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 Posted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 9:39 pm
My mother and I took my girls to Woodie Woodchucks *it's basically like Chuck E Cheese* a couple of days back.
I wore a pink tank top and a pair of jeans. I had my hair put back into a ponytail and had no makeup on. I actually was having a "I look like s**t but I don't care" kind of day...normally I put on a bit of makeup and wear a shirt to cover up my tummy, but I was out with my girls and I didn't care what anyone thought of my appearance.
Well as I was watching my girls run through the playground, a guy approached me. He told me he liked how I looked, that I looked nice and looked me up and down and grinned. We talked about kids and Woodie Woodchucks for a bit and then he asked me if he could talk to me later. I flashed my ring at him and told him that I've been married for 7 years. He politely took his leave after wishing me a good day.
Now. I though I looked pretty shitty...I put no effort in my appearance and my tummy flap that I got from pregnancy was visible through my jeans *you can see the bumps of where my tummy sags, thankfully not too much* and yet he thought I looked good. I still can't understand why he thought I looked good, but I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Discussion~
Have you gone out wearing something that you thought was blah/unappealing, just to get compliments about it?
Do you hide your pudge or do you like to accentuate your added weight? What styles do you wear to flatter your figure?
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Posted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 9:51 pm
Thats awesome.......but me when I look bad, I LOOK BAD.....LOL
no one wants to see me on a bad day, I also feel bad when I look bad.
I love my good days though, I think sometimes I might even kinda act like I look hot, even though I probably dont....Oh well.....HEH HEH
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Posted: Tue Aug 30, 2005 8:08 am
It's nice to get compliments from total strangers. Which reminds me, I should go find some total strangers this week to boost up my pride before school starts again. I can't remember the last time that that has happened to me, but I know that it has happened. Quote: I love my good days though, I think sometimes I might even kinda act like I look hot, even though I probably dont....Oh well.....HEH HEH Beauty is not in the eye of the beholder. It is in the heart of the beauty being beheld. (I'm good for meaningful, practical advice once in awhile. lol )
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Posted: Wed Aug 31, 2005 7:26 pm
Ha..Good for you. ^_^
I''ve never had that happened. To tell you the truth I don''t think a guy has ever given me a compliment..unless it was on this guild. I don''t even remember the last compliment I ever got..that wasn''t in this guild.
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Posted: Wed Aug 31, 2005 7:59 pm
yeah same here.....I do get compiments everyonce in awhile from my gay freind and my family......but besides that it is always from someone in this guild, which is not all that bad 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Aug 31, 2005 8:48 pm
98% Of the time I wear things that flatter my figure. Always bootleg or flare jeans that are low rise, wrap tops or the three quarter length sleeve and in a cut that flatters my bust and not hides or flaunts them too much.( Usually form fitting tops) If I wear a skirt it's somewhere below or up to my knees I like the uneven skirts and the long ones with slits on the sides.
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Posted: Wed Aug 31, 2005 10:13 pm
Hey good for you, I always get the "Oh your such a nice guy" and the "You have a great personality", I have never gotten compimented on my looks, maybe my clothes, but never on the way I looked. I am that guy you see that has a good number of friends that are girls and is stright, but is perminantly stuck in the friend zone.
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Posted: Tue Sep 06, 2005 8:41 pm
Child of Wrath Hey good for you, I always get the "Oh your such a nice guy" and the "You have a great personality", I have never gotten compimented on my looks, maybe my clothes, but never on the way I looked. I am that guy you see that has a good number of friends that are girls and is stright, but is perminantly stuck in the friend zone. Same here, I always end up being the "Guy friend". I mean its nice that I can be there for them to confide in and everything, but when my friends are faster on the uptake and get everyone i'm even maybe interested in ((which is pretty much the case at the moment)) what am I supposed to do?
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Posted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 8:50 am
o_o thats never happened to me...^_^ but i dont miss not having it happen too much. i'd be weirded out if it did. =D but...yeah i've got my icky tummy flap that i hate, it makes it even harder than it already is to buy jeans for my fatass, but hmm... people tell me what i look best in are my pair of wide a** pants with a fitted, button down shirt. I actually figured out that its because the fittedness makes my waist looks smaller, and evens out my hips and smaller bust.^_^ its a verry nice effect. >.> <.< a picture. 
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Posted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 9:33 am
You look nice in that picture ^^^^^^^^
I like those pin stripe pants they are awesome heart
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Posted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 6:32 pm
DUUUMB!! You look nice in that picture ^^^^^^^^ I like those pin stripe pants they are awesome heart thank you!::blushes:: merf..i love long, floor length jean skirts, but apparently i dont look too good in them. (of course, they hide my fat ankles T__T )
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2005 8:18 am
Sergius Child of Wrath Hey good for you, I always get the "Oh your such a nice guy" and the "You have a great personality", I have never gotten compimented on my looks, maybe my clothes, but never on the way I looked. I am that guy you see that has a good number of friends that are girls and is stright, but is perminantly stuck in the friend zone. Same here, I always end up being the "Guy friend". I mean its nice that I can be there for them to confide in and everything, but when my friends are faster on the uptake and get everyone i'm even maybe interested in ((which is pretty much the case at the moment)) what am I supposed to do?
You'll find someone, don't give up heart
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