Every time I love someone I hurt them. There was this one guy, and I just fell in love, but I was his sister's best friend, and I loved her like a sister. THis guy and I dated and that bothered her a lot. Then she walked in on us once, and she now hates me. It also got this guy in trouble, so now we can't see each other again. That had to have been painful for him.
Posted: Sun Nov 27, 2005 5:18 pm
I think it was very unfair of her to rat the two of you out like that. You should have to have her blessing to go out with him. And it is none of her business. I say if you really want it to work out you will find a way to do it.
Do you know why she doesn't aprove? If you find out why then you might be able to resolve it.
Posted: Tue Nov 29, 2005 2:27 pm
I would try to just talk to her and tell her how much you care for this guy even if it is her brother. I would also tell her that I care about her to and that I was sorry if I made her feel left out or like she wasn't as important. I had a similar situattion like this only it was my friend and my cousin. I always felt left out and like she didn't even care about me anymore. She probally feels the same way and probally won't admitt it. I never would. So If I were you I would tell her that you really do care for her like a sister and that you didn't mean to make her feel left out. If you want the details and how we worked this whole thing out and are still friends you can pm me. Good Luck with everything.
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