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 Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 7:27 am
Ok I think that most girls commonly equate male ejaculation with male orgasm. I read in an article that this is not necessarily the case.
Orgasms are supposed to be mind shattering and blissfully pleasurable. Ejaculation is a muscle spasm that most men don't actually feel.
So what is the deal here?
Have you, (if you're a guy) had an orgasm?
Do men who don't orgasm, realise this or do they make the same mistake that girls make and assume ejaculation means orgasm?
What does an orgasm feel like for you? (guy or girl)
Is orgasm a relative thing or an absolute thing - how can you know that you've had one? Or do you just know when you've had one?
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Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 7:30 am
I almost guaruntee that article was in a woman's magazine. Trust me, a male orgasms everytime he ejaculates, sometimes it's just not as powerful as others.
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Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 5:20 pm
Men can ejaculate while orgasmin, or they can orgasm without ejaculating.
Some men "leak" before actual ejaculation, but they don't full-out COME until they orgasm as well.
The reason I know this? I know guys who have masturbated before they hit puberty (ie: semen production was nil at the time). They could orgasm quite well without actually having anything come out.
I also know some guys who have "come" without anything coming out, because they're "spent" as it were.
As a girl who likes p***s, these are my personal findings.
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Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 6:54 pm
KittenFlaps I almost guaruntee that article was in a woman's magazine. I read about it in a book called "Manhood" by Steve Biddulph; http://www.stevebiddulph.com/manhood.htmHe quotes an author named Michael Ventura; part of that same quote is used by a Japanese philosopher and writer, Masahiro Morioka, who addresses the same topic: http://www.lifestudies.org/insensitiveman02.htmlBear with him, the essay has been translated from Japanese. Oni-Angel Men can ejaculate while orgasming, or they can orgasm without ejaculating. What I was wondering was, can men ejaculate without orgasming? Because if they can, wouldn't it be easy to think you had come when you had in fact, never orgasmed? (being a guy) How does "orgasm" feel for guys? Is it just relief at "cumming"? If so, is that really an orgasm...
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Posted: Wed Jan 25, 2006 12:22 am
Bonbonquark What I was wondering was, can men ejaculate without orgasming? Because if they can, wouldn't it be easy to think you had come when you had in fact, never orgasmed? (being a guy) How does "orgasm" feel for guys? Pretty much, the male body HAS to orgasm in order for the come to shoot out of the p***s. It's the contractions (that feel extremely good) that really push it all out. I did mention that some men "leak" semen, but they don't necessarily come in the way that you're implying without actual orgasm. Quote: Is it just relief at "cumming"? If so, is that really an orgasm... When you orgasm (as a woman), do you feel the contracting, fluttering of your vaginal muscles? As far as I can tell (and I have held an orgasming p***s in my hand before, as well as felt it orgasm inside of me), this similar kind of spasming happens within the p***s, causing the sperm to travel up and out very quickly.
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Posted: Wed Jan 25, 2006 4:03 am
I can orgasm without coming, but I have to train hard. It's called a tantric orgasm. A friend of mine says that you can hold it all in for when the girl wants it the most, and when you hold it in, it feels even better. I've only partially done it while in the shower and I almost collapsed. Damn, that was good.
Anyways, I can orgasm while ejaculating, and I can orgasm without ejaculation, but I've never ejaculated without orgasm...
Edit: Geez, I missed a whole damn word?!
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Posted: Tue Jan 31, 2006 4:23 pm
lol, I can't belive I'm actually writing this, but here it goes: Male orgasms are the pushing/shooting force behind seminal fluids (sperm and the other . . . "stuff"), but a man does not have to have a full on orgasm to release the semen. In fact the ecrection is when semen starts moving, that's why the "pull and pray" method of intercourse has such a high birthrate; the sperm has already made it into the woman. The reason a woman doesn't get pregnant every time this method is used is that the v****a is an extremely acidic place, killing he sperm. Although the fluid that nulls the effect (released from the man) may have already entered allowing safe(r) passage for the sperm.
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Posted: Tue Jan 31, 2006 8:01 pm
Magnificient lol, I can't belive I'm actually writing this... Why exactly? Nothing wrong with a 9th Grade Biology Lesson...
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Posted: Tue Feb 07, 2006 2:15 pm
madamfluff Magnificient lol, I can't belive I'm actually writing this... Why exactly? Nothing wrong with a 9th Grade Biology Lesson... Well some have still not embraced their dark sides... ninja ninja ninja But moving on, an orgasm, fr any sex, is when you reach that plane of peasure when it feels like every muscle in your body is filled with the emotions and feelings you have for the person, overflowing and taking every bit of your energy just to keep it in control. and after such time and effort, you reach, what can best be described as transcendency. You and your partner are one with each other, floating free throughout the etheral planes. Of course, this is just one undersexed writer's take on it.
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Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 1:15 am
Okay, here's a really, really, really, REALLY late entry. =p
I'm a man- or, as some would prefer it, a guy. =p I've had an orgasm. I've had various orgasms. I orgasm.
Men know when they orgasm. My first was when I was thirteen- I didn't know what the hell I was doing entirely, but in the end I figured out what it was and I decided that I liked it. =B
An orgasm can feel different depending on the gender, the age, and the conditions. An orgasm achieved when one's 14, 21, and 60 are going to feel very different. And a man who orgasms via masturbation for the fifth time that day is going to feel disappointingly different then a guy who has an orgasm inside of a woman he truly cares about.
However, as a 21-year-old man, I can tell you how an orgasm generally feels like for me now: imagine the butterflies you get in your abdomen when you ride a very fast rollercoaster. Combine it with the subtle tensing of the body, a feeling of sheer euphoria and an addicting mixture of adrenaline, testosterone and sublime pleasure steadily building higher and higher, until it crashes into a white, blissful release that overwhelms all of my senses, rhyme or reason that I'm capable of. And moments after the climax, the subtle falling into a content, satisfied state where I know I made a mess and don't give a damn, which is sometimes followed by a sudden, occasionally-overwhelming drowsiness.
And you wonder why men want to do it all the time. =p
Believe me, men know when we have an orgasm. It isn't something that we can fake. And I'll speak from personal experience- I've come without orgasming once or twice (It was disappointing. =( ). It wasn't "Leaking", as Oni eloquently put it. ;p But that's common in and of itself. I've also experienced an orgasm without coming.
Oh, and to settle this thread once and for all:
Koiyuki, an orgasm with a loved one feels exquisite- but emotional attachment isn't required to have an exquisite experience. Otherwise, masturbation would be a veritable hell. =( Sorry to be the pragmatic of IPG, but I'm going to disagree with ya. Again. x.x It happens so often, even two years down the road.
Madamfluff, a 9th grade biology lesson doesn't describe orgasms and what they are to a guy. Trust me. My 9th grade biology class was tighter then a catholic's chastity belt when it came to sex.
Magnificent, loosen the damned chastity belt. Seriously, this is the Intellectual Pervert's Guild. Which means at least part of what your writing is going to be...Well, perverted. =) However, you do get a cookie for shedding scientific light on the acidic v****a. Just don't be embarassed unless it's a very personal experience- and even then, don't sweat it. I promise, there are bigger freaks in this guild then you'll ever know, and we love 'em to death. ^-^
Vyce, train hard grasshoppa. XD
Oni, I hope your intensive study of penii (Plural p***s) that you like bears fruit (Oh, that was a terrible pun..).
And...Y'know, I just couldn't resist digging an old thread up again. =( I'm sure I'll do it again before too long.
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