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 Posted: Sun Nov 27, 2005 6:19 pm
This is something of a personal question, I guess, but I was curious about it nonetheless, so I decided to make a topic.
For those of you who have been in love, what sort of thing(s) made you realize it?
For me, it is something like this:
Quite often, I go and create all these various names for myself, which I, at least at that time, like much better than my real name. I think when I'm really in love with someone is when I hear them say my name and, for once, I don't want to be anyone but me. I don't want any nicknames, pseudonyms, alternate identities, or anything. Just me.
Also, if just by being there and being who they are, they can make me forget whatever problems I have and just feel happy, without even coming out and asking me what's wrong, then I feel in love with them.
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Posted: Sun Nov 27, 2005 7:12 pm
Hmm...lessee....for me...
lots of confliction+mixed feelings+caring about the person+being overly protective of them+wanting to hump them to high heaven+being stalker like whenever I see them and waiting 'til I have the guts to tell them how I feel=love for me.
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Posted: Sun Nov 27, 2005 7:56 pm
For me, I think it was when he started calling me "mo mhi'le sto'r" and things like that. That was the obvious, though. The less obvious was when he quit smoking because I told him how much I hated it. It wasn't even directed toward him, really. And he just stopped.
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Posted: Sun Nov 27, 2005 8:49 pm
Ah Love.... evil a demon subject!! but 4laugh yes yes I am in love...and was as well. I was engaged to a boi whom I did love very much...but he went into the military...and I couldn't take it...and he became very aggressive and mean...he said things that even though he was joking it...didn't seem like it....now..I feel that I am in love again heart turly I suppose....and how I know this I can simply describe with one incidence between us...
We both had a bit of a cold at the time..running noises and coughing, but not terrible bad..just...a small cold...we were a bit hyper that day and we ended up wrestling around, he pinned me down and he gave me a raspberry (Which he LOVEs to do to me) drived me crazy with laughing funniness, anywho we laughed then he laid his head on my bare tummy and smiled and sighed, then he started laughing again..which caused him to drool on my stomach, which caused him to LAUGH harder and him blow a bit of snot on my stomach...I look down and him laughing even harder at that....and say.."Did you just blow snot on me.." He says nother but continues to laugh..."You blew snot on me!!" He laughs harder, and I laugh harder, we bother laugh hard, and then he kisses me, and we kiss each other and then say.."We're weird" That is love right there..to be so comfortable around somone so in love that...the weirdest..grosses thing about the human body is ok when you two are together. I do love him... sweatdrop but we are bloody weird. 4laugh
-End transmission-
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Posted: Mon Nov 28, 2005 4:20 am
I didn't really notice Skire until the end of the school year but I thought it was just a little crush because we started hanging out together and it's a ritual and right of passage in the group to have had at some point, a crush on Skire. I didn't really do anything about it because I knew he didn't want a girlfriend (and for a long time, we all thought he might be gay) so I left it like that till the following New Years eve party and then I pounced!
We've been together since, nearly 3 years.
I guess what made me realise that I wanted to give it a shot and put my heart out on the line was that he was so weird and accepting of anyone that it didn't matter if I was younger and not as smart as him.
Also that he would probably end up more sucsessful than me but I would be happy just supporting him if that's all I could do. I never ever wanted to take backseat to someone before but for him, I'd do it if I had to. I'd be willing to put our relationship on hold or even call it quits if he ever needed to realise his dreams.
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Posted: Mon Nov 28, 2005 11:51 am
You're plenty smart Ruby wink , and I love you for the way you are heart .
As for me...you just know.
There are no physiological responses to "being in love" , not to confuse with "being in lust", except maybe for girls that it would be more apparent, but that would also be in relation to "in lust".
I guess it would be the level of comfort you have with the person, and the level of acceptance you can give your loved one. (I let Ruby say and do a lot of thing that if I wouldn't love her, would probably wouldn't like it whee )
I R teh smert!! And to finish, a quote from the Simpson "There is no emoticon for what I am feeling!" and that feeling is love...though the heart thing is pretty close... heart heart heart
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Posted: Mon Nov 28, 2005 1:43 pm
I can't say alot to this, I thought I was in love once, but I was wrong, now I just go with the flow ^.^
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Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 3:18 pm
There's three phases of realizing I'm in love:
Phase 1: I begin to realize just how much I enjoy being around the other person. Worries, troubles, and embarrassing situations of all sorts can be expressed, and resolved. When I'm around, other troubles seem to dissappear.
