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 Posted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 3:37 pm
ok i have a friend that is somewhat religious but shes a christian. but the bad part is that i was talking one day with her and she hate bi and gay/less ppl but now im debating if im bi or not but im worries that is shell hate me for being bi (if i decide 2) so WTH!!
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Posted: Wed Oct 01, 2008 2:26 am
If you still don't know what you are don't worry about it most chanses is you are not bi. most poeple aren't bi smile
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Posted: Wed Oct 01, 2008 11:37 am
i'm a christian too, and i don't hate gay or bi people. i don't like the life they've chosen for themselves, but i'm not going to condemn them for it, and if this girl is really your friend, she won't either. this isn't about her faith, it's about her attitude towards nonchristians, and it sounds to me like hers is a little off.
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Posted: Thu Oct 02, 2008 9:42 am
well , if ur brave enough to decide ur dating preferences ,
u shouldnt be worried about other people especially
ur friend , because if u say shes a best friend of urs ,
then she'll prblly understand . i knw ur going
through one of those teenage conflicts where ur
confused , most people go through tht , so dnt be scared
bcause ur not alone && its your life so dnt care wht other
people think because then it'll be boring =)
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Posted: Fri Oct 03, 2008 12:09 am
If your friend can't accept you for even with your bedroom preferances than they mighnt not be that great of a friend ... It's not like your asking her to join in.
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Posted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 10:45 am
like i told my friend who found out he was gay, you be whatever you want to be, you can't please everyone, and if your friend wants to hate you for the fact your bi thats kinda lame, and if she is going to be that way then maybe your not very good friends to start with. yeah my friend did lose alot of his friends but all the true ones stuck around.
my point is, if she likes you enough why does it matter? as long as you promise not to hit on her or whatever then why should it matter? it's your life not hers.
and what you deside to do in the bedroom is nobody's busness but your own.
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Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2008 8:04 pm
mkay, i have tons of experience with this kinda stuff. here's the deal. first of all, it would be convenient if you found out whether or not you really were bi or not. why? because if you say your bi one day but then say straight the next, she'll think of you as a fake. it's just with the nature of coming out. never come out if your confused.
so i guess i would say, you don't need to come out in the first place.
however, if your dead set, you have to be proud of who you are. it's not what you choose, it's how your born, regardless of what anyone tells you. see, the easiest people to come out to are your friends, because you have the choice to leave them, but everyone i've told completely accepts me (on the lines of friends. use extreme caution before telling fam) but yeah. you can tell her if your positive you are. but remember, you NEVER have to tell anyone if your not ready.
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Posted: Wed Oct 15, 2008 8:43 pm
Well it's really not her decision now is it?
I'm Christian, and I really have no problem cuz my best friend is like you and has alredy decided somewhat...
If she won't accept you, it will be hard.....but it really only comes down to what you want.
^_^
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Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 7:53 pm
totally agree w/ everyone...
*too tired to type >__<*
especially, "the_forgotten_thought" idea... 3nodding
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