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 Posted: Tue May 31, 2011 11:34 pm
So, I haven't really run into this situation yet, but say a guy was to ask me out, not knowing I was gay. It would be logical to tell him (or her, if you're a gay man) you're not interested, but how would one go about this? -_-;;
I've always thought it would be kind of awkward to straight out say "Sorry, it's not because you're a bad person, it's because I'm a lesbian."
Any thoughts?
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Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 12:00 am
I just ask them up front if they like me or not, and (most of the time) they say yes, to which I respond with, "To be honest with you, I don't recommend that you develop feelings for me unless you have a v****a, breasts and a cute face."
Then they just stand there like, " surprised "
...yup.
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Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 12:04 am
Plain and simple, sorry I'm gay. surprised
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Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 7:56 am
Midnight Treat So, I haven't really run into this situation yet, but say a guy was to ask me out, not knowing I was gay. It would be logical to tell him (or her, if you're a gay man) you're not interested, but how would one go about this? -_-;; I've always thought it would be kind of awkward to straight out say "Sorry, it's not because you're a bad person, it's because I'm a lesbian." Any thoughts? way easier then the whole "You're really nice but you're so physically unattractive that I don't even want to talk to you" that I've dealt with I never said that out loud but there have been 30+ year old overweight men who have propositioned me, I just say "No thanks.... "
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Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 8:19 am
This hasn't happened to be personally, but it happened with my gay friend Dustin.
With the same girl.
About thirty four times.
In the same month.
So...it was the beginning of the Drama Troupe season and we were doing Dracula for out fall play. Well...this girl, let's just call her...B. She was literally ALL OVER DUSTY. Every day. He'd always tell her: "Hey, B, I'm GAY."
She didn't know what "gay" was.
So...then Stephanie, my bestest friend <3, screams at her one day: "DUSTY LIKES d**k!!!"
That was an amusing day at D Rehearsal.:3 ~L
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Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 8:31 am
I tend to leave it at "Sorry, we're not compatible."
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Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 8:32 am
Depends on how well I know the guy. I had a guy that I was sort of friends with ask me out, and I just replied with a "dude, you're great and all, but you've got these extra bits between your legs that I have no interest in."
On the opposite end, a guy that I hardly knew asked me out and I just gave him the "Sorry, you're not my type." line (he asked what my type was, and I just said "female". Otherwise I just leave it at "not my type.")
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Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 11:44 am
To be honest I'd just say
"Sorry, I'm into women." or if its a guy saying it "Sorry, I'm into men."
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Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 11:52 am
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Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 3:19 pm
i'm more like "no, i'm a lezzie, not into the whole d**k scene."
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Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 5:43 pm
I'd be shy about it. xD
I think it's kind of jerkish to say, "No I'm gay."
I'd probably beat around the bush. Use some circumlocution. (:
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Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:11 pm
Visual Brian I'd be shy about it. xD I think it's kind of jerkish to say, "No I'm gay." I'd probably beat around the bush. Use some circumlocution. (: That's how I feel. I think I'll just beat around the bush, or something. It's hard when the guy is just a really nice guy and you don't want to make him uncomfortable.. -_-
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Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:14 pm
Had to say this so many times D;
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Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:16 pm
Midnight Treat Visual Brian I'd be shy about it. xD I think it's kind of jerkish to say, "No I'm gay." I'd probably beat around the bush. Use some circumlocution. (: That's how I feel. I think I'll just beat around the bush, or something. It's hard when the guy is just a really nice guy and you don't want to make him uncomfortable.. -_- Right? high fives for us nice people! <3
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Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:37 pm
I'd just kindly say that I don't date girls and leave it at that.
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