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 Posted: Wed May 27, 2009 1:50 pm
okay i need some advice:
a few people i know and i arent quite getting along,
as a result i'm very uneasy around them...and they've detected that...
reason we're not getting along is simple really: difference in interests
we used to be all sorts of good pals...but they've changed...
what should ido, should i ditch these guys, or come clean with them?
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Posted: Wed May 27, 2009 1:52 pm
I don't think a difference in interests should affect a friendship.
It's probably best to make amends with them so your ok with each other while still accepting the differences.
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Posted: Wed May 27, 2009 1:55 pm
Phukking Writch I don't think a difference in interests should affect a friendship. It's probably best to make amends with them so your ok with each other while still accepting the differences. ugh...thats just it, it's not the interests that are the problem, it's how different they are ((ie seraph = me and well....they = anti-seraph)) so i'm still not sure what to do...
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Posted: Wed May 27, 2009 2:00 pm
Oh well ummm, I wouldn't say drop them completely, but keep them around as acquaintences
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Posted: Wed May 27, 2009 2:20 pm
Phukking Writch Oh well ummm, I wouldn't say drop them completely, but keep them around as acquaintences thats how i describe them IRL...but i never name them, so thus they dont know i refer t them as such... hmm...what to do...
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Posted: Wed May 27, 2009 3:30 pm
well if the person wishes you to do something that is against your will then its obvious that they arent someone you want to be around. you should suround yourself with people that are going to be a suport rather than stress.
but then again if the person who has diffrent values respects your's and dosent act disrespectful when they are around you then their shouldent be a problem.
not sure if i helped or not ^^;
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chrissy_of_hailfire Captain
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Posted: Thu May 28, 2009 4:43 am
well, to be hoenst i havent spoke with them in a while...and have deleted their numbers form my cell
as for if they are mroe stress than support, these guys are nothing but stress
they dont force me agaisnt my will or anything like that, but they get into so much conflicts even amonst themselves, that it make me feel as thoguh i'm the only sane one amidst them
one conflict lasted so long i've still no idea if it's ended
plus two of them were dating until the girl found out the guy was cheating on her with 5 other girls...
((very intmate dating and very very intimate cheating))
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Posted: Thu May 28, 2009 5:16 am
Everyones line of veiw are different, thus things are tended to get heated in the end. Just let it fly by and if it continues on. Try to make amends with each other.
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