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 Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 9:59 pm
i joined this guild to have somone to talk to, but i can never find anyone on line i would like to know more about religion but the only person who would teach me ....i think he is afraid of teaching me ... like he thinks i would think he was pushing me or somthing .......he is NOT the reason i want to learn just so you know i need help crying or i might lose myself and everything i love at this time i am being FORCED to go to cathlic church (hate it)(mostly cause i'm forced ) and i hate the cathlics in my family......my uncle thinks it is ok to strike me because my boyfriend is a mormon and i WON"T break up with the man i love because of anyone's religion i just need some one to teach and or talk to thank you heart
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Posted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 3:59 am
If your uncle has hit you that is abuse, plain and simple. I am not trying to get anyone in trouble (your uncle) but you deserve better than that. You can report it. Stand up for yourself - does your mom or dad know about this? They should also stand up for you. They could disagree with what you are doing or thinking, but they should never tolerate one of their children being hit or abused!
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Posted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 7:12 am
MsRoseLovingJo If your uncle has hit you that is abuse, plain and simple. I am not trying to get anyone in trouble (your uncle) but you deserve better than that. You can report it. Stand up for yourself - does your mom or dad know about this? They should also stand up for you. They could disagree with what you are doing or thinking, but they should never tolerate one of their children being hit or abused! mom doesn't live with me or care ,dad (when he was around)beat me too......i live with my grandma on my aunt and uncle's farm and she doesn't know about it ...and i'm not going to tell her....we can't move even because this is the only place we can aford to live anywhere else stare when i do stand up for myself he just hits me twice as hard........i need help not giveing up heart
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Posted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 7:30 am
I am online for around an hour every day. I'll send you a friend request and we can talk. I'm new in the Church, but I can be a good listener if you'll have me...
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Posted: Sat Jul 12, 2008 9:01 am
You don't have to take that. If he's abusing you then the police need to get involved since you can't effectively defend yourself.
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Posted: Sat Jul 12, 2008 10:42 am
Shinikaze You don't have to take that. If he's abusing you then the police need to get involved since you can't effectively defend yourself. i can't tell over here the cathlic church rules ...they make anything go away besides i have done too good of a job hideing it from everyone to protect my grandma(how razes me)......my boyfriend didn't even know till he huged me one day and i screamed in pain...
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Posted: Sat Jul 12, 2008 12:21 pm
First of all, you need to tell your boyfriend that you want to learn about the Church and that he needs to not be afraid of telling you about it.
Secondly, you should tell him to tell his bishop or branch president about your home situation, they'll be able to contact the proper authorities.
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Posted: Sat Jul 12, 2008 5:42 pm
Lucentas First of all, you need to tell your boyfriend that you want to learn about the Church and that he needs to not be afraid of telling you about it. Secondly, you should tell him to tell his bishop or branch president about your home situation, they'll be able to contact the proper authorities. That is what you need to do, also if you want to know if it is true just pray. Endure to the end. Hang in there, you can do this with Heavenly father's help.
