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 Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 11:55 am
Um if me and my gf decide to do it, do we need to take any precautions since we're both girls?
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 12:17 pm
Dental dams. Rubber gloves. Saran wrap. smile
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 2:56 pm
It depends. Are you both virgins? Have you been tested for STDs? Are you in a monogamous (well, in your case bigamous) relationship? If you haven't, you should be tested. If you aren't virgins, that goes double. And regardless, if you aren't in a closed relationship, yes, protection is necessary.
So until you do get tested, and make sure that both of you are on the same page about your sex lives, follow Baka's tips and remember to be very careful.
Love and Vale,
-LD
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 6:45 pm
Leavaros Well, in your came bigamous
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 12:01 am
I meant bi- meaning "two" and gam(ous)- meaning "female". It was a play on words about a lesbian relationship--I didn't think about your sexuality.
Love and Vale,
-LD
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 9:01 am
Okay.
I'm sorry for snapping but that stereotype has hurt me a lot through the years.
But seran-wrap...thats a good idea smile .
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 10:46 pm
Just make sure that you two are clean of any STDS but otherwise I think your good to go. : D
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 9:25 am
SarahArden Okay.
I'm sorry for snapping but that stereotype has hurt me a lot through the years.
But seran-wrap...thats a good idea smile . Don't worry about it, Sarah. I have bi friends who feel the very same way. The way I see it, is if I can't handle a little drama between friends, well, I shouldn't be gay. razz wink But I hope my words didn't fall on deaf ears.... Love and Vale, -LD
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 11:40 am
erm, when you say "get tested", what do you mean exactly? I haven't started dating yet and was wondering how to go about the whole safe sex thing when you're a lesbian.
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 12:15 pm
Go to your doctor and get a blood test done. I think it's called a CBT ir something. Like,"complete bloodwork test". Anyway, don't have sex until you get the results back.
-LD
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 10:00 pm
Malchik_geij erm, when you say "get tested", what do you mean exactly? I haven't started dating yet and was wondering how to go about the whole safe sex thing when you're a lesbian.
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 3:14 pm
That and you really should use plastic gloves or some kind of "dental dams". But if you're just starting to date or you just started dating someone it's always better to just wait. I know that's a bit corny but still. It's the best way to be safe.
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 8:35 pm
yeah, I was thinking of waiting anywhere from 6 months to a couple of years of dating a person before making the decision to go "all the way". Is that unusual?
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 8:42 pm
Malchik_geij yeah, I was thinking of waiting anywhere from 6 months to a couple of years of dating a person before making the decision to go "all the way". Is that unusual?
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 6:21 pm
Yeah. There is no "normal". Every relationship will be different, and there's no shame in waiting. When in doubt, though, wait.
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