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divineseraph

PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2008 8:14 pm


I'm sick of the term "right to choose". It's very deceptive. It dodges around the point like a crack addict jumping around imaginary spiders.

If you're pro choice, say that you're for the right to abortion. Not the right to choose. Pro-life people are for the right to choose as well- You can have fries or onion rings with your burger, you can dye your hair any color you want, you can choose toast, eggs, bacon or all of the above for breakfast.

It is almost exactly like saying "I'm pro happiness", and in parenthasies, (My happiness by taking your money, pro-embezzlement) - It leaps around the entire focus of the idea, the right to abortion, to something apparently decent and good. It's as though they are afraid to say abortion, or afraid of abortion. If you're going to be for it, then be willing to say it. Don't hide the focus with pretty-sounding positive terms. Use the real word, use the real word.
PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2008 8:37 pm


Well the choicers would say the same thing about the right to life. Obviously we don't mean the right to all life; Most of us aren't vegetarians, many of us support the death penalty, and many of us support wars under certain conditions.

I would agree that theirs is less appropriate and more annoying, but then, I'm not them. They almost certainly see it the other way around. To me, right to life is direct; The right of the unborn child to live their life. It doesn't make it sound like they are against the right to life in most cases, just in the case of abortion. The right to choose, on the other hand, seems abstract, because we're not trying to take away the right to choose. We're not going to tie you to a table and force you to give birth. We're just saying that if you choose to kill a human being, you should be punished for it, whether they are born or not.

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 8:42 am


The abortion debate is full of deceptive terminology and catch phrases. By supporting abortion, they are not only not promoting anything more than 1 choice for 1 group of people which will then take away all choices from another person. They also don't seem to give a crap about the teenagers who are forced to have abortions by their parents or abusers. Or about other women who are pressured into it.
PostPosted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:02 pm


It's not so much that, it's really the catchphrase "choice"- I mean, it seems to apply only to the choice of abortion. I would say the same about the "right to life", because that's like, well, cow life? Bacterium life? Eagle life? Lab rat life? Fetal life?
But I haven't really heard "I support the right to life" as often as I've heard "I support the right to choose". And it's the latter which is more ambiguous and misleading anyway.

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PostPosted: Sat Aug 22, 2009 8:21 pm


They use the word ''choose'' to make it sound so much better than murder. But yes i agree with you Basically we are all pro-choice..they choose to kill and we choose to save.....
PostPosted: Tue Sep 01, 2009 8:47 am


To me, pro-choice is just saying their neutral. You could CHOOSE to go either way with the abortion, but their basically saying "F#ck it. I don't care. Do whatever you want."

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 06, 2009 1:50 pm


I actually don't use the term "pro-choice" or the term "pro-life." I present them as "pro-abortion" and "anti-abortion"--because that is the essence of the debate, is it not?

Someone once used the argument, "Well, I don't really want abortion's to be necessary, you know. I don't really want them to be performed. So I'm not pro-abortion."
If you didn't want them to be performed, you wouldn't be begging us to keep them legal. You support the existence of abortion; therefore, you support abortion. Seems simple enough.
PostPosted: Tue Oct 06, 2009 3:52 pm


The right to"choose" also bothers me. It's like saying the right to kill their baby. And they focus way too much on abortion for people that are supposed to be about all choices.

The only reason I use the term pro-life is because it's better to be pro something not anti something.

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 2:34 pm


As George Orwell once said, “In our time political speech and writing are largely the defense of the indefensible.”
The term "pro-choice" was created because pro-abortion advocates knew their argument was indefensible. Everyone loves having a choice, so they call themselves pro-choice to attract people to their side of the fence. I think the only reason the pro-choice movement has survived for as long as it has is because they claim to fight for choice when in reality they couldn't care less about women and girls who are forced to have abortions.
Now, pro-choicers probably say the same thing about our term, "pro-life". But the difference is we pro-lifers care about the life of the child and the mother. We care about the post-abortion trauma the woman will endure for the rest of her life and we care about the unborn child's life. Besides pro-choicers only support one choice: Abortion. They hate adoption and crisis pregnancy centers. It's like they may as well say, "Every woman should have a choice, but just one choice and one choice only."
PostPosted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 5:35 pm


