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 Posted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 3:03 am
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Posted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 6:49 am
You've been let down a lot in the past so it is natural to feel insecure. Mabye the fact that your girlfriend is questioning you love for her means that she is feeling insecure to. I can relate to the way your feeling because of what happened to me in the past, basically I got bullied quite badly and made fun of, and even today I have no idea why, I think I was around a bunch of brats. Basically it took me a while to get close to anyone again but now that I have found really nice people I can once again feel comfortable around new people.
So basically my advice is take a chance on this girl. Like I said before the fact she is questioning your love to her could mean she is insecure and if feeling the way you do. You could try talking to her about what you just said, she might be understanding. I think she likes you or she wouldn't question the way you feel.
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Posted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 10:33 am
[CherryBlossom] You've been let down a lot in the past so it is natural to feel insecure. Mabye the fact that your girlfriend is questioning you love for her means that she is feeling insecure to. I can relate to the way your feeling because of what happened to me in the past, basically I got bullied quite badly and made fun of, and even today I have no idea why, I think I was around a bunch of brats. Basically it took me a while to get close to anyone again but now that I have found really nice people I can once again feel comfortable around new people. So basically my advice is take a chance on this girl. Like I said before the fact she is questioning your love to her could mean she is insecure and if feeling the way you do. You could try talking to her about what you just said, she might be understanding. I think she likes you or she wouldn't question the way you feel.
Thank you.
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Posted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 1:22 pm
OK well.. this was why my boyfriend and i broke up.. well partially... you see I never trusted his love for me.. However the one way I would know if he loved me was if he was romantic towards me and made me feel like the most special girl on earth.Also if my ex listened to me more then I think i would of felt more loved...
Definitely be romantic towards her, make her feel special like she means everything to you because you know she does mean everything and LISTEN to her when she has a problem. It is truly the best way to show you love someone.
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Posted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 3:25 pm
Don't sweat the small things in life. Unfortunately, while your heart may be filled with emotions, you still have a lot of worldly wisdom to aquire. Just simplify your life, go with the flow, and things will return to their balance. Instead of focusing on others, focus on yourself.
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Posted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 5:48 pm
It sounds to me like both of you are insecure. Just take things slowly, and try to help each other learn to trust.
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Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 12:49 pm
It would appear that you both are fairly insecure about this relationship. The two of you may want to sit down and perhaps discuss your insecurities with one another, as well as let your relationship take its course. No point on rushing anything.
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Posted: Sat Sep 24, 2005 5:31 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 24, 2005 5:35 pm
skygraygirl1587 OK well.. this was why my boyfriend and i broke up.. well partially... you see I never trusted his love for me.. However the one way I would know if he loved me was if he was romantic towards me and made me feel like the most special girl on earth.Also if my ex listened to me more then I think i would of felt more loved... Definitely be romantic towards her, make her feel special like she means everything to you because you know she does mean everything and LISTEN to her when she has a problem. It is truly the best way to show you love someone. [Im sorry! I know double posting is wrong, but:] This is an extremely valid piece of information in my book. I think that if you two communicate everything you can with eachother without fear of judgement, without resentment, regret, or any sort of doubt, you could grow very strong in eachother, and I know that that will make your bond strong enough to withstand just bout anything. [well said, skygraygirl!] wink
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Posted: Sat Sep 24, 2005 6:15 pm
::hugs:: I know exactly how you feel; I am so insecure in my relationship too because of how I've been treated. I don't trust my boyfriend 100% even though I should, and now I can kind of relate to where he's coming from through your post. It is pretty weird about her stalker ... should really open the lines of communication; be totally honest with one another, without communication, where is a relationship? Maybe one or the both of you should take a slight breather if she can't trust you or vice versa. I hope everything works out.
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Posted: Sat Sep 24, 2005 9:02 pm
If the typing patterns of this stalker of hers are identical to how she types, I would say there is a very strong chance that it is actually her. Sadly, while I wouldn't like to come right out and say it's COMMON, I have known lots of girls that do that kind of thing - they try and raise drama in their life. For what reason or purpose, I've never figured out (I don't generally hang around chicks, since I'm a big gamer - 95% of my friends are guys wink ). I've never liked the "attention whore" type of girl though.
Also, if this "stalker" knows only things she would know - that's another bet right there that it is actually her. While you may be insecure, it sounds to me that this girl is equally as insecure as you are, if not more, if she gets depressed as much as you say. While you may greatly care for her, I really don't think it's worth your time if she's pulling this "stalker" crap and doubting everything you tell her.
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Posted: Sun Sep 25, 2005 10:30 am
Reivena If the typing patterns of this stalker of hers are identical to how she types, I would say there is a very strong chance that it is actually her. Sadly, while I wouldn't like to come right out and say it's COMMON, I have known lots of girls that do that kind of thing - they try and raise drama in their life. For what reason or purpose, I've never figured out (I don't generally hang around chicks, since I'm a big gamer - 95% of my friends are guys wink ). I've never liked the "attention whore" type of girl though. Also, if this "stalker" knows only things she would know - that's another bet right there that it is actually her. While you may be insecure, it sounds to me that this girl is equally as insecure as you are, if not more, if she gets depressed as much as you say. While you may greatly care for her, I really don't think it's worth your time if she's pulling this "stalker" crap and doubting everything you tell her. Woo! Your dont like female friends for the exact same reasons I do.. an yes, most of my friends are guys... Not to be a jerk and change the subject, but Im really REALLY curious; How do you have guy friends and a jealous boyfriend at the same time?? I barely hang out with em anymore because he scared em away... U_U; *wimper*
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