Phase 2: I begin to commit. Urges to flirt with other people subside. I begin to spend time to try and impress and flatter them. Perhaps I even start to get gifts.
Phase 3: My heart's broken, they either leave my life, or I leave theirs. Thoughts of them make me sad.
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Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 6:21 pm
Lavaske There's three phases of realizing I'm in love: Phase 1: I begin to realize just how much I enjoy being around the other person. Worries, troubles, and embarrassing situations of all sorts can be expressed, and resolved. When I'm around, other troubles seem to dissappear. Phase 2: I begin to commit. Urges to flirt with other people subside. I begin to spend time to try and impress and flatter them. Perhaps I even start to get gifts. Phase 3: My heart's broken, they either leave my life, or I leave theirs. Thoughts of them make me sad. Stupid romantic irony in my life # 43 - Aproximately 2 hours, 32 minutes, and 26 seconds after posting this, phase 3 occured.
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Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 10:54 pm
Lavaske Lavaske There's three phases of realizing I'm in love: Phase 1: I begin to realize just how much I enjoy being around the other person. Worries, troubles, and embarrassing situations of all sorts can be expressed, and resolved. When I'm around, other troubles seem to dissappear. Phase 2: I begin to commit. Urges to flirt with other people subside. I begin to spend time to try and impress and flatter them. Perhaps I even start to get gifts. Phase 3: My heart's broken, they either leave my life, or I leave theirs. Thoughts of them make me sad. Stupid romantic irony in my life # 43 - Aproximately 2 hours, 32 minutes, and 26 seconds after posting this, phase 3 occured. Aww...*huggles* For me, love happens like this: I meet someone interesting. He stands out in some way. I get to know him better. We become friends. We become bestest friends. We share our first kiss together. We get into a relationship. We are together for a long time. We have sex. We get better at sex. We practice still more sex. Then, we eventually get engaged. Then marriage and beyond. I'm at the "engaged" part right now. biggrin *knocks on wood*
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 8:22 am
Wow, everyone has all these nice or not-so-happy things to say. All I have to say is that I've never truly fallen in love with anybody in my life. That is not to say I'm incapable of love. I love my family deeply, as I do my friends, and I do experience crushes, just not love. That stuff that goes through my head may be lust, or attraction, or a deeper level of friendship, but somethings are a little too self-centered to be love, I think.
The strange thing is, I don't feel at all sad about it. It is unfortunate that at my age I have no experience on the subject, but I feel no uneasiness about it. Strange, but I am quite lax about this. Like "if it happens, it happens". And it's not that I'm waiting for a girl to jump me or anything, but I've realized that, unlike other people I know in real life, I don't need to actively search in hopes of being part of a couple. I'm quite happy about it. There's a difference between solitude and loneliness, and I quite enjoy the solitude I have. I guess I should enjoy it while I still can, so I will.
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 8:37 pm
Very. Just look at her in my sig. That's her. The girl with my heart. And when I'm around her, gosh, I just can't help myself. I long for the day far from now we'll share something sensual. Something intimate. There's love for ya, always waiting.
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 6:45 am
Love, as portrayed by The Great Tatsuya Ishida:  I love this comic. heart
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 4:42 pm
Wow, that comic is hilarious!
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Posted: Sun Dec 04, 2005 12:10 am
Hmm...well what about the whole "Oni is totally in love with some guy who basically dates her only to get closer to her skinney, boobless friend and then dumps Oni's a** when said boobless friend is once again single" thing?
Guys aren't the only ones with the short end of the love-love stick.
A lot of us get ******** over by the sheer amount of dumb-shits in this world.
Puu puu on faith in this species. The good people in this life are few and far between.
That's why I simply LOVE the people here....less ********, more quality...mmmmm.
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