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Posted: Sat Dec 11, 2010 8:54 am
Okay so a lot of people at my school are making un of me. Boys always tell me I have huge boobs and ask me if I have my period. I ask them to stop and I tell teachers / adults but the never stop! Also, people make fun of my last name in a not funny way! What should I do?!
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Posted: Sat Dec 11, 2010 9:00 am
1. Which grade are you in? 2. Get a boyfriend. The rest'll back off by choice or by force. 3. What's your last name? o3o
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Posted: Sat Dec 11, 2010 9:06 am
Do something..., big about it. Do ya have any friends in school? If so then talk about it with them, but if not then...your on your own.
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Posted: Sat Dec 11, 2010 9:33 am
These people seem to be the type of people who enjoy getting people frustrated. If you tell them that you don't like it, then they'll continue. If you ignore them, they'll stop.
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Posted: Sat Dec 11, 2010 9:48 am
well if its boys making fun of you for that reason they might have a crush on you. and if its girls they might be jealous. ^^ i don't think you have to worry that much. everyone gets made fun of every once and awhile. don't think about it too much. if you let it get to you too much people will take advantage of it and continue. ignore them. they aren't worth it.
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Posted: Sun Dec 12, 2010 12:12 pm
I was teased at school too. I know how it feels. It also set me on the path of destruction and vengance. For someday I will take over the world and all who teased me shall be destory by army of zombies and squirels. Here are eight tips I have you.
1. Ignore them.
2. Beat them up. (Not really encourage since you know you will be kicked out of school, but some people really do need to be smacked.
3. Burn them. (Not literally. But come up with some comeback at them when they teased you.)
4. Do something that makes you happy. (When you get home from a bad day dod something to cheer yourself up like your hobby.)
5. Get some Role models. (Look at history, fiction, real life, anywhere. You find people who were picked on by society, but they stood up to them. Finding them can help you to stand the storm and be able to stand strong too.)
6. Find your theme song. (Find a song that inspires you and that fits you. Having it playing you in your head when bullies are agaisnt you. It can help give you strength.
7. Wear a powerful outfit. (I don't know if your school has a uniform policy, but if it doesn't wear a outfit that makes you feel powerful. Like go out and gets some combats boots or jewelry that seems magical to you. It helps you feel powerful and the world cann't bring you down. If you do have a uniform policy try wear accessories that help with the feel too. Plus it makes you more creative.)
8. Remeaber that you're special. (There are many different ways to do this. Make a list of things you're good at or make something that symbolizes you. Just remeaber that you're special and no one can take that a way from you. If you can do that the teasing won't be as painful.)
Also don't forget you have a whole guidl on Gaia to help you. I believe you can do this. I know how painful it's to be teased and how much it can hurt. But school doesn't last forever (even if it feels like it does), and this will only make you strong. If you need anymore advice just ask. I hope that I have help.
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Posted: Mon Dec 13, 2010 8:10 pm
I think no advice can top dreamofthemoon's but I'll try; I say remember all the times someone's given you a compliment, it helps when you think; "Oh yeah so and so said my writing was AWESOME. They were right and they're just jealous poopie-heads". And if they say you have big boobs ask them why they were looking. Sounds like you have pervs at your school. :3
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Posted: Mon Dec 13, 2010 8:19 pm
I know about this kind of problem, it was the same for me a little while back. All you have to do is:
1) Ignore 'em, its no fun if they can't get a reaction out of you
2) Laugh it off, it messes with them a LOT
Or
3) Lose any self-pity you have. Step up for yourself and scare or beat the sh*t out of them, because no ones going to help you except you.
