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 Posted: Mon May 02, 2005 12:50 am
ok i have a major problem
i know its wrong but i really really like a teacher at my school. shes really cute (and hot) nice and friendly but i have never really talked to her. i know nothing can happen or will happen but i can't stop thinking about her....HELP
Revan, I'll defer this one to you. 3nodding
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Posted: Tue May 03, 2005 3:04 am
I'm in eighth grade, so don't mind my loserishness. Anyhow.. One of my [female] friends in real life told me they liked me a couple of weeks ago, and I've always liked her, but I had never thought about it up until then. Now I can't stop thinking about her, wondering about her, and wishing that she'd go back over Jenny's house so she could get on YM. (She doesn't have a computer of her own and that's the only place we ever really talk.)
She won't talk to me at school; she usually doesn't call me, but she's called my cousin/sister instead. If we do talk on the phone, we don't have a conversation unless it's right after we get off of Messenger, because that's the only time the whole youlikemeIlikeyoulet'shavebabies thing comes up. The only other times we honestly talk, like not just blurt out random things and be stupid around our friends, is when one of us is extremely upset.
I consider her one of my best friends because even though I don't know all that much about her, I know she's the one who would be there if I /really/ needed help with something, unlike my other friends who are just goofballs no matter what the circumstances are, and I've always thought that. She's beautiful, talented, caring, loyal, and a really great person, but I feel as though I'm none of the above, and I don't deserve her.
I know she's being sincere about this because the first time she ever called me after that, I still didn't believe her, but she was crying on the phone, talking about how she was scared and confused and didn't know if it was right to be attracted to a girl. That night she told me plenty of things I didn't know about her and that nobody else really knows. The thing is, she's always trying to conform to what other people want, but at the same time, she tries to look tough so that everyone around her will just back off, and usually when we're at school, she has two moods: Funny and uber pissed.
I've been so confused since this whole thing started and my cousin is getting mad because I won't stop talking about her. I try to keep my thoughts limited, but they always come back, and when they do, I feel like I need to kick myself. I have no idea how to handle this because just when I think it's wearing off, and I know /nothing/ is going to happen, she goes over to Jennifer's house again and starts flirting with me over IM.
I don't know if you can help or not, but I'd really appreciate it if you would try. Thanks.
// <3 Starlett
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Posted: Sun May 15, 2005 10:15 am
nothing much to say. But i think my gerbil is dying? usually when i try to pet it, it bites my finger. now i pet it and it just stays ther letting me. Dax now has grey hairs in his furr... I want to bury him in the park if he dies. Im so sad. really. he was a good pet. my only pet/friend that i could "talk" to. so.. uhm. do i just get another pet?
ok 2nd problem:
i had a crush on then wrong person. how do i make it to the right one who likes me back?
3rd problem: my best friend drea lied to her bf about who she really is. i didnt want to lose her. so i had to lie to her bf james. if i dont tell james the whole truth. ill lose his friendship. now.. if i do tell james the truth about his own gf. my best friend, then i will lose drea. what should i do?
4th problem:
today this dude beat the s**t outta me. i wanted to fight him back. but couldnt. u kno. how boys are stronger. he woukldnt even tell me what i did to make him beat me up! he just came over and started choking me. tell the police? or let it go? cuz if i tell the po-po i don't want him beatin me up again
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Posted: Wed May 18, 2005 7:47 am
Me I have an older woman who I know really likes me but doesn't talk to me anymore. I have feelings for her now that I previously didn't have. The thing is I could walk right past here and we now continue as if we never said a word to each other. I'm lost crying .
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Posted: Sun May 22, 2005 4:24 pm
ok i really need some help here. Not to long ago i realized that i was gay. At first i was in shock for about 2 weeks, and now im deep in depression. I really want to kill myself. I dont know why but i hate myself for who i am. I just cant stand myself, i sicken me. I have no problem with gay people at all, but when i realised i was gay i just hated it. I cant stand this and even though ive promised i wouldnt hurt myself to some friends, i still might do it anyway. Can soemone please help me? i just dont know what to do
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Posted: Wed May 25, 2005 4:55 am
I've unstickied this thread. I posted why in an edit on the first post. If you have any questions, please PM me.
(This post is towards Apollo)
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Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2005 4:12 pm
ok, I've told a few people that I am bi but I don't know if I should tell the rest of my close friends. (not a major problem)
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 6:34 pm
Ok. I have a slight problem. Well, make that two...
#1) One of my best friends, who I recently came out to, I think likes me. She has never actually said "Hey, Christana, I like you", but she might as well have. She constantly flirts with me, and several times she's said something to the tune of "I can see us two going out..." or "I really wouldn't mind going out with you." The thing is, I don't like her that way. I don't want to hurt her feelings by telling her so, but I also know that leading her on would hurt her feelings just as much, and maybe worse, than just telling her outright that I don't like her. And even though I don't flirt back, I feel like not telling her is just as bad as leading her on. I just don't know how to tell her...
#2) As you probably have already noticed, I'm bi. I've only come out to a few people (namely my friends in Texas, my parents, and the girl mentioned above). But I really, really, REALLY want to just be out all the way and get it over with. But I'm kind of afraid to. I'm not really sure why, because I'm not afraid of the possible reactions. My attitude is, if they don't like it, they can deal with it. I also don't really know how to come out. With everyone who knows, it just kind of happened. I don't even really remember how I came out to my parents... I know I can always just tell the girl mentioned above that she can tell whoever she wants about my sexuality (she's kind of the school gossiper, but she can keep secrets really well if you ask her to), but I feel like that would be sort of like a cop-out and cowardly... I really want to come out myself, but just the prospect of it scares me. Sometimes I feel like just yelling "I'm bi!" in the middle of school, but that wouldn't be very smart... sweatdrop If anyone can help me, I'd greatly appreciate it.
Well, anyway, this post is super-long, and it's time for bed, so good-bye...
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Posted: Tue Aug 09, 2005 12:50 am
ok so it has been so long that i dont need advise for my first cry for help i am over her but however i need help with a different matter
so i really really like this chick in the year belowe me, its an attraction thing, i have never spoken to her but i have stared alot, and she has seen me staring and stared back, and even times when i wasn't staring she stared at me...i know this cos i was secretly looking. im not sure whether she kinda likes me back or thinks that im some werid stalker. when you stare at someone is it because they want to stare at you or because they're creeped out. need more info just ask but please help this time
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Posted: Sat Sep 24, 2005 3:57 am
where are you archangel apollo!?. -spins around in circles-
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