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Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 8:20 pm

1.theres this guy i mite like and well the last time i saw him in meh mind and 1 of meh friends he was flirtin with meh. he already for sure likes this other girl. how do guys usually act if they like a girl?

2.both of the ppl i like which i figured out who they r both left and now m rlly sad and i keep like rememberin things about them and i end up cryin alot more and it takes alot once i start thinkin bout them to get meh happy. any advice on how either i stop thinkin bout them so much of how not 2 start cryin once i remember somethin.

3.one of meh friends is givin meh a bunch of crap cuz i figured out who i rlly like and she said i acted like all the rest never meant anythin 2 meh and tat i move on way 2 quickly. should i try 2 actually tlk 2 her or just leave it alone 4 now?

4.i told one of meh friends who i like and she kept havin these mood swimgs where one sec. she be all nice to meh and the nxt she be mad at meh. while she was mad she kept tryin 2 get meh 2 say who i like even though i dont want 2 tell anyone else cuz 2 ppl already knw and im havin some trust issues rite now cuz ppl keep breakin meh trust.

5.meh sis tells meh everythin and im startin 2 feel overwhelmed and i dont knw whether 2 tell her or not also i need 2 tlk 2 her bout a few things but im scared tat she will get mad at meh for it. should i tlk 2 her or just let her tell meh everythin?

Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 9:14 pm

well i for one have no idea how to tell if somone likes you or not! i just come out and say it but thats me! but if you talk to some of the other girls im sure they can help you out with this one! sorry bout that! sweatdrop cool

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Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 9:46 pm

I think if someone trying to be close to you, ask you to do stuff with him H.M. or eat lunch togther. If he wants to be alone with you that is a good sign. Hope that help. smile

Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 11:06 pm

see told ya thed be more help than me! mrgreen

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Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 11:59 pm

it depends some guys behave differently than others. some show it some just don't. i guess the only thing you could do is ask. sweatdrop

Posted: Fri May 23, 2008 12:53 am

i agree again! mrgreen

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Posted: Fri May 23, 2008 4:08 am

agree 100%...! ! ! 3nodding

Posted: Fri May 23, 2008 9:12 am

xD i guess everyone agrees

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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 12:02 am

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4.latley one of meh friends turned goth. we got into a coversation bout cuttin in 2nd period. Then in 4th i took meh pencil and was cuttin into meh skin with it and leaving cuts in the shape of hearts. i dont knw y but latley i have been missin one of the guys i love so much and he doesnt knw tat i love him which is probably part of it. i dont want to keep doing this but i feel like it relases things. i dont want it to become worse. how do i stop?? i would luv to tlk to meh mom bout it but im afriad she will make meh get help. i would luv to tlk to anyone but i couldnt stand them sayin i need help or anythin. most already think im over obssed with him. HELP!!

OMG...! ! !
does doing that not hurt you...?
i mean cutting is something emo's addicted to (especially when they're sooo down)
maybe you should cheer up to stop it...
it's something i do every night...(it's the opposite of my hobby of crying like a dumb emo evry night, and i tried it) emo

Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 3:49 pm

koolcat18

osirisgurl

4.latley one of meh friends turned goth. we got into a coversation bout cuttin in 2nd period. Then in 4th i took meh pencil and was cuttin into meh skin with it and leaving cuts in the shape of hearts. i dont knw y but latley i have been missin one of the guys i love so much and he doesnt knw tat i love him which is probably part of it. i dont want to keep doing this but i feel like it relases things. i dont want it to become worse. how do i stop?? i would luv to tlk to meh mom bout it but im afriad she will make meh get help. i would luv to tlk to anyone but i couldnt stand them sayin i need help or anythin. most already think im over obssed with him. HELP!!

OMG...! ! !
does doing that not hurt you...?
i mean cutting is something emo's addicted to (especially when they're sooo down)
maybe you should cheer up to stop it...
it's something i do every night...(it's the opposite of my hobby of crying like a dumb emo evry night, and i tried it) emo

(i didn ever break through meh skin.)
thx whenever i fell like doin tat i remember tat i shouldnt hurt mehself and stuff and the guy is also meh friend so i remember tat atleast he still loves meh as a friend. its been alot better. its been almost 2 wks. since i did tat so yeah.

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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 3:56 pm

ehh dont cut urself thats soo wrong! emos are poor excuses of people who think they have bad problems or a hard life when in turn its the people that are happy that have the hardest life and problems! like i have a bunch of pproblems but you dont hear me talking about cutting myself! instead i just try to be happy! mrgreen besides we dont need anymore emos in htis world we have wayyyyyyyy to many! mrgreen

Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 5:19 pm

JJ is super duper

ehh dont cut urself thats soo wrong! emos are poor excuses of people who think they have bad problems or a hard life when in turn its the people that are happy that have the hardest life and problems! like i have a bunch of pproblems but you dont hear me talking about cutting myself! instead i just try to be happy! mrgreen besides we dont need anymore emos in htis world we have wayyyyyyyy to many! mrgreen

dont wrry it only happened 2wice and i have stopped so its all gud.

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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 5:57 pm

osirisgurl

JJ is super duper

ehh dont cut urself thats soo wrong! emos are poor excuses of people who think they have bad problems or a hard life when in turn its the people that are happy that have the hardest life and problems! like i have a bunch of pproblems but you dont hear me talking about cutting myself! instead i just try to be happy! mrgreen besides we dont need anymore emos in htis world we have wayyyyyyyy to many! mrgreen

dont wrry it only happened 2wice and i have stopped so its all gud.

good! mrgreen

Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 7:35 am

sorry guys i must correct you all. you guys have a bad stereotype of emos. first things first. emo stands for emotional so everyone is somewhat emo. secondly emo has become some sort of style. that's what it stands for now. so when someone dresses in black and say that they are emo it does not mean that they cut themselves or are depressed all the time. I have emo friends and they are awesome. it's just their sense of style. also jj you have to understand that people have different ways of dealing with their problems. some people can't just say ok ill smile at life. for instance im not that kind of person. for example if i have a problem i can't laugh i lash out and do other things. smiling will just get me angry. also for problem 4. if you continue you will have to get help. just by doing it once. you should be getting help.

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Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 12:52 am

osirisgurl

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osirisgurl

4.latley one of meh friends turned goth. we got into a coversation bout cuttin in 2nd period. Then in 4th i took meh pencil and was cuttin into meh skin with it and leaving cuts in the shape of hearts. i dont knw y but latley i have been missin one of the guys i love so much and he doesnt knw tat i love him which is probably part of it. i dont want to keep doing this but i feel like it relases things. i dont want it to become worse. how do i stop?? i would luv to tlk to meh mom bout it but im afriad she will make meh get help. i would luv to tlk to anyone but i couldnt stand them sayin i need help or anythin. most already think im over obssed with him. HELP!!

OMG...! ! !
does doing that not hurt you...?
i mean cutting is something emo's addicted to (especially when they're sooo down)
maybe you should cheer up to stop it...
it's something i do every night...(it's the opposite of my hobby of crying like a dumb emo evry night, and i tried it) emo

(i didn ever break through meh skin.)
thx whenever i fell like doin tat i remember tat i shouldnt hurt mehself and stuff and the guy is also meh friend so i remember tat atleast he still loves meh as a friend. its been alot better. its been almost 2 wks. since i did tat so yeah.

so...
how are you doing now...?
still having problems...?

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