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 Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 6:46 pm
Ok so the girl i like is toying with my emotions and braging about the guys she is dateing and what not but i still have 2 months and 28 days before I can date. I really like this girl, she is a member she is a runner and is really cute!!
So i just need some help with what i should do.
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Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 9:42 pm
Well, I think she is really interested in you. Us girls kind of have wierd ways to show it sometimes. Once you are old enough to date (I know how it feels, I still have to wait until the 21st of July this year to start dating), but, I think you should ask her out on a group date for fun! biggrin biggrin biggrin
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Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 11:29 am
I personally think that a girl who plays with guys emotions like that isn't worth the time to deal with, but if you really do like the girl, just remember to keep your distance until after 16. Really though, if she's really playing with you, get away from her and find other things to do for a while. then get back to her(say... 2 to 3 months later). If she still means something to you and she feels the same way, then it'll be fine. Just remember where you want to end up.
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Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 11:58 am
I have to say I agree with Glimare. Some people are different and show things in different ways, yes, but... personally I'd say just get to know her as a person before you go and date her when you can. A relationship like that usually turns out much better if it starts out as friendship, because if you break up or something like that, you're still able to fall back on the friendship, rather than feeling the need to avoid the other person all the time.
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Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 4:52 pm
Silriel I have to say I agree with Glimare. Some people are different and show things in different ways, yes, but... personally I'd say just get to know her as a person before you go and date her when you can. A relationship like that usually turns out much better if it starts out as friendship, because if you break up or something like that, you're still able to fall back on the friendship, rather than feeling the need to avoid the other person all the time. she and i have been friends for like 5 years and i just started liking her like 6 months ago. We talk like everyday via email.
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Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 12:07 pm
honestly, if she's messing with your emotions a lot, i tink she likes you. that's just my opinion
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Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:15 pm
Some girls, when they really like a guy, will brag about their involvement with other guys to attempt to make them jealous, or to see if they will react with jealousy. At the same time, this is not the most mature approach, and may be a signal, if indeed she likes you, that she is not truly ready to date much. I say ask her on a group date when you're old enough and just have fun being her friend. It sounds like torture sometimes, but my advice is to avoid steady dating in high school. It almost inevitably ends in heartbreak. Sorry to sound pessimistic, but looking back on my high school days, it all seems so obvious that I shoud've waited for steady dating.
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Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 6:41 am
Personally I wouldn't stress too much about it. I know that is hard not to do, but a lot can happen in two years. You will most likely meet tons of new people in that span so keep your mind and heart open for the time being. As the time gets closer and you are still interested in her "that way" then go all out. Plan a "first date" party with some friends who are 16 or older. Let everyone pick a date and go do something fun together. Keep it light. Things can move extremely fast if you let it get too serious too soon, so wait on the serious, steady dating. You have a long time before you're ready for marriage, which is what dating is preparing for, and she may be the one for you, but then again, she might not.
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Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 3:14 pm
I still have yet to ever understand women, so I'm afraid I can be of no help to you sad
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Posted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 9:38 am
Just ask her out! Chances are she'll be flattered. Since you've known her so long, it could be that she talks to you about the guys in her life because she's so comfortable around you. I've had that happen to me before with good guy friends. My mind says that when you turn 16, just bite the bullet and go for it. Who knows what might happen
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Posted: Sun May 04, 2008 5:25 am
oink! look I am a piggy! heart
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Posted: Sun May 04, 2008 3:53 pm
Princess Shira oink! look I am a piggy! heart
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Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2008 3:54 pm
well if a girl is toying with your emotions I don't even see why your giving her the time of day cause obviously if you dont like it its probably not going to work out anyway if you do get hooked.... and besides there's a matter of age difference....
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Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2008 3:59 pm
she and i have been friends for like 5 years and i just started liking her like 6 months ago. We talk like everyday via email.
but if you have known her for a while i'd say just go for it ( er when your 16 of course...) biggrin
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Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2008 7:38 pm
She sounds like a major jerk, just ignore her. Dating isn't worth it anyway. You have more important things to concentrate on, like an education and a mission.
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