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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 7:07 pm
DrasBrisingr I've chosen to abandon this conversation because it's turned into ceaseless bickering. Well maybe not bickering, but repetitively saying the same exact thing. And no one will win. But I do have one thing to say. In response to: The Ressurection Most things are an attempt to manipulate the reality you perceive. However there is a difference between that and attempting to make puppets of people.I wholly disagree. People and animate beings are reality. Without them, there would be none. How do you know if something's real? If you can touch it? Sure, but do you not touch and feel things in your dreams? I don't know about you, but I can. Animate beings make reality. I could also go into the "if a tree falls in the forest, does it make a sound?" thing, but I won't bother. So anyway, there is no difference between trying to manipulat people, and manipulating reality. Besides, I think you have a pretty ******** up definition of "reality", if you think "most things are an attempt to manipulate the reality you percieve." Manipulate fate or destiny, maybe, but not reality. It's the degree and intent with which you do it. Reasoning based on the notion of "good" is an attempt to circumvent reasoning entirely. Except with perfect inaction you cannot help but to manipulate something. I lol'd when you talked about not manipulating reality. It sounds almost as if you think it's some sort of invariable constant. And yes, a tree produces sound waves even if we aren't around to hear it.
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 7:24 pm
Yvaine The Resurrection Where is logic in "good" and "evil"? The two are wholly undefinable as anything more than words subject to personal interpretations. ... Good and evil as words serve no purpose but to create conflict where there was none and to try and rationalize people's actions without using rational thought. Um. Most words are only considered "definable" by majority consensus and, as Lewis Carroll so aptly pointed out, no one has to abide by even a majority decision in their own personal use. To use his example, you can't assume you know what someone means by "glory" until they tell you - which means again you need to understand the person's definition of the words they use to explain. It's more or less like the picture on the Cream of Wheat box - you get an infinite iteration of attempts to understand. At some point, what you really need to ask yourself is, "Why am I bothering?" After which point, I consider it acceptable to kick the annoying git in the jimmies. And that last vituperative bit was an incredibly subjective statement, based not on rational thought but reactionary bitterness. Did someone beat you mercilessly as a child in the name of "goodness", or what? The very definition of "good" means that it has to be solely up to the discretion of each individual. The definition of "bad" is solely dependent on the definition of "good". And wow, a subjective statement in a subjective argument. Please tell me where someone didn't see that coming. It's not based on reason or bitterness, it's based on the only uses of the words I've ever seen. Reason shows complete moral relativity as nothing is inherently good or bad. If it was, we wouldn't have social deviants or the quite extensive difference in morals from culture to culture. Way to take a pot shot at me though. It really helps me appreciate your "point" so much better. rolleyes
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 4:49 pm
The Resurrection DrasBrisingr I've chosen to abandon this conversation because it's turned into ceaseless bickering. Well maybe not bickering, but repetitively saying the same exact thing. And no one will win. But I do have one thing to say. In response to: The Ressurection Most things are an attempt to manipulate the reality you perceive. However there is a difference between that and attempting to make puppets of people.I wholly disagree. People and animate beings are reality. Without them, there would be none. How do you know if something's real? If you can touch it? Sure, but do you not touch and feel things in your dreams? I don't know about you, but I can. Animate beings make reality. I could also go into the "if a tree falls in the forest, does it make a sound?" thing, but I won't bother. So anyway, there is no difference between trying to manipulat people, and manipulating reality. Besides, I think you have a pretty ******** up definition of "reality", if you think "most things are an attempt to manipulate the reality you percieve." Manipulate fate or destiny, maybe, but not reality. It's the degree and intent with which you do it. Reasoning based on the notion of "good" is an attempt to circumvent reasoning entirely. Except with perfect inaction you cannot help but to manipulate something. I lol'd when you talked about not manipulating reality. It sounds almost as if you think it's some sort of invariable constant. And yes, a tree produces sound waves even if we aren't around to hear it. ...I...You can't...Yes, you're trying to manipulate something, but it's negligible. If we said "forget good and evil, it's just a way to manipulate things," we'd also have to say "forget about ever saying anything or doing anything at all, because we wouldn't want to manipulate anything..." You said yourself that except with absolutely no action can we prevent manipulation. So what, you want everyone to never leave their house, never leave their bed, never move or speak at all? We'd just rot. Reality is solely one's perception of one's surroundings. Nothing more, nothing less. That perception can be altered or tainted, but not really manipulated. I suppose it can be manipulated in a way, but not...controlled or molded in the way you're making it sound. It's not invariable, but it can't be altered easily. Trauma, medical conditions, psychological conditions, and certaint unhealthy environments can all alter reality, but as you know, it's not an easy thing. On the same note, peope cannot be manipulated as easy as you may think. You can try to manipulate someone, but you can never truly gain control of them. They'll still have thoughts, still have a subconscious that isn't easily broken into. You might argue, "what about people who are brainwashed?" Those who have been brainwashed are not manipulated in the literal sense of the word. Their perception of reality has been broken. But even they still can't be completely controlled. They can be scared or intimidated into doing things, but not controlled.
