi-daily), for the first 10-20 minutes there is no direct contact with her v****a... It's more of a massage of the inner thighs and kissing. Light, but unwavering kissing, and soft, almost tickling her inner thighs and lower waist line.

Then we go to what I like to call "phase two". Involving her breasts and more intimate kissing. This phase can be phase one if she's already horny.
This step is to get her adequately wet, because it hurts her to have any non lubricated friction on her outer labia.

Now to get her fully going, and I really mean going, I like to take her outer lips and kind of pinch them together- NOT TOO HARD, but firmly.
I then move them up and down. Sort of in a kind of jerking off motion as to stimulate her c**t from the out side of her lips. (think sliding zip-lock bag) you can feel the slight bulge of a bump, this is the clitoris.

Now she goes crazy over this, and she has finished this way, way faster than anticipated. So I keep constant feed back going between us. "Is this too rough? Harder? Faster?" and so forth.

When she indicates shes ready or really close, I will entirely lay off of her clitoris. This is because, 1) I want it to last, 2) she gets sore easily and 3) I like the oral. xD

The next thing for us is to get in a comfortable position. We prefer her kind of sitting up, propped up, and me on my stomach, with the left side of my head slightly resting on her right inner thigh. Her left leg is bent, and over my right shoulder. Her right leg remains mostly straight.

Not for oral. I think a mistake a lot of guys make is diving right in on the c**t.
In my experiences, this is bad. The c**t is not a magic come button.

Work your way too it from the outside in, kind of like a bulls eye.
Start with her inner, upper thigh/crotch area. Licking, sucking, even nibbling if shes into it. Then when getting to the outer lips, I like to kind of squeeze them together. Sort of like earlier, but no were near the same pressure.
I like to start low and work my way up, bottom to top. After about 5 minutes of this, I indirectly stimulate the c**t with my tongue. Not hard, or fast, but long, slow, and fairly soft.

Now again I'll remind you all, communication is key.
Communication isn't always verbal. Note her breathing, her body language, her vocal responses, and even her wetness.

When you think shes ready you can move into the direct contact with the c**t.
In my opinion, I like to increase oral pressure, and circle it. Once, I start getting response, I generally suck her general hood area and do quick, short motions with the tongue. If you're new to this, you can spell out numbers or letters with your tongue, what ever. I prefer abstract, and what ever gets the most response out of her.

Generally after she starts getting too wild, or sensitive I rotate between this step of direct contact, and indirect until she comes.

Sometimes to speed things along, I might rub her a**s with a finger and saliva/her wetness. Which she loves, I'm just not the best multitask-er.

I'm not too keen on fingering, but generally we do that after she comes the first time, to keep things going, and if she can keep going after another, we transition from fingers, to p***s, and that's how we generally start having sex.

* Note: in the oral position part, it's more comfortable for me to slide my arms under her legs and hold the tops of her thighs. This way if she starts bucking, I can stay in the game.

ummmm well if you're blowing a dude and he spagoozes, keep sucking for a little bit after (best if you're the type that swallows) because apparently that s**t feels good.

I feel like I just read a bunch of erotica

xD Should I revise and replace sexual organs with random words?