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Archangel Apollo

PostPosted: Wed Sep 08, 2004 8:56 pm


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 09, 2004 12:06 pm


So glad to see this back again. It'll be a great service to anyone that needs an ear smile

Kudos to you biggrin

~ NIHL ~
Crew


StolenWhisper

PostPosted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 10:09 am


I have an ex g/f that dumped me cuz then I wouldn't come out as gay, but im only bi. But now she barely even talks to me. What should I do?
PostPosted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 9:54 pm


StolenWhisper
I have an ex g/f that dumped me cuz then I wouldn't come out as gay, but im only bi. But now she barely even talks to me. What should I do?
Well to start off, how long has this been going on? And I'm going to assume that you've tried to talk to her, correct?

Archangel Apollo


Desirable Ai
Captain

PostPosted: Sat Sep 11, 2004 5:48 am


1st Thing ~ Nihl, sorry to say, but your signature is too wide. The highest width you can have is 500, and that is 772 pixels width. Please change it and make it smaller in width. Thanks.

2nd Thing ~ Congrats on getting the thread back up, Apollo. Sorry about the other thread being lost. I don't know if one of my mods deleted it or it just disappeared. -shrugs-

Now, everyone, get some advice from Apollo! xd
PostPosted: Sat Sep 11, 2004 8:48 pm


Angelic Yuki
1st Thing ~ Nihl, sorry to say, but your signature is too wide. The highest width you can have is 500, and that is 772 pixels width. Please change it and make it smaller in width. Thanks.

2nd Thing ~ Congrats on getting the thread back up, Apollo. Sorry about the other thread being lost. I don't know if one of my mods deleted it or it just disappeared. -shrugs-

Now, everyone, get some advice from Apollo! xd
Thanks, I'm just glad I typed it up in Word so I could use Spell Check and that I saved it. 3nodding

Archangel Apollo


StolenWhisper

PostPosted: Sun Sep 12, 2004 9:34 am


Prince Apollo
StolenWhisper
I have an ex g/f that dumped me cuz then I wouldn't come out as gay, but im only bi. But now she barely even talks to me. What should I do?
Well to start off, how long has this been going on? And I'm going to assume that you've tried to talk to her, correct?


Its been going on for a few months and yes I have tried to talk to her. but now she got a new cell and I dont know it.
PostPosted: Sun Sep 12, 2004 12:00 pm


Angelic Yuki
1st Thing ~ Nihl, sorry to say, but your signature is too wide. The highest width you can have is 500, and that is 772 pixels width. Please change it and make it smaller in width. Thanks.


Hey Yuki. Sorry it was too big. Wasn't sure exactly what the size should be. Is this better now??

~ NIHL ~
Crew


Desirable Ai
Captain

PostPosted: Sun Sep 12, 2004 12:03 pm


Nihl1980
Angelic Yuki
1st Thing ~ Nihl, sorry to say, but your signature is too wide. The highest width you can have is 500, and that is 772 pixels width. Please change it and make it smaller in width. Thanks.


Hey Yuki. Sorry it was too big. Wasn't sure exactly what the size should be. Is this better now??
Yeah ^___^ Thanks hun
PostPosted: Sun Sep 12, 2004 9:33 pm


StolenWhisper
Prince Apollo
StolenWhisper
I have an ex g/f that dumped me cuz then I wouldn't come out as gay, but im only bi. But now she barely even talks to me. What should I do?
Well to start off, how long has this been going on? And I'm going to assume that you've tried to talk to her, correct?


Its been going on for a few months and yes I have tried to talk to her. but now she got a new cell and I dont know it.
Okay...I'm also guessing that when you try and go up to her to talk she walks away. What I recommend is sending her a letter, preferably handwritten and whatever other personal touches you want to add. And maybe, somehow, getting me in contact with her.

Archangel Apollo


FimbulwintR

PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2004 5:55 pm


Hey!

I know this may be a painfuly generic problem but .... sweatdrop
I NEED HELP DECIPHERING MY SEXUALITY BAD!

Well here's the facts:
Ive known since middle school that I wasn't very "straight" sweatdrop
Im, dare I say it, an intellectual wink
Im qiute effeminate heart
I haven't told anyone my suspicions sad
Ive never had a girlfriend (or a boyfriend for that matter) sweatdrop
All through highschool I seemed to be the only person have a concept of "love" (as opposed to "like"), for instance, girls would pretend to "ask me out" and I would always say "But I dont know you very well" sad
I like looking at girls more than guys wink
Ive always enjoyed a**l stimulation redface
My friend once refered to me as "the least gay person she knew" neutral
I recently purchase a "Im lookin' for a japanese girlfriend" shirt from J-list.com, and Its been making me reluctant to admitt any form of "alternative" lifestyle( I maybe kinda want to, but it was an expensive shirt sweatdrop )
Im a big fan of the casual, nonsexual hug 4laugh
My grandfather, who is somehow still alive and living in my moms basement (i still live with her too sweatdrop ) is highly conservative, and a well respected member of the local church. I remember once when i was about five or so, I was singing "Rub-a-dub dub three men in the tub" and he said "That auter' be e-legal" stressed
Sometimes I think it would be easier for me to "love" a boy(I more often fantasize about being in love with boys,though sometimes with girls but, more often than not when i think about girls its just for emotionless carnality), but then again I may just be expressing to myself that I COULD(by some strange twist) love a boy( rather than prefering one) because Ive always had THAT thought sad
My main concern is that, to my friends Ive always been a sort of loveable letcher typed character,and I really liked that persona and and concerned about compromising it sad
and that my sensitivity may potentialy make the ladies go wild, and Id hate to let that go to waste xp

Actually in typing this and having it all out before me I think that I may possibly (and i strees that) have already formed an Idea of my sexuality,But Ive been typing for too damn long too not post this (and besides, I still may have second thoughts later sweatdrop ). Still any
feedback or input would be greatly valued 3nodding
PostPosted: Wed Sep 15, 2004 8:16 pm


ROB thy god
Hey!