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 5:53 pm
Actually... I don't think he means to live in a world of inaction. It is his attempt to move beyond the concepts of good and evil with an objective idea about a subjective concept.
Manipulation isn't being portrayed as a bad thing... so much as he says it will always happen. He is trying to avoid being caught up in what is "good or evil" because those things are the method of manipulating others.
I think i understand his point, I'm just not going very far with it. It has been given poor representation.
I'm sorry Resurrection but you have failed due to lack of understanding the Cognitive dissonance theory.
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 5:55 pm
Khalida Nyoka Actually... I don't think he means to live in a world of inaction. It is his attempt to move beyond the concepts of good and evil with an objective idea about a subjective concept. Manipulation isn't being portrayed as a bad thing... so much as he says it will always happen. He is trying to avoid being caught up in what is "good or evil" because those things are the method of manipulating others. I think i understand his point, I'm just not going very far with it. It has been given poor representation. I'm sorry Resurrection but you have failed due to lack of understanding the Cognitive dissonance theory. I don't know what the ******** Cognitive Dissonance Theory is. lol
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 7:40 pm
The Resurrection Khalida Nyoka Actually... I don't think he means to live in a world of inaction. It is his attempt to move beyond the concepts of good and evil with an objective idea about a subjective concept. Manipulation isn't being portrayed as a bad thing... so much as he says it will always happen. He is trying to avoid being caught up in what is "good or evil" because those things are the method of manipulating others. I think i understand his point, I'm just not going very far with it. It has been given poor representation. I'm sorry Resurrection but you have failed due to lack of understanding the Cognitive dissonance theory. I don't know what the ******** Cognitive Dissonance Theory is. lol Which is probably why you didn't use it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonanceIn short: people have one idea, and you present another. If it conflicts with theirs, it created an uncomfortable psychological tension. Through the use of persuasion (be it Ethos, Pathos, Logos or a combo of the three) one can reduce the tension (the "dissonance") and thereby cause people to accept/integrate or simply understand an opposing view. You would have been going for the simple understanding. However, by not using/understanding the CDT, and using no discernable means of persuasion, people reject your ideas and seek to discredit you, thus making their own position stronger. If they think you are st00pid, then your ideas must be as well. All they need to do is prove to themselves that you are wrong, any way possible, and you will be. All of them disagree with you, and all have gone through their own personal method of discreditting you (look through the posts, you'll see it). I'm in Public Speaking (as a course) and I was forced into learning this... and methods of overcoming it.