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As George Orwell once said, “In our time political speech and writing are largely the defense of the indefensible.”
The term "pro-choice" was created because pro-abortion advocates knew their argument was indefensible. Everyone loves having a choice, so they call themselves pro-choice to attract people to their side of the fence. I think the only reason the pro-choice movement has survived for as long as it has is because they claim to fight for choice when in reality they couldn't care less about women and girls who are forced to have abortions.
Now, pro-choicers probably say the same thing about our term, "pro-life". But the difference is we pro-lifers care about the life of the child and the mother. We care about the post-abortion trauma the woman will endure for the rest of her life and we care about the unborn child's life. Besides pro-choicers only support one choice: Abortion. They hate adoption and crisis pregnancy centers. It's like they may as well say, "Every woman should have a choice, but just one choice and one choice only."


I noticed something about pro-choice. Like you said it only seems like one choice and they don't care. I tried talking about other options and about the health of both the mother and child (about pregnacy, abortion, and child birth) and they just seem to blow it off.

It's kind of sad.

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 29, 2009 8:41 pm


Pro-abortion makes it sound like we're all rabid fans of abortion. We're not: most, I imagine, would see it as a necessary evil at times and would campaign for help for mothers so that there were less abortions in the world even if it's impossible to have none. Call yourselves anti-abortion all you like, but calling the other side pro-abortion doesn't ring true.
PostPosted: Sat Oct 31, 2009 7:48 am


Hello again Scribblemouse!

But if you are indeed pro-choice, you know you're not allowed to post in this section of the guild. If memory serves, you were asked to confine your posts to the pro-choice/pro-life discussion, but I may be wrong because my memory is shaky right now. I can consult a mod who is not so shaky.

Regardless, pro-abortion just means you're for the legalization of abortion. Choicers use anti-abortion when they don't want to say pro-life and it doesn't phase me at all because I am anti-abortion. If you want abortion to be legal, be proud of your views. Why would you want to pretend you did not agree with it? If there's something wrong with it, why would you support it?

None of this "These rules apply to you and we can use it to make you sound bad but it's uncomfortable for you to use an equally true statement about us, so don't, you big meanies," business.

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 31, 2009 7:56 am


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Pro-abortion makes it sound like we're all rabid fans of abortion. We're not: most, I imagine, would see it as a necessary evil at times and would campaign for help for mothers so that there were less abortions in the world even if it's impossible to have none. Call yourselves anti-abortion all you like, but calling the other side pro-abortion doesn't ring true.

Sure it does.

First of all, you know you are not supposed to post in the main forum. If you want to post in our guild at all, stick to the Pro-Choice/Pro-Life subforum.

Secondly, Pro-abortion only sounds like that to you because of your guilty conscience. When someone is Pro-Gay Rights, does that mean they're going to go out and get a gay marriage? No. Does it mean they enjoy watching gay couples making out, or watching gay porn? No. It just means they support gays having legal rights.

Same thing with people who are Pro-Death Sentence. Do they get off watching people be executed? No. They just believe that the death sentence is a viable method of dealing with criminals, and should be legal.

Pro-Abortion is exactly the same thing. Pro-Abortion means you want abortion to be legal. End of story. Anti-Abortion means you want abortion to be illegal. End of story.

I'm personally going to stick with Pro-Choice and Pro-Life, because those are everyone's preferred names, and I don't have a problem with that. But I'm a little sick of Pro-Choicers acting like Pro-Abortion means something that it doesn't. Especially since Pro-Choice isn't the right name at all. It's complete propaganda. Pro-Choice? The only choice you are supporting that we are not is the choice to legally have an abortion, but the name makes it sound like Pro-Choicers are paragons of freedom. You're not. It is one single choice, that even your side frequently claims is only a necessary evil.

I wouldn't mind being called Anti-Abortion as long as your side was called Pro-Abortion. If we are called Anti-Abortion while you are Pro-Choice, though, there is an unbalance. Pro-Life is propaganda too, although I personally think it is a less heinous one than Pro-Choice. But when you get to use your propaganda and we don't, you come off as the paragons of freedom, while we're the evil people trying to take away your abortions. It's something that really pisses me off about the Associated Press, that they actually call Pro-Choicers Pro-Choicers, but Pro-Lifers are Anti-Abortion activists. It's so much bullshit.

