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My best friend is getting married to her baby daddy/boyfriend. Usually I'm pretty happy for stuff like this but lately i can only lie to her about my happiness. Usually I don't lie to her but this is so important to her and i can't figure out how to share how I really feel. I won't go into too much detail but the dude hates kids and when she was pregnant told her to get an abortion. Now he acts like he wants to be apart of his daughter's life but he hurts her and he still apparently hates kids. And she has told me he has tried to be abusive/controlling towards her as well. I've tried telling her about how I felt about it before and she just says she loves him and it'll get better. I don't trust him at all especially since he sleeps with girls and leaves them quickly for other girls. He even lied to her about being living with his parents while he was dating and living with another girl while trying to get back with my friend. I've tried so hard to tell her the truth but it's hard. Especially since she asked me to one of her bridesmaids. What are somethings I could? I don't want to watch my friend get into something that can be potentially dangerous to her and my "niece"/ her daughter. I've tried praying but it doesn't feel like what I should be doing. I feel like a bad friend/sister sad

she's your best friend! like a sister to you, right? you know her, so talk to her, be honest to your best friend about your feelings, your fears for her...

it's very important to talk to her about this, understand what's her idea and why is that her idea, then share.

I haven't talked to her yet but I am seeing her tomorrow. And about talking to her fiance...he honestly doesn't like me. I've gotten the feeling/vibe that he hates when I'm around and my friend has told me a few times that he's not very fond of black people to put it in nicer terms :/. I don't like being around him alone anyways.

Thanks for the advice and prayers everyone. I talked to her about it and she at least postponed the wedding for another 7 months to get him to go to counseling....like that'll happen. Please keep her in prayer and for me as well. I've gave her my opinion and given it to God and hope that everything turns out good.