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LadyEladrin
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 07, 2010 4:31 pm


What is FA to you? Tell me!!! lol Inspired by Big Liberty's rant.
PostPosted: Sun Mar 07, 2010 9:45 pm


I think it's legitimately being happy with one's self.
I'm not saying people have to go streaking on nightly basis, but looking at a magazine and saying, "That's not me, and I'm okay with it!"

I hope I explained this right sweatdrop

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 09, 2010 7:32 am


ninja And what's wrong with streaking every night? J/k. I understand what you mean. 3nodding

Anyone else?
PostPosted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 12:36 pm


Fat Acceptance, for me, is being able to look in the mirror and like (maybe even LOVE) what I see--even when I'm nakie! teehee! No, but seriously, I haven't loved myself for most of my life and part of the reason for that has been my size. But now I'm the fattest I've ever been and I feel the best that I ever have about myself! biggrin Cool, huh? <3

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 8:42 pm


for me it's accepting myself even when i'm put down for being fat (even though i'm quickly slimming)

it's also accepting that i'll never be as skinny as a model and im ok with that i like my food way too much any way tehe

when i can look in a mirror and say "I am Big.... But i LOVE me" it will be the day i have truly accepted myself for who i am and that day is quickly approaching

sorry if it's a bit confusing redface
PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 5:00 am


Well,I'm an FFA which means female fat admirer.I just think fat is adorable,I don't really do much for the sexual part...that part is just kinda weird to me.To me an FA is a person who enjoys fat and accepts it.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 7:26 pm


cherry god mother
I think it's legitimately being happy with one's self.
I'm not saying people have to go streaking on nightly basis, but looking at a magazine and saying, "That's not me, and I'm okay with it!"

I hope I explained this right sweatdrop

I pretty much agree with this
PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 7:54 pm


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I think it's legitimately being happy with one's self.
I'm not saying people have to go streaking on nightly basis, but looking at a magazine and saying, "That's not me, and I'm okay with it!"

I hope I explained this right sweatdrop

I pretty much agree with this


I do too, but I also go further for myself. It's not enough, for me, to just be accepting of my own fat. It's not even enough to be accepting of other people's fat (which is easier than accepting one's own, anyway, as we all know well). For me, FA also means challenging fat-hating where and when I see it. And granted, most of the time this means me yelling at the tv, and the only person who hears me is my husband - but it can mean calling it out in social situations and at work too. And trying to change my dad's mind on it, which is a losing battle, but whatever.

I guess you could say it is ONLY challenging anti-fat attitudes and bs, because loving your own fat and so on can be seen as breaking down anti-fat attitudes that you've already been taught. And it also makes the point that bringing out these arguments doesn't have to be argumentative, per se - being accepting and loving and NOT giving someone s**t are powerful ways of refuting the anti-fat message, just as much as standing up and yelling about it.

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2010 4:33 am


FA means the end of body snarking on all fronts. The morality placed on body size is ended. Clothing stores finally standardize womens clothing and carry size 00 to size 42. Models of all sizes are featured in Milan, with no chagrin from the critics about how obesity is ruining the world. Medical professionals see fat patients as people with health problems, and not walking bariatric surgery candidates. Fat people are shown in the media as complex individuals who live happy, healthy, and productive lives with loving family, friends, and significant others.

That is what FA means to me!!!!
PostPosted: Wed Sep 01, 2010 2:11 pm


Fat acceptance will be achieved when fat people are no longer demonized in media. This is really the only way to get the general public to accept anything. Once fat people are no longer targets of ridicule in pop culture, we'll be recognized as respectable members of society.

The sheep will follow the shepherd.

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 05, 2010 7:55 am


It's hard to describe so I'll give examples.

You know how if someone likes blue instead of red and both colors are viewed equally? That to me is acceptance.

When people, regardless of how they look, are all viewed equally, without demonizing or degrading someone else (this I'm still working on for myself), when people aren't labeled based simply on their looks, when society and the Media no longer glorifies certain people over others, when people are no longer told how to live, that will be true acceptance.
PostPosted: Sun Sep 05, 2010 8:16 am


I think it's believing anybody can be beautiful no matter what their bodies look like so long as they're confident in themselves 3nodding

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 05, 2010 8:20 am


eikocarol212
FA means the end of body snarking on all fronts. The morality placed on body size is ended. Clothing stores finally standardize womens clothing and carry size 00 to size 42. Models of all sizes are featured in Milan, with no chagrin from the critics about how obesity is ruining the world. Medical professionals see fat patients as people with health problems, and not walking bariatric surgery candidates. Fat people are shown in the media as complex individuals who live happy, healthy, and productive lives with loving family, friends, and significant others.

That is what FA means to me!!!!


I agree with this, even though in our world it will probably never happen sad
PostPosted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:50 am


to me it's about stopping medical and workplace discrimination, and about getting word out that fat=/=unhealthy. that people that are fat can (and usually are) healthier than thin folks. it's all about public perception, because i dont think we'd be here if we didnt already realize we already know these things ourselves.

does that make sense? i hope so...

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 2:05 pm


Lavinny
Fat acceptance will be achieved when fat people are no longer demonized in media. This is really the only way to get the general public to accept anything. Once fat people are no longer targets of ridicule in pop culture, we'll be recognized as respectable members of society.

The sheep will follow the shepherd.


Agreed.
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