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Elousia

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PostPosted: Sat May 16, 2009 8:14 am


Okay... So at school there was this event. It was the 30 hour famine... So everyone participating had to stay overnight at school. Pretty much a big party, right? Everyone was put in the pod to sleep and people who didn't want to sleep could hang out in the hlls and stuff. I was sleeping in this awesome mini hallway hat really has no purpose... Or more trying to sleep. Every so often my ex (Who hurt me countless times) who come stand at the end of the hallway and just stare at me for a while. Then he left and a while later cam back. Myfriend was also there and it creeped her out too. My friend told me the next day that after I fell asleep he came and sat near me, just staring at me. She said he had this creepy expression on his face.... After a while he left again. So did my friend cause she couldn't sleep. So the next morning I opened my eyes and he was sleeping REALLY close to me... Like if I moved at all we would have been like cuddling... And my friend said after she came back she noticed him slowly getting closer to me... My boyfriend wasn't there so it was the perfect opportunity to try something....

So a couple days later he told me he 'loved' me... Again.... But I don't think he does love me.. He just wants to hurt me again. He likes to mess with peoples emotions... All of his girlfriends/crushes have had a few thigs in commen... 1. They have to looki good, in his eyes. 2. They HAVE to have depression issues 3. They have to cut or have cut in the past....

I told him to leave me alone but he won't... Inbetween classes he always seems to be near my locker, or in the same hall at least. At lunch he hangs out with some of myfriends.

I'm honestly scared of him... Whenever I see him I get all shaky and leave. If my friends didn't come to 'bed' when they did, he could have tried something. I'm sure he would have.... I'm sure he was thinking of the things he would have done....
PostPosted: Sat May 23, 2009 7:02 pm


Go public!
Make it clear to him that you aren't going to go back to him and that you're sick of his creepy s**t and you're not going to put up with it anymore.
Try and make sure people see you when you say it, you'll be eliminating any rumors he might be spreading about you and warning any other girls about his creepy ways.
Side note; learn to sleep with your eyes open.

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PostPosted: Sun May 24, 2009 2:13 am


He's creepy, isn't he? @___@ Bring a pepper spray or something. Better safe than sorry you know. And yes, make it public that he's a creepy stalker. I agree with RingGuy.
PostPosted: Sun May 24, 2009 4:13 pm


Invest in self-defense classes. And if you can't get that, talk to your friends and rally support. RingGuy is right.

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PostPosted: Mon May 25, 2009 12:36 pm


Thanks... I've talked to him and he's been leaving me alone lately...
Also all of his old 'friends' are about ready to kill him right now. They're more my friends than his. My boyfriend would also love to hurt him... Badly but won't because I'd rather my boyfriend didn't get hurt or in trouble.... All of my friends know about it now and his 'friends' too.
Self defense wouldn't hurt but it also wouldn't help much either. He's really tall... Like 6ft something....
And how does one learn to sleep with their eyes open? O.O
PostPosted: Fri May 29, 2009 11:14 am


I've been trying to learn to sleep with my eyes open for years and still nothing...

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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 7:25 am


Ringpullguy1000... I love your siggy! Within Temptation! heart
PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 9:29 pm


Thank you you're the first to comment in it lol

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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 10:13 pm


Tell your friends you don't like him and don't want him near you. You should also advise them to not talk to him for the sake of preventing anything from potentially happening. Tell your family you do not want him near the house and to not talk to him as well.
PostPosted: Mon Jun 01, 2009 11:38 am


He's been leaving me alone lately....But I'm wondering how long that will last... *Sigh* My friends try to stay away from him but he is now with one of my friend's friends... (If that makes sense.) The girl he's with doesn't believe that he stalked me and thinks my fear is unreasonable. I want to hang out with my friend who is friends with his girlfriend but she he is always with them. It's hurting my relationship with my friend. It kinda hurts me. One of my friends that I hang with alot hangs out with them sometimes too, just to make sure he doesn't hurt my other friend or the girl he's with. Other than that everything seems okay, but 'okay' never lasts..... I hope this made sense and sorry for rambling... (I love that song. smile )

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 02, 2009 1:39 pm


Bohemian Oz
Tell your friends you don't like him and don't want him near you. You should also advise them to not talk to him for the sake of preventing anything from potentially happening. Tell your family you do not want him near the house and to not talk to him as well.


i agree with this- and bohemian oz- i love dr.tran! XD
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