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 Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2012 12:17 pm
 I see all of these "lets talk about or boyfriends" or "my boyfriend did this" hmmm... I thought that this would be a good idea, lets b***h about our exes. Vent about the break up, what happened? You still friends? Stuff like that. This should be fun. 4laugh
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Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2012 12:52 pm
❝ I'm cool with all of my exes except one. His name was Taylor, and he was an angry, over bearing, douche bag who literally threatened to kill me over a joke. Needless to say, I go out of my way to avoid him. ❞
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Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2012 1:01 pm
My ex Mike. Uhg we were off and on through middle school and we got together when i was a sophomore. Anyway he would yell and scream at his mom and he was just an all around douche bag. Once he had to get major back/neck surgery and I was at the hospital every day. EVERY SINGLE DAY. Then when he gets out he tells me over Myspace that I needed to loose weight, I told him that I shouldn't have too and he was like Oh I see how much effort you want to put into this relationship. ;A; Da fuq? Then he sends me a list of twenty three things that he hated about me. He would also break up with me via text... Well we got back together one day and he just pissed me off. So i got even. this was around Christmas time, anyway I found a sweet guy and well I cheated on Mike and got together with him. I took a picture of us kissing and I stuck it in his Christmas card with a list of twenty three things that I hated about him. I WAS SO PISSED. Mike was also bad about never answering his phone one time he ignored me for two weeks straight. I didn't have a license so i couldn't go visit him, and due to the surgery he wasn't at school. Douche bag. Me and that other guy are still friends though, and I could give a s**t less about Mike.
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2012 9:19 pm
oh my ex -,-
his name was victor, he was a year older than me and we went to the same summer prep school.
he seemed really nice at first, and we liked all the same things and s**t like that. you know, normal relationship chiz. but then he got over protective, obsessive and stepped waaaay over the boundaries. i used to cut, and would put me down for it. we would text from 6 in the morning till 3 in the morning the next day and he asked me to ditch my lunch period during dance class to see him (if it seems ridiculous that this would piss me off, idk.. it just did. cause i have a freaking 8 hour schedule of dance and one break for lunch).he hated my best friend and it seemed like a one sided relationship on his side..
so i broke up with him right after school started, cause i figured that if i didnt wanna make an effort to see him he wasnt worth it.
then i found out he was cheating on his ex girlfriend with me
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2012 10:23 pm
Oh geez massive rant alert!
He shall remain nameless for the sake of my sanity.
My ex was a total a**hole in every bad sense of the word. He was overbearing, possessive, rude, ignorant, disrespectful, cheating, childish, controlling, stubborn, resentful, lying ba****d and cocky all wrapped in a cute little package that seemed harmless at first.
When he and I first got together all was going well, my high school graduation was coming up and I decided to invite him so that he could see how pretty i looked and celebrate with my family. His brother talked him into a road trip and somewhere along the way he talked him into dumping me as part of a drinking game, instead of being there for me. I like an idiot gave him a second chance followed by more second chances... on our 2 month anniversary he then asked me if he could have another girlfriend because he wanted to see if he could handle two. I gave him a sarcastic yes, and seriously told him if he did do it he'd never hear from me again. Well guess what he did and somehow his brother who is exactly like him talked me into giving him another chance! Looking back I kind of wonder if I wasn't on something. Then she found out about me and dumped him, so did I. Then he hit on all of my close friends just to be near me. If that wasn't enough I gave him another chance and told him this time was it. He decided on our 4 month anniversary to tell me that he had Aids and was dying. Which he lied about. When he tried to get back together with me after that i sent him a picture my friend took of me at a party where i somehow managed to make out with an old crush while on his lap. Lets just say one hell of a fun night led to that b*****d of an ex trying to get my family on his side. Thank god i'm finally rid of him.
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Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2012 1:09 am
♭♮♯ Sleeping wonder lies to me, and the lies are sweet. Well, I have two exes.
1: Connor.
He was there for me in a really difficult time for me, so I really appreciated it. Because I had to move after my mom died, he kept up a long distance relationship with me, and it was nice. But in the end, we grew apart. However, after about a month of not talking, I just called him up and we stayed on the phone for almost four hours talking about nothing. Since then we've been really good friends. I set him up with his next girlfriend, and I see him sometimes when I go back home to visit. He even took the role of like my protector or something when this one guy was a douche to me.
