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 Posted: Tue Mar 01, 2011 8:39 pm
Ok so this is not me but my friend, cuz i feel she can get some really good advice from you guys smile
Okay so my boyfried and i have been together for over a year now (a year and 3 months to be exact) and i love him dearly. but sometimes i feel like i dont love him enough or give him enough attention. i do everything i can to make him happy yet i am never happy with myself in the end.
i have given him everything (yes if you must know that includes my virginity.) he is my world but i feel as though that is sllipping right through my fingers like sand. i dont know what to do.
the other thing is, i am very depressed and i have gotten to the point where i hate myself often. the only people holding me up are my bestie dani and my boyfriend kyle. i dont feel pretty or loved or special. ive tried so many times to boost my confidence. what do i do?
comments PLEASE.. thanks for reading
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Posted: Tue Mar 01, 2011 9:36 pm
You are the apple...
My question is why doesnt she feel she loves him enough or gives him enough attention? Is it because of something he does or is there some reasoning of hers behind it?
and I am your core.
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Posted: Wed Mar 02, 2011 6:55 am
Well its good that you want to make your other happy.. But what makes you think that you're not making him happy?
Is he looking at other women or something?
Just look at the evidence really, if he's still with you, smiles when he sees you and says stuff like "I love you", then that should be enough to say he's happy, and you should be too.
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Posted: Wed Mar 02, 2011 7:25 am
pirulaso Well its good that you want to make your other happy.. But what makes you think that you're not making him happy? Is he looking at other women or something? Just look at the evidence really, if he's still with you, smiles when he sees you and says stuff like "I love you", then that should be enough to say he's happy, and you should be too.
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 12:53 pm
Just talk to him honestly about your feelings. What you are thinking 100%. Don't hold back your feelings. Making you feelings known to the other makes the situation easier to solve.
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 5:06 pm
Ok so I've spent the night at her house and she talked on the phone with her bf, but before we talked about it and basically the same thing is going on with her that is going on with me and my bf. She feels like he doesn't care cuz he doesn't seem to show it enough and like he just doesn't understand. She is thinking about breaking up with him after 1 year and 3 months together, and right now I am seeing her make the same mistakes I have already made and there is nothing i can do but watch. I have already warned her but it doesn't seem like she is listening to me sad
Right now me and my bf r taking a break because of all this s**t and people saying stuff at school has put alot of stress on the both of us, it could be her and her bf need to do the same for a few days cuz she seems just as stressed out as I was and is taking it out on her bf. When she talked to him she yelled a lil, she cried, she laughed. Only diff with me and my bf is, neither one of us raises our voices. I'm not sure as to what I can do to stop her from making the same mistakes I made before its too late.
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Posted: Thu Mar 10, 2011 9:45 pm
Unfortunately, there are just those people who wont listen to a word you say, who think they can handle everything themselves. I regret to say that sometimes you just have to let them fall on their a** to show them that they might've been wrong.
I think a break for you and your bf is great, you can not see each other and really do some soul-searching; try and figure out why you're feeling unloved.
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Posted: Thu Mar 10, 2011 10:32 pm
The way I see it, the new got old.
After so long you're more like best friends than actual lovers.
I don't really have any advice for the situation, just my view of it.
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