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 8:33 pm
Khalida Nyoka The Resurrection Khalida Nyoka Actually... I don't think he means to live in a world of inaction. It is his attempt to move beyond the concepts of good and evil with an objective idea about a subjective concept. Manipulation isn't being portrayed as a bad thing... so much as he says it will always happen. He is trying to avoid being caught up in what is "good or evil" because those things are the method of manipulating others. I think i understand his point, I'm just not going very far with it. It has been given poor representation. I'm sorry Resurrection but you have failed due to lack of understanding the Cognitive dissonance theory. I don't know what the ******** Cognitive Dissonance Theory is. lol Which is probably why you didn't use it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonanceIn short: people have one idea, and you present another. If it conflicts with theirs, it created an uncomfortable psychological tension. Through the use of persuasion (be it Ethos, Pathos, Logos or a combo of the three) one can reduce the tension (the "dissonance") and thereby cause people to accept/integrate or simply understand an opposing view. You would have been going for the simple understanding. However, by not using/understanding the CDT, and using no discernable means of persuasion, people reject your ideas and seek to discredit you, thus making their own position stronger. If they think you are st00pid, then your ideas must be as well. All they need to do is prove to themselves that you are wrong, any way possible, and you will be. All of them disagree with you, and all have gone through their own personal method of discreditting you (look through the posts, you'll see it). I'm in Public Speaking (as a course) and I was forced into learning this... and methods of overcoming it. Oh I can definitely see where they did. :/ I also see where I stupidly let them lead me along the path they wanted like I normally do to other people. Interestingly they'd rather pick at what is in reality an irrelevant attachment to the claim rather than the main thing itself. None of them have done anything about moral relativity, they just all complained about the puppet statement.
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 8:37 pm
The Resurrection Khalida Nyoka The Resurrection Khalida Nyoka Actually... I don't think he means to live in a world of inaction. It is his attempt to move beyond the concepts of good and evil with an objective idea about a subjective concept. Manipulation isn't being portrayed as a bad thing... so much as he says it will always happen. He is trying to avoid being caught up in what is "good or evil" because those things are the method of manipulating others. I think i understand his point, I'm just not going very far with it. It has been given poor representation. I'm sorry Resurrection but you have failed due to lack of understanding the Cognitive dissonance theory. I don't know what the ******** Cognitive Dissonance Theory is. lol Which is probably why you didn't use it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonanceIn short: people have one idea, and you present another. If it conflicts with theirs, it created an uncomfortable psychological tension. Through the use of persuasion (be it Ethos, Pathos, Logos or a combo of the three) one can reduce the tension (the "dissonance") and thereby cause people to accept/integrate or simply understand an opposing view. You would have been going for the simple understanding. However, by not using/understanding the CDT, and using no discernable means of persuasion, people reject your ideas and seek to discredit you, thus making their own position stronger. If they think you are st00pid, then your ideas must be as well. All they need to do is prove to themselves that you are wrong, any way possible, and you will be. All of them disagree with you, and all have gone through their own personal method of discreditting you (look through the posts, you'll see it). I'm in Public Speaking (as a course) and I was forced into learning this... and methods of overcoming it. Oh I can definitely see where they did. :/ I also see where I stupidly let them lead me along the path they wanted like I normally do to other people. Interestingly they'd rather pick at what is in reality an irrelevant attachment to the claim rather than the main thing itself. None of them have done anything about moral relativity, they just all complained about the puppet statement. Which is another tactic used for the discreditting of individuals. I see two options. One is to leave the topic entirely, as it has gone far downhill from where it began. Or you could restate your main point with a different analogy. If they pick at the puppet thing, use a different model to help them understand.