2: Layne
I've known him for about seven years, so we've kinda been friends. Our relationship wasn't that long, but the break up wasn't traumatic or anything. He's kind of a douche now, though, so I don't talk to him all that often. He and Connor and my godbrother are all really close, though, so I sometimes have to deal with him. For the most part, we get along, but he hates one of my best friends, and she has an undying love for him so it's really.... Awkward. ♩♪♫♬
Music is sung with simple words, and simple words can save the world. ♯♮♭
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Posted: Fri Feb 03, 2012 2:43 pm
Andrew. Spencer. B*****. Not only is he oblivious to te fact that I hate him very much and would like him to leave me alone, how he deals with his problems with me is terrible. We dated, what, a month? He's acting like a chick on her period. And I would know what those are like, since I am one. But this kid needs to jump off his high horse and realize, I have absolutely no intrest in him. At all.
He has a locker next to mine, so he sees the people who come to chat with me before class. Most are male. He seems to think that I must like them, so what does he do? He and his nerdy litle minion go spreading rumors areound the whole school.
Obviously, they are wrong.
I like a girl, not anyone he knows.
What's worse? He doesn't confront me. He has to facebook chat me. I am all for taking some time out for telling him how much I loath his exsistance, but he's chicken s**t. He's s**t in general. What did he do before this, to piss me off about the facebook break-up, which by the way he did? He dated my best friend. Also dumped her over facebook. Now, no matter how much I tell him to go away, leave me alone, STOP STARING AT MY CHEST, and to ******** off, that vain a*****e doesn't get it through his dence head. He's just too full of himself to realize, I'm more than willling to get him removed from every class we have because of the constant harassment towards me.
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Posted: Fri Feb 03, 2012 8:16 pm
**RANT WARNING**
Lets start out with the best.
My best ex gave me everything, the best compliments. He made me feel amazing and truely happy. Once i was dating him, i wasn't eating as much, i was more healthier. It might seem cliche, but it's the truth.
But then things changed, he had to live at his dads for a week or so every one in a while over summer. So when he comes back he was chatting my BFF and she told him that she really liked him. >.< So that's how i figured out that he liked her back. He tried to tell me that he LOVED me, and tht she was only a little crush. But idk, I didn't want to always think that he could always like her too, or more than he liked me.
So now they are together. This is where it gets complicated...
My second (and last one so far) had been my best friend for the past 7 years. Everything was okay...but he's the kind of guy who has more friends that are girls, rather than guys. One of them being my BFF from the pervious relationship. >.< They had dated for OVER a year when she broke up with him. Then I had started to date him when my BFF and my ex started dating. So my 2nd bf didn't treat at all like my first did. He barley complimented me...all he did was want to hug or cuddle and stuff.
I want a guy who likes to talk to me rather than just cuddle and stuff. So then I found out he likes my BFF, his ex. >.< At this point I was pretty fed up with everything. My BFF for being able to talk about her bf, but i was never allowed to...and that every guy that ive been out with always falls for her.
Not that she isn't nice or anything, it's just when im in a relationship, i just want the guy to like me, and only me.
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Posted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 12:13 pm
The only ex I have is Daniel. It's a long story. James and I had been for almost three years, but I was getting ready to go away to college. I was going to be going really far away (almost 800 miles) and the distance was terrifying, even though we'd been through worse (he was in the army for a short while). Because of that, I ended up kissing another guy, and James and I broke up, and Daniel and I got together. Things were great with Daniel at first even though I felt horribly guilty over what had happened, because I loved James, and when Daniel started wanting more (intimacy and so on) and I refused, he got angry.
Don't necessarily want to go into specifics, but Daniel and I broke up and things got nasty, and I went back to James immediately after our break up. In fact, there wasn't a day where James and I didn't see each other, or I didn't think of him. But because of what happened, me leaving Daniel for James, Daniel in turn hated James.
He's in jail now, and completely psycho, and a lot of it is because of the things he did to the two of us in the two years to follow. Quite scary thinking about it. I'm still with James though, and I look at that as a stepping stone in our relationship, setting James and I in the hardest cement possible. I didn't know it was possible to love someone so much. Despite all crap Daniel put us through (and believe me, I really despise him) I'm slightly grateful for him, although I think James and I would have been cemented eventually, that really did us in. I got my engagement ring a few weeks afterwards.
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Posted: Sun Feb 05, 2012 8:39 am
I have only one ex-boyfriend: Hector.
