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 Posted: Sat Nov 06, 2010 8:14 pm
sadly i have only had a few ladies in my life and they where all let downs whats the deal why dont more come and when they do why arnt they the good ones
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Posted: Sat Nov 06, 2010 9:40 pm
Patience, brother, patience.
When God thinks you are ready, he will send one.
If not, then maybe a woman is not for you... Maybe your calling or purpose requires your singleness and celibacy...
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Posted: Sat Nov 06, 2010 10:13 pm
Peace. You are young yet. You have plenty of time. I'm a bit older than you and still single. Use this time to draw closer to God. Pray, fast, and read his word and do his will. He will send somebody to cross your path, and when he does she will be the perfect woman and helpmeet for you.
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 12:59 am
I'm 17 and I've only had one boyfriend which was last year and lasted till a few months ago(I think lol) Well I anyways I agree with RighteousMan117 on everything.
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 12:54 pm
Dude you're only 17 don't worry about getting a girl. Worry about living your life and then God will send you the woman that you desire in time. (assuming of course that you're meant to live your life with a partner. Some of us are called to be single)
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 2:52 pm
Only 17?
I am 20 and I still haven't one yet.
Give it time, she'll come. Just keep talking to the ladies 'till one suits you ;D
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 2:58 pm
A wise man once told me how to find a mate. He said run after God as hard and as fast as you can. The only one that can keep up with you will be who God has for you. Quote: Matthew 6:33 (King James Version) 33But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. This includes your mate.
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 8:47 pm
j3susfr3ak1991 A wise man once told me how to find a mate. He said run after God as hard and as fast as you can. The only one that can keep up with you will be who God has for you. Quote: Matthew 6:33 (King James Version) 33But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. This includes your mate. I don't think it could have been said better! biggrin
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Posted: Mon Nov 08, 2010 1:14 pm
Honey, you're not going to find a decent woman until you become older. Right now, the "women" you are getting involved with are still just girls and have a lot of growing up, self-searching, and faith-building to do. It's possible to have a good relationship at a young age, but it takes the right kind of people and they're hard to find. So don't beat yourself up if you can't find a significant other this early in the game. You still have many years ahead of you.
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Posted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 6:51 pm
dont be so worried about women. you are only seventeen. just be patient and dont rush into a relationship.
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Posted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 9:08 am
maybe gods trying to teach you to depend on him trust the lord he knows whats best for you.
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Posted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 10:04 am
There's more to life then relationships, not to say that they aren't great but if you're seeking after it then maybe your heart's in the wrong place, as said before seek first the Kingdom of God. Let God be your first love and when you do find a girl let Him still be that first love of yours. God has someone for you but you just have to wait in His timing, 17 is still young, you still have your whole life ahead of you. Don't worry about the other young couples around you, those who date that is their choice, to some God has given a mate but until then let Him be your first and truest love. Find yourself in Him. Find in Him whatever you're longing for that girl to fill because God can fill it better and it will last longer.
I'm 20 and I've never dated and I'm ok with that, right now I'm happy serving God with all my life, 'cause right now He has my undivided attention just as we have His. So just wait and when the time is right He'll lead you.
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Posted: Thu Nov 11, 2010 6:46 pm
thanks for the advice i apreetiate it
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Posted: Tue Jan 11, 2011 11:50 am
Some people say "all good things come in time"... sometimes you can't go out looking for what you want because it will come to you, too.
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Posted: Tue Jan 11, 2011 2:09 pm
17 is very young, probably too young to be looking for "the one". If you spend all your time searching for her, your life will pass you by. And the harder you look, the less you see. Take your life one leg at a time and concentrate on becoming a better person for that one and finding a way to make a good living to support her as well. I also need to take such advise sweatdrop being on of the only one of my friends who has never had a boyfriend and I'm 18.
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