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 Posted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 6:01 pm
Alright, I'm writing this paper about how guys (sorry boys) in my school treat each girl different. Yes, I know..we all know this is true, but no one has really written about it. So I am writing this paper for my schools news paper, this school magazine, and posting other places...just don't know where yet. So, I need things to research and observe around me.
Example is I am so sick of walking to a door to get to a staircase and a guy doesn't hold the door for me. Though when little miss no tits and a** and orange skin walks by, guys hold the door. I am thinking is it just they are not thinking or is it they don't want to be nice to girls like me. So..I like to see how many times a guy doesn't or does hold a door for me.
Another example is most common is when you drop your books in the hall way. If I do, no one helps. Most people believe someone else will help, but when a girl who just drops her a million dollar purse on the floor..guys help her.
Anyone have any other ideas?
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Posted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 6:18 pm
Here's one I get; the stares. You know how people look at you a little hateful when you don't conform to society's ideals like your opinion doesn't matter because you're different.
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Posted: Fri Nov 04, 2005 10:25 pm
A few I can think of:
Ask guys for money, like a dollar or $5 at the most and have another "cute" girl do the same. At the end of the day see who gets the most.
Ask to sit at a table with a group of guys and see how they react to you.
randomly stop guys and ask them for directions and see if they look interested even when they talk to you.
I'm out.think of things that requires asking for help. Dropping your books was a good example though. Even a supposedly jammed locker would be good.
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Posted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 1:56 pm
t0paz A few I can think of:
Ask guys for money, like a dollar or $5 at the most and have another "cute" girl do the same. At the end of the day see who gets the most.
Ha..I like the money one, but would feel sooo bad, because I would have all this money left over..or the cute girl anyway.
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Posted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 9:39 pm
in all my years of observation here is what I have observed and learned
guys at the teen age or even younger only respond to what they see that they like which is sadly, thin "hot" girls. and no one tells them or teaches them that it is customary or polite to do this for ALL women, be it young or old. Second, guys are most toften clueless ESPECIALLY young guys. BUT it is not just the guys, as women girls can often be missleading or confusing tto guys. so to solve things it often helps if we are bluntly honest with them.
beyond that go with the ideas already posted since I cannot think of any ideas....
keep in mind this is just from what I observed and NOT ALL GUYS are like this,....just most of them
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Posted: Sun Nov 06, 2005 6:02 am
I guess things haven't changed since I was in school. I went home crying a lot. When my own son got old enough to notice girls, I had a long talk with him. He is a very handsome man of 23 now, and he has never dated one of those "thin, orange skin" girls. I tried to explain to him about the feelings of young ladies. He has seen me get hurt over how people treat me because of my size. He doesn't want to put anyone else through that. So you girls are probably being treated this way because of the way those boys are being raised. It doesn't get any better as you get older. You just get used to it or you get over it. By the way, I'm 52 yrs old.
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Posted: Mon Nov 07, 2005 6:39 pm
I watched something on all this.....some really attractive skinny lady was tired of how the bigger women were being treated so she went under cover and had makeup and a fat suit on *sorry couldnt think of another word for it* and went around dropping stuff to see if people would pick it up...some people picked it up...but not nearly as many people as when she took off all of her makeup and everything....then I watched as like 50 men dogpiled to pick something up for her......
and the only differance in her appearance was like the look of about 50 extra pounds...she was just as gorgous with the fat suit on...but people still ignored her
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