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so, yeah. I figured out i was being cheated on by my now exBF, about 5 daysago, and yesterday he dumped me via text then call.In the text he said that since i didnt let him have -a 3 letter word that starts with s- with me, he is dumping me. What really sucks is that he probably stuck with the preppy cheerleader he cheated with me on. How do you take this without resorting to-lets just say Drastic measures-?

Go out with someone else and make him jealous. He isn't a good guy, so don't dwell over the fact that he's gone. Just hook up with someone else. You'll forget about him.

Lemme tell you this: Once a cheater, always a cheater. Nothing can make that go away, and if someone did that to you, thay don't deserve you, they don't deserve anyone but the skank they slept with behind your back, who will probebly break their heart into little peices later on in their sucky life. Or he might cheat on them, in which case he will never get any worthwhile girls. So ask Gaia to simply help you forgive, because trust me, that guy will never be truly fufilled in life.

Even though your heart is acheing right now, remember the friends you have, here and anywhere else, and ask them for support. Remember, no matter how he made you feel, if he did that, he's a ho who deserves nothing more than what he's giving himself, a bucket of other ho's willing to do anything to do the nasty. And beleive me, that sucks.

So just love your friends and forget about him, don't think about him, and if he ever tries to get back with you, punch him in the face. I know it hurts to know he did this, but really, he's not worth your time. Period.

All girls who respect themselves hate guys like this. A relationship is based on trust and understanding. If you want to put it in a mathamatical equation t+u=l. L being love. He betrayed you, so you can X out that trust part, and he obviously doesn't understand that what he did was wrong, you out goes the u. But still you have the l, which will never really go away, but it exists on a smaller scale, and should be overriden by knowledge, which he has none of. So ignore him and even, to throw him off his game, congradulate him on finding another ho just like him! Then flash a big smile biggrin and walk away.

Feel good and live well- its the best revenge twisted However, the other girls have all made good points, so repeating them isnt necessary

Well if he broke up with you through a text message, and over such a silly thing as that, He was never worth it to begin with, And nobody wants a cheater. Just be happy your not going to be stuck with a nobody who is never going to amount to anything, And remember you're beautiful~ c:

i had kind of the same problem last year. I had a boyfriend but i didn't know he was gay. I went to the movies with my friends and saw him there with another guy(they other guy was resting his head on my bf's shoulder, nasty sight) and then i walked up to him and then gave him a slap sooo hard it was worse than a b***h slap. He was just using me for his "reputation", he didn't want anyone knowing he was gay so then he used me