Anyways. If you want to continue this conversation, start posting in the subforum, or you will be banned.
PostPosted: Sun Nov 01, 2009 5:09 pm


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Secondly, Pro-abortion only sounds like that to you because of your guilty conscience. When someone is Pro-Gay Rights, does that mean they're going to go out and get a gay marriage? No. Does it mean they enjoy watching gay couples making out, or watching gay porn? No. It just means they support gays having legal rights.


That's the best, simplest way I've seen it put. It's true; "pro" doesn't imply that you exclusively support something, or that you'd do it yourself. It's just because abortion isn't a pretty word that people seem to have such a problem with it, which is why we should be curteous and use each other's nicer sounding names. What bothers me is when Choicers tend to insist that they're pro-choice rather than pro-abortion, but *then* call us anti-abortion at the same time. Sure, it's true, I am anti-abortion; and I'm not going to claim that you implied that I'm only against abortion, ever; it's an accurate name and all. It just doesn't have quite the ring to it that pro-life does.

I just think it would simplify the debates a lot more if we gave each other that little bit of space, as a foundation for civility. Sorry if I went off too much, it's just been in my head for a long time and I want to sort it all out by having it in front of me. sweatdrop

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 1:28 am


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Pro-abortion makes it sound like we're all rabid fans of abortion. We're not: most, I imagine, would see it as a necessary evil at times and would campaign for help for mothers so that there were less abortions in the world even if it's impossible to have none. Call yourselves anti-abortion all you like, but calling the other side pro-abortion doesn't ring true.

Sure it does.

First of all, you know you are not supposed to post in the main forum. If you want to post in our guild at all, stick to the Pro-Choice/Pro-Life subforum.

Secondly, Pro-abortion only sounds like that to you because of your guilty conscience. When someone is Pro-Gay Rights, does that mean they're going to go out and get a gay marriage? No. Does it mean they enjoy watching gay couples making out, or watching gay porn? No. It just means they support gays having legal rights.

Same thing with people who are Pro-Death Sentence. Do they get off watching people be executed? No. They just believe that the death sentence is a viable method of dealing with criminals, and should be legal.

Pro-Abortion is exactly the same thing. Pro-Abortion means you want abortion to be legal. End of story. Anti-Abortion means you want abortion to be illegal. End of story.

I'm personally going to stick with Pro-Choice and Pro-Life, because those are everyone's preferred names, and I don't have a problem with that. But I'm a little sick of Pro-Choicers acting like Pro-Abortion means something that it doesn't. Especially since Pro-Choice isn't the right name at all. It's complete propaganda. Pro-Choice? The only choice you are supporting that we are not is the choice to legally have an abortion, but the name makes it sound like Pro-Choicers are paragons of freedom. You're not. It is one single choice, that even your side frequently claims is only a necessary evil.

I wouldn't mind being called Anti-Abortion as long as your side was called Pro-Abortion. If we are called Anti-Abortion while you are Pro-Choice, though, there is an unbalance. Pro-Life is propaganda too, although I personally think it is a less heinous one than Pro-Choice. But when you get to use your propaganda and we don't, you come off as the paragons of freedom, while we're the evil people trying to take away your abortions. It's something that really pisses me off about the Associated Press, that they actually call Pro-Choicers Pro-Choicers, but Pro-Lifers are Anti-Abortion activists. It's so much bullshit.

Anyways. If you want to continue this conversation, start posting in the subforum, or you will be banned.


I'm anti-abortion (I also wouldn't mind being referred to as that on this issue but I'm also basically pro-life all around so that works for me too), I'm going to have to respectfully disagree with you in regard to the rest. Pro-abortion implies that you are in favor of abortion. Pro-choice in reference to the abortion issue simply implies that you are in favor of letting their be a choice (currently on the part of the mother) whether or not she wants to carry to term or have an abortion.

*Pro used as both a prefix and a preposition in this case is defined as: being in favor of or championing.

It is possible for someone to be morally against the idea of abortions and yet still be in favor of letting the mothers making that choice and they've given a variety of different reasons for it.

So, I guess I'm opening up the story again. Pro-abortion implies that you are in favor of abortions, 'pro-abortions being legal in some or all cases' would be the lengthy version of what the term 'pro-choice' is being used for. I do agree that both 'pro-life' and 'pro-choice' are misleading and meant to make the other side look bad.
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