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Posted: Sat Jul 12, 2008 9:47 pm
Gunslinger Matt Lucentas First of all, you need to tell your boyfriend that you want to learn about the Church and that he needs to not be afraid of telling you about it. Secondly, you should tell him to tell his bishop or branch president about your home situation, they'll be able to contact the proper authorities. That is what you need to do, also if you want to know if it is true just pray. Endure to the end. Hang in there, you can do this with Heavenly father's help. i'm afraid they won't beleve me besides if they came out i'd be forced to lie ...money is tight and i we (grandma and i) can't afford to live anywhere else especialy with the surgery i just found out i have to have...all grandma does is worry about money and about god ...after 16 years i just confermed to myself that he is real.....i think i need help with the rest heart
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Posted: Sun Jul 13, 2008 11:57 pm
Luna_C_Bug i joined this guild to have somone to talk to, but i can never find anyone on line i would like to know more about religion but the only person who would teach me ....i think he is afraid of teaching me ... like he thinks i would think he was pushing me or somthing .......he is NOT the reason i want to learn just so you know i need help crying or i might lose myself and everything i love at this time i am being FORCED to go to cathlic church (hate it)(mostly cause i'm forced ) and i hate the cathlics in my family......my uncle thinks it is ok to strike me because my boyfriend is a mormon and i WON"T break up with the man i love because of anyone's religion i just need some one to teach and or talk to thank you heart Okay, here goes. It sounds like there are 2 MAJOR problems going on. 1. is that you are a kid/teen living in an abusive household (oh, and don't blame the Catholic church for that. I know some awesome people who are Catholic. And I know Jerks who are Mormons. But I ALSO know that the LDS church is true because I have studied and prayed and God has answered me, and so I have to go on that, not the people) 2. is that you want to learn about the LDS (Mormon) church but your Mormon boyfriend is too shy about his religion and "pushing" you to talk to you about it. Okay, issue 1 is a tough one. A really tough one. Are you in the US? How old are you? However, if you are not ready to talk to your grandma about the abuse and such, for now we will just pray for you to have courage and safety till your situation can change. 2. We can certainly tell you about the teachings of the church, but to really study it, it would be great to talk with some missionaries in your area. But if you are a kid, they can't came to your house with out your parent's permission. Though they COULD come to your BOYFRIEND'S house if he asked them to! Anyway, just a thought. So, what would you like to know?
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Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 8:46 am
The Church has a welfare program, they'll be able to help you and your grandma, and maybe even help pay for your surgery. And I'm absolutely certain they'll believe you, they're never skeptics.
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Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 11:57 am
Kipluck Luna_C_Bug i joined this guild to have somone to talk to, but i can never find anyone on line i would like to know more about religion but the only person who would teach me ....i think he is afraid of teaching me ... like he thinks i would think he was pushing me or somthing .......he is NOT the reason i want to learn just so you know i need help crying or i might lose myself and everything i love at this time i am being FORCED to go to cathlic church (hate it)(mostly cause i'm forced ) and i hate the cathlics in my family......my uncle thinks it is ok to strike me because my boyfriend is a mormon and i WON"T break up with the man i love because of anyone's religion i just need some one to teach and or talk to thank you heart Okay, here goes. It sounds like there are 2 MAJOR problems going on. 1. is that you are a kid/teen living in an abusive household (oh, and don't blame the Catholic church for that. I know some awesome people who are Catholic. And I know Jerks who are Mormons. But I ALSO know that the LDS church is true because I have studied and prayed and God has answered me, and so I have to go on that, not the people) 2. is that you want to learn about the LDS (Mormon) church but your Mormon boyfriend is too shy about his religion and "pushing" you to talk to you about it. Okay, issue 1 is a tough one. A really tough one. Are you in the US? How old are you? However, if you are not ready to talk to your grandma about the abuse and such, for now we will just pray for you to have courage and safety till your situation can change. 2. We can certainly tell you about the teachings of the church, but to really study it, it would be great to talk with some missionaries in your area. But if you are a kid, they can't came to your house with out your parent's permission. Though they COULD come to your BOYFRIEND'S house if he asked them to! Anyway, just a thought. So, what would you like to know? i live in the us and i am 16 now....if i draw any atenchion (legaly) to myself my father will come and take me away and that is worse than it is now
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ConcreteAngel Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 10:44 pm
Don't mean to pry but what state? I have a cousin in the police force down there I could talk to if needed. Also, the others are right, you need to get out of the situation. As for learning, just ask your bf to have the missionaries at his house to teach you the lessons. They would be more than happy to and he can see your real interest.
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 11:14 am
thank you to everyone who has pesponede to my plee heart
it has come to my atenchion that some of you have not only contacted me but also my bf... .....how do i put this?.......pleace don't contact him this realy has nothing to do with him and i joined this guild to help solve problems not make new ones .....thanks again heart
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Posted: Tue Jul 29, 2008 10:39 am
we're all just trying to help.
We can answer questions and give advice, but it will all avail to nothing if it is not put into action by someone.
In the worst situations I find that humming a hymn helps. The words to "I know that my redeemer lives" are very inspirational and uplifting. And heavenly father promised that he will never give us trials greater then we are able to handle.
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