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Woman all like different things; we're not clones! Most women like clitoral stimulation the most. But some women have a very sensitive clitoris and direct stimulation may even be painful. Some women like vaginal stimulation during oral, others would rather just have the clitoral. Some like a**l stimulation, others don't. So we all like different amounts of stimulation in different places.

And that means I can sit here and describe what I like when it comes to oral sex, but what I like might not even be close to what your partner likes. Also, if I told you what I like, you'd likely be so focused on doing that that you wouldn't be paying attention to the cues that your partner was giving you!

So don't try to get tips from people who may or may not even like what your partner likes. The only way to be sure to please your partner is to experiment and communicate with her. Even sexually experienced people often have to experiment and communicate when they're with a new partner. Try different things. See what she responds to the most. Ask her what feels good to her.

If you're not comfortable experimenting and communicating with her it means you're probably not quite ready or comfortable enough with her to do this. There's no need to rush. You can get comfortable with her and get to know her body in other ways.