It works after a while, just depending on adults never works ^_~
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Colorful Shadows Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jan 03, 2011 4:22 pm
dreamerofthemoon I was teased at school too. I know how it feels. It also set me on the path of destruction and vengance. For someday I will take over the world and all who teased me shall be destory by army of zombies and squirels. Here are eight tips I have you. 1. Ignore them. 2. Beat them up. (Not really encourage since you know you will be kicked out of school, but some people really do need to be smacked. 3. Burn them. (Not literally. But come up with some comeback at them when they teased you.) 4. Do something that makes you happy. (When you get home from a bad day dod something to cheer yourself up like your hobby.) 5. Get some Role models. (Look at history, fiction, real life, anywhere. You find people who were picked on by society, but they stood up to them. Finding them can help you to stand the storm and be able to stand strong too.) 6. Find your theme song. (Find a song that inspires you and that fits you. Having it playing you in your head when bullies are agaisnt you. It can help give you strength. 7. Wear a powerful outfit. (I don't know if your school has a uniform policy, but if it doesn't wear a outfit that makes you feel powerful. Like go out and gets some combats boots or jewelry that seems magical to you. It helps you feel powerful and the world cann't bring you down. If you do have a uniform policy try wear accessories that help with the feel too. Plus it makes you more creative.) 8. Remeaber that you're special. (There are many different ways to do this. Make a list of things you're good at or make something that symbolizes you. Just remeaber that you're special and no one can take that a way from you. If you can do that the teasing won't be as painful.) Also don't forget you have a whole guidl on Gaia to help you. I believe you can do this. I know how painful it's to be teased and how much it can hurt. But school doesn't last forever (even if it feels like it does), and this will only make you strong. If you need anymore advice just ask. I hope that I have help. This is amazing advice. I agree with 3. Burn them. They are guys, and they are telling you that you have big boobs? Say that they do too.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 3:06 pm
well most boys and girls dream of big boobs ^^ you should be happy ^^ unless they are DE size...then they get on your way doing anything ^^ ...if girls are mean they are jealous and...best way countering that would be saying..."stop taking your inability to grow yourself a pair of boobs out on me" i've seen that work before ^^
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Posted: Sat Jan 22, 2011 9:42 am
itainandatebayo well most boys and girls dream of big boobs ^^ you should be happy ^^ unless they are DE size...then they get on your way doing anything ^^ ...if girls are mean they are jealous and...best way countering that would be saying..."stop taking your inability to grow yourself a pair of boobs out on me" i've seen that work before ^^ I believe it was a guy bullying her..?
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Posted: Sat Jan 22, 2011 6:46 pm
Kaniedie ShadowMoon I know about this kind of problem, it was the same for me a little while back. All you have to do is:
1) Ignore 'em, its no fun if they can't get a reaction out of you
2) Laugh it off, it messes with them a LOT
Or
3) Lose any self-pity you have. Step up for yourself and scare or beat the sh*t out of them, because no ones going to help you except you.
It works after a while, just depending on adults never works ^_~ BEST advice so far!!! I've seen a lot of bullies who just go for the reaction. And laughing it off---definatley what I have done, and it WORKS. Bring some friends, joke around--laugh a lot and they will have to stop thinking of you as prey. And yeah, self-confidence is key. I hope this works for you! Don't mind what they say. They don't know you anyway. smile
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Colorful Shadows Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2011 4:38 pm
viper_353 Kaniedie ShadowMoon I know about this kind of problem, it was the same for me a little while back. All you have to do is:
1) Ignore 'em, its no fun if they can't get a reaction out of you
2) Laugh it off, it messes with them a LOT
Or
3) Lose any self-pity you have. Step up for yourself and scare or beat the sh*t out of them, because no ones going to help you except you.
It works after a while, just depending on adults never works ^_~ BEST advice so far!!! I've seen a lot of bullies who just go for the reaction. And laughing it off---definatley what I have done, and it WORKS. Bring some friends, joke around--laugh a lot and they will have to stop thinking of you as prey. And yeah, self-confidence is key. I hope this works for you! Don't mind what they say. They don't know you anyway. smile Hell, yeah! I laughed off my bully and he got yelled at for looking at us XD
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Posted: Thu Mar 31, 2011 6:54 pm
Agreed with dreamerofthemoon as well.
One more thing that I would try:
Bullying is a major concern in American education and chances are that one of the teachers/admin staff at your school is devoted to putting an end to it. Seek this person out, explain the situation and let that person help you. Bullying is hurtful and no one should have to live with it. And if none of the staff seemed concerned, then go to the board of education in your area. The teachers would need to be educated in that instance. Violence in schools has got to stop.
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2011 5:29 pm
Bullying is a problem all over. 90% of the time they are jealous. So all that you need to do if find your froup of friends and ignore the haters. smile
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