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 8:42 pm
Khalida Nyoka The Resurrection Khalida Nyoka The Resurrection Khalida Nyoka Actually... I don't think he means to live in a world of inaction. It is his attempt to move beyond the concepts of good and evil with an objective idea about a subjective concept. Manipulation isn't being portrayed as a bad thing... so much as he says it will always happen. He is trying to avoid being caught up in what is "good or evil" because those things are the method of manipulating others. I think i understand his point, I'm just not going very far with it. It has been given poor representation. I'm sorry Resurrection but you have failed due to lack of understanding the Cognitive dissonance theory. I don't know what the ******** Cognitive Dissonance Theory is. lol Which is probably why you didn't use it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonanceIn short: people have one idea, and you present another. If it conflicts with theirs, it created an uncomfortable psychological tension. Through the use of persuasion (be it Ethos, Pathos, Logos or a combo of the three) one can reduce the tension (the "dissonance") and thereby cause people to accept/integrate or simply understand an opposing view. You would have been going for the simple understanding. However, by not using/understanding the CDT, and using no discernable means of persuasion, people reject your ideas and seek to discredit you, thus making their own position stronger. If they think you are st00pid, then your ideas must be as well. All they need to do is prove to themselves that you are wrong, any way possible, and you will be. All of them disagree with you, and all have gone through their own personal method of discreditting you (look through the posts, you'll see it). I'm in Public Speaking (as a course) and I was forced into learning this... and methods of overcoming it. Oh I can definitely see where they did. :/ I also see where I stupidly let them lead me along the path they wanted like I normally do to other people. Interestingly they'd rather pick at what is in reality an irrelevant attachment to the claim rather than the main thing itself. None of them have done anything about moral relativity, they just all complained about the puppet statement. Which is another tactic used for the discreditting of individuals. I see two options. One is to leave the topic entirely, as it has gone far downhill from where it began. Or you could restate your main point with a different analogy. If they pick at the puppet thing, use a different model to help them understand. Oh I'm abandoning it. I do understand the prove me stupid to prove my ideas stupid bit. It's already set in their minds that I'm an idiot and due to the trivial nature of this entire debate in the grand scheme of things, it's a waste of effort to pursue it further.
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 8:47 pm
The Resurrection Oh I'm abandoning it. I do understand the prove me stupid to prove my ideas stupid bit. It's already set in their minds that I'm an idiot and due to the trivial nature of this entire debate in the grand scheme of things, it's a waste of effort to pursue it further. And thus the conflict is solved. The attitude will not likely persist beyond this topic, but your opinions may be viewed as slightly less-worthy for a short period of time.
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Posted: Thu Dec 14, 2006 6:37 pm
Yay, I love it when people talk about me as if I'm not around. But I especially liked the part where you pretended it wasn't me. And for once, I'm being completely serious.
And, in my defense, I have nothing against you, Resurrection. I don't even know you well enough to form a judgement for or against you. I do, however, disagree with your point. Maybe a better explanation would help me understand. I don't entirely disagree with Khalida's interpretation of your point, but it still needs some backing. As Khalida himself said, "it has been given poor representation." I'm not trying to attack you or your beliefs. I can come off as a bit harsh at times, but sarcasm and verbal irony compromise a large part of my sides of discussions. But I'll leave you alone now, and I look foreward to meeting you in another thread.
Oh, and my apologies for this post being a few days late. I've been bed-ridden for the past few days, due to a lovely cold on top of a sinus infection that's been building for a few weeks. Sometimes my seemingly useless immune system amazes even me.
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Posted: Thu Dec 14, 2006 7:06 pm
DrasBrisingr Yay, I love it when people talk about me as if I'm not around. But I especially liked the part where you pretended it wasn't me. And for once, I'm being completely serious.
And, in my defense, I have nothing against you, Resurrection. I don't even know you well enough to form a judgement for or against you. I do, however, disagree with your point. Maybe a better explanation would help me understand. I don't entirely disagree with Khalida's interpretation of your point, but it still needs some backing. As Khalida himself said, "it has been given poor representation." I'm not trying to attack you or your beliefs. I can come off as a bit harsh at times, but sarcasm and verbal irony compromise a large part of my sides of discussions. But I'll leave you alone now, and I look foreward to meeting you in another thread.
Oh, and my apologies for this post being a few days late. I've been bed-ridden for the past few days, due to a lovely cold on top of a sinus infection that's been building for a few weeks. Sometimes my seemingly useless immune system amazes even me. Actually Dras... I didn't see much of you attempting to discredit him. You were just asking for... more. Which is where everyone else started at, but as they either didn't receive it or didn't like it, it went to faulting the arguments by faulting the person. My apologies if I did offend you... just something I learned, and I know it is something people do. I've done it before, in my own way... but now that I understand it more, I do me best to avoid it. Also: hope it gets better soon! Sounds like it sucks!
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Posted: Sat Dec 16, 2006 2:55 pm
Hey, in my defense, I usually only fault people if they are really crazy or stupid. And I usually think that if they have flawed arguements. So hah.
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