Wow, such language... x_x But despite that I will share how I learn Kanji... hopefully someone will find it useful...
Step 1: Meaning and Writings with HeisigYes, I can tell you hate it but the first thing I did was a completed the first volume Heisig's Remembering the Kanji (RTK). I completed the book in about three and a half months. No, you don't "master" kanji by completing RTK but it makes the next step easier. Some nice benefits of of completing RTK include...
1. Knowing how to write kanji and having a keyword for each kanji helps to distinguish them. You won't confuse similar looking kanji.
2. Knowing stroke order helps when using a dictionary.
3. Kanji keywords are another tool (along with context) that you can use to predict the meaning of new words.
4. Since you are already familiar with the kanji learning to read is not so intimidating. Meaning and writing for individual kanji is already taken care of...now you can focus of vocabulary and grammar.
Reviewing the Kanji is a very helpful site for those who choose to use Heisig's book.
Step 2: VocabularyYou shouldn't learn kanji reading with isolated kanji. Learn new words instead. And when learning new words I recommend learning them in the context of sentences. There are many resources designed for Japanese learners to improve their vocabulary but here are a few of my favorites.
Smart.fm has a Japanese Core 2000 series where you can learn the 2,000 most common Japanese words arranged by word frequency. The iKnow application that quizes you will test both the meaning and the reading of the words. Plus each word come with an example sentence and I love example sentences. If you complete the Japanese Core 2000 there is also the Japanes Core 6000 which has the next 4,000 most frequently used words. Users can also create their own lists. Some are based on themes such as food, onomatopoeias, or words with similiar kanji. Others are based on music videos so that you can watch the video and then study the words in using iknow.
Another free site that you can drill vocabulary on is
Read The Kanji. You can choose pre-made decks (based on JLPT level) and start reviewing right away. You simply type in the the readings to the word that is highlighted in the sentence. It's simple but I really like it. Read the Kanji has roughly 7,000 JLPT vocabulary with example sentences.
2001 Kanji Odyssey can be ordered
here in either book form or on CD. 2001KO has 2001 Kanji arranged by frequency. Every Kanji has its most common readings and vocabulary. The first 1,110 Kanji have three example sentences per kanji that use common words with that Kanji. There is a
free online workbook for 2001KO that can be printed off. There is also a user created
smart.fm list that is based off of 2001KO.
I suggest you use one (or more) of these to improve your vocabulary and kanji reading skills.
I also recommend that you find something fun to read in Japanese. I personally like reading raw manga. When I find a new word that I want to learn I look it up in a dicionary such a
Yahoo辞書. Then I make a new flash card in
Anki using either an example sentence from the dicionary or using the sentence from the manga.