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XxAcid_Dipped_WafflesxX Crew
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 Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 5:17 am
Yeah it's a song by Simple Plan that I'm listening too....and at the moment, I think he does hate me!
I've had so much drama and crap go on that it's not even funny! >: (
Okay so, Jessie got a new boyfriend named Mark. He's like, perfect for me in practically all ways. And I loves him to death, but my friends. Yes, my dreaded friends, keep giving me crap about how I'm ditching them and stuff and how I don't sit with them at lunch anymore.
Well you see, Mark's a junior and I'm a sophmore so that means we don't see much of each other. The only time I truelly have with him is before school in the library, lunch, and a bit of time afterschool before he goes to swim practice, community choir, community band, or Skills USA and that's NOT a lot of time xP
My friends don't understand that and still acuse me of ditching them even though I can talk to them afterschool (which I do!) and see them in class and between classes!
I think they are being unfair, what do you girls think?
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 5:28 am
Also, as you can tell from above, him and I have BUSY schedules. WAY busy!
Mine:
Choir (school)
Science Olympiad (LOTS of LATE meetings!)
Honor Student type stuff
Getting into Honor Society (Ugh!)
I have one of the hardest English teachers in TOWN!
His:
Swimming
Skills USA (Also a lot of meetings)
Communtiy Choir
Community Band
Being a Junior (lots of work and college stuff >.> )
It's stressful and we both are very tired by the time we get home! xP
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XxAcid_Dipped_WafflesxX Crew
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 7:12 am
You two sure have busy schedules. O_O
Aannnnnnd I could give you advice on how to be with your boyfriend without giving your friends the feeling you don't care 'bout them anymore, but I can't.
I don't have much experience in relationships (like, not) and your schedules are more than I do in one month.
So all that I can tell you is...;
"Good luck and may there be a solution to this problem".
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 9:47 am
you could always hang out with all of them at once.
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[heart attack] Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 12:41 pm
Maybe they're not being true friends. :0
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 12:48 pm
PSSH! They are CERTAINLY NOT acting
like they true friends. they need to face
the fact that you are obviously not ditching
them and you are just spending a little time
with the guy. maybe you should hangout
with both friends and the guy. :/ i hope
that helps. :]]
DaniieDee
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 1:28 pm
I see both problems.
You should see your boyfriend.
But you need your friends too.
I see what they mean. To me (On an online not there opinion) it seems like your spending most of your time with him. And teachers are constantly keeping you busy with work. So I'd rule out class time to spend with your friends.
Since you just got together with him, I'd try to spend more time with your friends. If this guy really does like you, he'd try to make your schedules intertwine too.
But that's just me.
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 8:18 pm
I'd probably have to agree with TRS. While boyfriends are important, friends are very important too - usually more important, actually.
Normally, friends are still there even when the guy is gone. (Not that I'm saying you'll break up. I really hope that you don't. It's just, y'know, a possibility.)
But yeah, it sounds like the two of you are waaay too busy... Why don't you sit with him and your friends at lunch? That way, no one's excluded. If it's because he sits with his friends, then maybe you could work something out where one day the two of you sit with his friends, the next day the two of you sit with your friends, etc... If he's not willing to compromise and sit with you and your friends now and then, I'd have to say that he's not making nearly as many sacrifices for the relationship as you are.
But y'know, I'm an excluded third party. I don't know your boyfriend or friends personally, so I can't make accurate judgement... but for what it's worth, there's my advice. Hope it works out, dear.
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XxAcid_Dipped_WafflesxX Crew
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Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 5:32 am
I actually got one of my friends to sit with us at lunch. And she loves Mark (not like that, but in a friends way cause she's a lesbian) She was telling me later on how cute him and I look together and all this other awesome stuff.
So that's one friend taken care of then my other best buddy "interrogated" him and he passed with flying colors so she's approved of him ^^;;
So, I'm doing alright with mixing them all together....sorta ;D
Wish me luck! heart
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 6:53 am
I don't think God hates you. I think you're friends need to back off and stop being so bitchy. Good friends will be there for you when you need them and support you. Get together with your friends on a weekend or something sans Mark and see if that helps. Just girl time. 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 7:29 am
Weekends.
It would be a great time to get your friends, and Mark, together and hang out. You can see everyone at the same time, and satisfy them.
Also, you should probably sit down and talk with your friends about your busy schedule. When you are young and still in school, you have a lot of work to focus on. Not everyone has free time on their hands before, after, or even during school hours. Even if you don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend, that list of activities you posted earlier can get quite hectic and keep you busy.
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 9:42 am
XxAcid_Dipped_WafflesxX I actually got one of my friends to sit with us at lunch. And she loves Mark (not like that, but in a friends way cause she's a lesbian) She was telling me later on how cute him and I look together and all this other awesome stuff.
So that's one friend taken care of then my other best buddy "interrogated" him and he passed with flying colors so she's approved of him ^^;;
So, I'm doing alright with mixing them all together....sorta ;D
Wish me luck! heart Yeah, that's the way to do it.
Make them interact a little.
Soon enough, they'll be able
to stand being with eachother
and accepting you not being
with your friends or with him.
edit: I just read that over and
it seems to make no sense.
Hm.
Oh, well.
G'luck! <3
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