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I'm actually not terribly romantic, not in a 'picnic under the stars' way. I used to be, romance really used to be high on the list, ya know. But what's really great about my hubby and what makes our fun ( wink ) together all the better is that fact that I can be myself around him and he still wants to have sex with me and vise versa. I can be a total b***h, and he can be a thoughtless jerk (our worst qualities, thankfully they don't happen that often) but we still love each other and all that stuff. It really helps me be more comfortable during the fourplay/the sex, I'm not really worrying about impressing him or worrying about him impressing me, we can just... be.

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Ok, personally, the best way to get me ready to jump someone's pants is this (and M0rgan seriously did this to me).

First of all, he met me after work in his tight black jeans. To me, this is an instant, yet subtle turn on, because I know that he's not wearing anything underneath them. So it gets me thinking 'he's naked under that....' eek and then he comes up to me, touches my arm and rubs down it. Throughout the course of our night together, he would touch me many many times in this fashion. It's more like a soft touch-turned rub sort of thing. Very effective. Not only did this turn me on, but it made me want to reciprocate.

After lots of subtle looks, touches, etc, plus going through the motions of "non-sexual hanging out" stuff, it's almost unbearable.

And then we go home....and a good time is had by all... twisted

I love it if we're standing in line for a movie ( our theatre has a small lobby, so everyone has to wait outside to pay ) and it gets cold, he'll slip his hoodie over my head and hold me tight. Some displays of public affestion are ok, but I there are limits...I don't really like being caressed or have my neck kissed in public. And in the end, I ususally end up dumping him because after about a week or more, he decides it's time to have sex even though I'm not sure if he's the right one to be with ( I don't mind waiting for some one truly special wink )

I also really like the idea of having to protect someone, but at the same time, having to be protected by him. Like being at once the hero and the victim. No idea why, I just do.

I always tried to protect my friends, even if they're guys. They mthink it's kinda gay but they know it's all heart. heart

And my friends that are girls know me as a brotherly figure for it. Which is fine by me but I have a lot of sisters now because of it. 3nodding

Damn, wer'e alike then as far as people hurting the ones they love/care about goes. It takes a lot to get me really mad, I have a pretty high tolerance for people in general, and my temper is about as cold as ice. But the minute someone I love or care about is being harmed, I'm going to fight. It's happened once and me and the guy who hit my friend Kayla we're both suspended for fighting on Campus. But he didn't bother her after that. It sort of scares me when I'm angry because it's a rare thing. sweatdrop