So, my home life is.. not good lately. My mom can't seem to control her anger. I don't know if she's bipolar, or just crazy, or something else. I'm afraid to ask her to settle down though. I'm afraid to be near her most of the time. What should I do?
Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 12:25 pm
Oh sweetie, I am sorry you are dealing with that. I am afraid I have no words of advice in this area as I never went through this. I will pray for you though as I know this must be very stressful on you.
1. DO NOT get in her way 2. DO NOT tick her off 3. Don't confront her about it. She will just get mad. 4. Do everything she says that will not result in someone's pain 5. Tell her you love her before you go to sleep, hang up on her during phone calls. Whenever it seems appropriate. Hope this helps =)
Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 3:25 pm
♩♪♫ 𝔪𝔲𝔰𝔦𝔠 𝔱𝔬 𝔪𝔶 𝔢𝔞𝔯𝔰 ♫♪♩
it might seem crazy this way of dealing with it, but it's like emi says - be nice to her, swallow your temper in order to help hers... i know it's very hard to do this, it doesn't seem fair, but remember Christ who died for you and for her, who carried every pain with no guilt and pray to God to have the strenght. i mean... try to be a tool for peace (it's what i try to).
please hang on there... (: i'll pray for you.
Lusitana
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 4:57 pm
My mom is just like this.
I would reccomend being sweet to her and just try to get along .though this doesnt always work >.>
Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 5:14 pm
She is not bi-polar.
Bi-polarity is not an anger problem. It is an imbalance that swings between extreme joy, happiness, and energy to being depressed and exhausted all the time.
It is possible that she is suffering from demonic oppression or even possible demonization, though I wouldn't count on it being the latter.
Jesus says to love your enemies. Love your neighbor as yourself.
Love her. Many pagans in ancient Rome came to love Jesus because their Christian spouses loved them and were good to them.
I will pray for you.
Do not hang up on her during phone calls. That's not going to solve anything.
God bless.
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 5:34 pm
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Do not hang up on her during phone calls. That's not going to solve anything.
God bless.
sweatdrop haha I probably should have worded that differently. I meant to say "I love you" at the end of any phone conversation. Hanging up would make it worse. And I thought I was a spaz! Maybe I'm just bipolar.
Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 9:34 pm
Thanks everybody =] This means so much to me, you have no idea.
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