We've been friends for nearly 14 years now. Our relationship started when we worked together at an art shop painting hats and t-shirts.
Things were going great until he got frustrated a over personal situation and decided to do the stupid thing: cheat on me.
I suffered a lot. Then again, he was my first love.
Nearly 2 years have passed and he's still with that girl. And he still tells me that he loves me, whenever we stumble upon each other.
It was the best relationship I've ever had with a man. And if he ever decides to finally dump that girl (she's 6 years younger than him) I believe I'd give him a second chance, but he has to work his way back into my heart.
The other quasi-something I had with a (garbage of a) man... well, this was recent: Marcos.
This guy was dating me and another (younger) woman at the same time, for months. But, now that I work at a mall, near the food court, I saw him two weeks ago, walk by holding hands with her. As soon as he saw me he let go of her hand and walked up to me to say hi. I turned my head away and told him to keep walking.
Long story short, he's been exposed and the other woman knows about his two-timing ways.
A**hole.
And not a tear was shed.
talk2hand
Lesson learned: don't date men younger than 30 (I'm 33), and don't give in until the man has proven his love.
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Posted: Mon Mar 05, 2012 3:48 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2012 3:13 pm
I met him a little bit before he went back to Ottawa last year.
We were so similair; same interests, same career plans, same stresses.
We liked eachother and so were together for a while before he left, even though we knew we'd have to break it off, as I didn't want a long distance relationship. He did offer though. smile
Now we talk through the internet all the time and he's a friend I'm quite comfortable with.
I miss him like heck, but as there were no hard feelings and only acknowledgment that we had both made the choice, it was a nice way to end a first relationship. smile
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Posted: Mon May 07, 2012 9:43 am
My ex was a nasty piece of work. He was nice enough for the first couple of months, then I went on holiday with my friends and he was adamant that I'd cheated on him with this guy that worked in one of the restaurants we went to. So he made my life hell for it. A few months later, I stayed at a male friend's house after we'd had an argument, it was my mum's idea so that I could have someone to vent to and so that I didn't have to be on my own. But obviously because I didn't tell my ex about it, I was having an affair with the guy, no matter that he was liking guys at that point in time (and still is).
Then he started volunteering at this computer place, and as well as working and spending time with his friends and seeing his family I didn't get to see him much. Whenever I tried to talk to him about it he'd get angry and tell me he was busy with things and I only really got to see him once a week. It ended with him cheating on me and owing me a lot of money for the holiday that I didn't get to go on. He just didn't care by the end of it. He picked up this whore that he basically said he wouldn't have looked twice at if I had been there.
Sometimes I wish I could see him again, if only to flaunt in his face that I'm happy with out him and to ask about my money. I might be over the guy but I still don't forgive him for what he did.
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Posted: Mon May 07, 2012 10:32 am
Well....let's see....where do i begin?!
So my sophomore year i had this guy in my english class. I had a boyfriend when we met so i didn't think anything of him. besides the one class we had, he was completely invisiblle to me. well me and my boyfriend broke up because he didn;t want to get hurt, so we did but still talked like as if we were still together...stupid yes. cute...yes! i fell for that guy hard! anyways....the guy in my class. we were working on a project together right? well before that he asked me out several times, me saying no everytime. so while working on the project we kissed. and i was mad at myself for denying everything about liking this guy. so i gave him a chance. well one month in he wanted to do some foreplay. i said no and confronted him about how he hooked up with my..friend i guess u cud say. and he lied to me and then i started to walk away and he confessed about the hook up. that shudv told me "Hey! kick this dude to the curb!" but no i gave him a 2nd chance. soo 7 months later (bout christmas time) he starts getting too obsesive, over protective and shiz. well before break we had to take midterms. he always got whiny during testing time cuz i wud spend all my time studying and i had cheer too so i had nooo time for him. i get it he just wanted to hang out right? well. the night before midterms started this guy decides to come to my window in the middle of the ******** night and ask me to let him in. i said no repeatedly and got my dad out ther to get him to go home. so i broke up with him Dec 31...bad new years for him right? i was going to wait til we got back to school but his mom manipulated him to coming back up to my house to talk. -_- b***h...
so after that it all got ugly and is just now clearing up! -_________________-
I'm friends with all my other exes tho (:
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Posted: Mon May 07, 2012 12:43 pm
I'm still friends with mine, although we still like each other. It's complicated... sweatdrop
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