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 Posted: Tue Apr 21, 2009 4:49 pm
Umm.. my friend is kinda gay... and hanging out with him somtimes is akward like the way he acts... what do i do?
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Posted: Tue Apr 21, 2009 5:43 pm
aww.. come on nobody is gonna help me with my problem..
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Posted: Wed Apr 22, 2009 12:18 pm
How does he act? I'm afraid I can't help you until I get a clearer picture of what the problem is.
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Posted: Wed Apr 22, 2009 1:23 pm
Well...based of the little info you gave the best I can say is try to talk to him about it. Make it clear that _______ things make you uncomfortable. Try to do it tenderly. If you area accepting of his sexual orientation then also make that clear.
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Eloquent Conversationalist
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Posted: Thu Apr 23, 2009 3:26 am
Maybe you should do your best to be yourself around him. Ignore the fact that he is homosexual and ignore the people who laugh at you 'cuz you're friends with him (that applies to out-of-the-closet gays).
Also, assuming that you are male and straight(i cannot tell people's genders through their avatars, but i can assume....), try not to do anything that would make him think that you are in love with him (e.g. hold his hand intimately, touching him everywhere, you know, that kind of stuff)
I'm not so sure about this, but I hope my advice will help smile
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Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 7:20 am
How is one "kinda" gay? I just don't see what the issue is here. Elaborate some more.
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Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 4:48 pm
well if hes ur friend, apertly you didn't use to care he was gay before or if he just turned gay, hes really the same person... just try your best and talk to him.
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Posted: Wed Jun 03, 2009 5:22 pm
japhers Maybe you should do your best to be yourself around him. Ignore the fact that he is homosexual and ignore the people who laugh at you 'cuz you're friends with him (that applies to out-of-the-closet gays). Also, assuming that you are male and straight(i cannot tell people's genders through their avatars, but i can assume....), try not to do anything that would make him think that you are in love with him (e.g. hold his hand intimately, touching him everywhere, you know, that kind of stuff) I'm not so sure about this, but I hope my advice will help smile I agree. His sexual orientation should not be a problem in your friendship.
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Posted: Sat Jun 06, 2009 6:52 am
i don't think his sexual orientation should get in the way of being friends. just let him know that you are with him (in support of him) and try not to do anything that could suggest you having these sort of feelings toward him.
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Posted: Sun Jun 21, 2009 9:38 pm
well, all i can say to this is, dont do anything about it...just accept him for who he is and you can still be friends with him without being gay...
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Posted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 6:32 pm
Well, without any major details and I'm assuming that you are straight too. Well if your gay friend cracks on to you, then tell him to back off and then explain that you don't feel anything for him in that way. But do it in nice way that's not aiming to offend him and that you accept his gay side. As for the people that laugh at you? Just shrug it off like your shooing a fly away. ^_^
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