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 Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 11:38 pm
ive been in a few relationships. mostly short ones thoug. i havent been able to hold one for more then 2 weeks in a few years. i dont understand why these guys ask me out and then tell me they need to figure s**t out. im sick of being toy'ed with but i want some one to hold me and love me. someone to understand me and someone who want ******** me and leave or screw me over because the relationship isnt what they expected. IM SICK OF HURTING SO I HURT MYSELF. WHY??? WHY ME???
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Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 8:46 pm
How about you just take some time off from relationships. I've always found that it's a waste of time searching for love. When the time's right, love will find you.
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Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 10:32 pm
your right i think ill try that
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Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 8:03 am
You wear your heart on your sleeve. Not everyone finds the right one for them right away, and for some it takes lomger for others.
But the thing is, you're never going to be able to uphold your part of a stable relationship with such instability. You should take advantage of the time that you have being single, and learn about yourself. Sure, you want to be held and feel loved, but you're not going to find true love looking in the wrong places and giving yourself away so easily.
If you want a relationship for the sake of just being held and loved and not giving love, then you'r on the right track.
But if you want something that will last forever, and ever grow, you first have to learn to love and respect yourself, then to love and respect another.
Until you really learn that, you may just end up as the one who is always hurt and never finding the right one that lasts more than two weeks and for a meanginful length of time.
I mean, it may sound silly, but if you want to find the right one, you need to pay attention to where you're looking. And may want to concider profiling.
When I went out with someone, it was like only once that I just picked them out of the crowd, but usually went on group-dates tied in by a friend. That way I'd know about that person and ask about them. Or see what kind of person they were for myself in a social situation.
And you know what? I shook a lot of creeps and kept from making a big mistake that way.
Perhaps you need to think a little bit more about where you find these guys, and watch for the signs of what kind of person they are before you go onto physical base with them.
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Beloved Conversationalist
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Posted: Wed Nov 21, 2007 11:17 am
It's the same reason why guys want you but you don't want them.
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Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 11:26 am
There isn't much for me to say except that I agree with what the first two to reply said, especially Crinis's advice. Everything I would have said is what was already said! These are smart people, listen to them. 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 1:42 pm
Soleq How about you just take some time off from relationships. I've always found that it's a waste of time searching for love. When the time's right, love will find you. i completely agree!
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Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 11:04 am
Try taking some time out. I was kind of in your situation: I've never had a girlfriend even though I'm soon gonna be 21 years old, so after 2 years of tirelessly looking for a girlfriend in college, I gave up and settled for some random play before I can find one.
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Posted: Tue Jul 29, 2008 9:37 am
ShellyFish ive been in a few relationships. mostly short ones thoug. i havent been able to hold one for more then 2 weeks in a few years. i dont understand why these guys ask me out and then tell me they need to figure s**t out. im sick of being toy'ed with but i want some one to hold me and love me. someone to understand me and someone who want ******** me and leave or screw me over because the relationship isnt what they expected. IM SICK OF HURTING SO I HURT MYSELF. WHY??? WHY ME??? its basic human nature hun, men dont really like anything easy thats y some girls play hard to get - maybe u love too strongly - and show ur feelings too early in the relationship - i have a frend like that and she always gets hurt too - anyways dont hurt urself, u see men, women, relationships r like money - when u stop caring, or thinking about it, it comes freely i think we can gat a bit too preoccupied about this whole relationship thing sometimes, and our over preoccupation with it can be the source of our hurt - try to sort out the other parts of ur life and the whole relationship thing will fall in line like clockwork hold ur head up babes
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Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2009 7:06 am
ShellyFish ive been in a few relationships. mostly short ones thoug. i havent been able to hold one for more then 2 weeks in a few years. i dont understand why these guys ask me out and then tell me they need to figure s**t out. im sick of being toy'ed with but i want some one to hold me and love me. someone to understand me and someone who want ******** me and leave or screw me over because the relationship isnt what they expected. IM SICK OF HURTING SO I HURT MYSELF. WHY??? WHY ME??? This is the point where you actually do take a break off the relationships. Just try your best to walk away from that yearning love and desire to feel loved. After you've done that, work on yourself. What do I mean? I mean find a hobby you take pride in find something that makes you, well you. There are so many opportunities out there for you. The more you better yourself the better you feel the more secure you feel without a love. I don't know what it is but I find it very important in love to be secure and happy with your significant other but also secure and happy in your own life with something that you enjoy. Then as people have already stated, it will come to you. I hope this helps :/
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Posted: Tue Aug 25, 2009 12:42 am
For the way you write, you sound like a 15-year-old. At this age, guys are still inmature and they do need to figure s**t out. You'll see how relationships will start getting longer the older you get. Anything like that at an older age is abnormal and requires attention, like a 22-year-old friend of mine who has never lasted more than 6 months with a girl confused
As said here, take a break off relationships.
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