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 Posted: Wed Jun 02, 2010 4:45 pm
Recently been having problems with a close family member...I've been sexually melested before but I wasn't related to that person and I easily pushed them away with my physical forse of power (Kicking) But I don't know what to do with this one...I don't want to hurt them because they are a close family member but they won't stop touching my butt and in that area even when I ask them to stop. Also, should I tell my parents about this? If so...how should I approach them?
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Posted: Wed Jun 02, 2010 4:57 pm
Yes, you should tell your parents. I wouldn't just throw it out in the open on them. The way I would approach them is ask them if I could have a talk with them. Then I would be like "so-and-so is doing this to me and I don't like it and they won't stop although I ask them to" or something along those lines. The conversation may continue. Hopefully they will do something about it. If they don't... well, there are others.
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Posted: Wed Jun 02, 2010 5:33 pm
I have six siblings, it is abnormal to ask to talk with my parents in private...
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Posted: Wed Jun 02, 2010 5:44 pm
Oh, I see. In that case, is there any time when most of them aren't around?
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Posted: Wed Jun 02, 2010 6:32 pm
My mom drives me to school so i guess I could try and talk to her then...I just fear the whole "what if she tells him and he gets pissed then steps up and rapes me?"
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Posted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 4:06 pm
If it's really bothering you, then yes, you should tell your parents.
I find it easier to simply write them a letter and hand it to them when they're not busy. Letter's can't reflect tone, however... so you probably will need to physically talk to them one-on-one eventually.
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Posted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 7:14 pm
I shall take all advice into consideration and hopefully have some actions in my choice taken. Thank you~
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Posted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 10:29 pm
you should tell your parents and if its private then theyll no its something serious, but yupz, you have to tell them and also just incase tell them not to let your family member be that close to you just incase if he tries to touch you again :3
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