I know this may be a painfuly generic problem but .... sweatdrop
I NEED HELP DECIPHERING MY SEXUALITY BAD!
I'll say right now, even I was a bit confused. However I'll go with my main instinct on this one based on everything you have told me. I'm going to say you are bi. And would recommend finding a girlfriend who would have no trouble breaking out a strap-on and some KY-Jelly for ya.

Archangel Apollo


StolenWhisper

PostPosted: Thu Sep 16, 2004 10:08 am


Prince Apollo
StolenWhisper
Prince Apollo
StolenWhisper
I have an ex g/f that dumped me cuz then I wouldn't come out as gay, but im only bi. But now she barely even talks to me. What should I do?
Well to start off, how long has this been going on? And I'm going to assume that you've tried to talk to her, correct?


Its been going on for a few months and yes I have tried to talk to her. but now she got a new cell and I dont know it.
Okay...I'm also guessing that when you try and go up to her to talk she walks away. What I recommend is sending her a letter, preferably handwritten and whatever other personal touches you want to add. And maybe, somehow, getting me in contact with her.


Okay, Thanx for the advice! I will try to write her a letter. surprised
PostPosted: Thu Sep 16, 2004 11:35 am


Ok,dident know this place was here,so liek ill try and get this of my cheast(Not breast),so ive been sort-of flirting with this girl I fancey and she tends to flirt with me back when were say walking along with no-one els but like when were with freinds she brushes me off,I have gotten blips on my lesbadar(I know theres a better word,buffy freak)and weve been sortah intiment a few times and when shes been really open but I am confuzed here,help. smile .

Demonic Expert


Demonic Expert

PostPosted: Thu Sep 16, 2004 11:45 am


ROB thy god
Hey!

I know this may be a painfuly generic problem but .... sweatdrop
I NEED HELP DECIPHERING MY SEXUALITY BAD!

Well here's the facts:
Ive known since middle school that I wasn't very "straight" sweatdrop
Im, dare I say it, an intellectual wink
Im qiute effeminate heart
I haven't told anyone my suspicions sad
Ive never had a girlfriend (or a boyfriend for that matter) sweatdrop
All through highschool I seemed to be the only person have a concept of "love" (as opposed to "like"), for instance, girls would pretend to "ask me out" and I would always say "But I dont know you very well" sad
I like looking at girls more than guys wink
Ive always enjoyed a**l stimulation redface
My friend once refered to me as "the least gay person she knew" neutral
I recently purchase a "Im lookin' for a japanese girlfriend" shirt from J-list.com, and Its been making me reluctant to admitt any form of "alternative" lifestyle( I maybe kinda want to, but it was an expensive shirt sweatdrop )
Im a big fan of the casual, nonsexual hug 4laugh
My grandfather, who is somehow still alive and living in my moms basement (i still live with her too sweatdrop ) is highly conservative, and a well respected member of the local church. I remember once when i was about five or so, I was singing "Rub-a-dub dub three men in the tub" and he said "That auter' be e-legal" stressed
Sometimes I think it would be easier for me to "love" a boy(I more often fantasize about being in love with boys,though sometimes with girls but, more often than not when i think about girls its just for emotionless carnality), but then again I may just be expressing to myself that I COULD(by some strange twist) love a boy( rather than prefering one) because Ive always had THAT thought sad
My main concern is that, to my friends Ive always been a sort of loveable letcher typed character,and I really liked that persona and and concerned about compromising it sad
and that my sensitivity may potentialy make the ladies go wild, and Id hate to let that go to waste xp

Actually in typing this and having it all out before me I think that I may possibly (and i strees that) have already formed an Idea of my sexuality,But Ive been typing for too damn long too not post this (and besides, I still may have second thoughts later sweatdrop ). Still any
feedback or input would be greatly valued 3nodding


Ok,I know its teh princes topioc choclete but heres my feedback.
Now,if youve gone trough life with a family like that then I see why your haveing problems(Not insulting them just the anti-gay thing)but I know alot of guys who have this Bi phase,hell I was going trough a Bi phase and I had a boyfreind who really was like screeming gay and I told him I was Bi and he said he was and we became good freinds(Wait for it) and he said that he wanted to know if he was really gay becasue he is around men more(Hence the atraction) and the whole mystery of the females wasent apealing to him so I helped him their and it turned out he was just going through a stage.

My therey is that ALL men go trough a Bi phase of varing degres so do women aswell some become gay some dont and some verge on it but then get pulled back over,so just do what feals naturel BUT dont tell your freinds becasue some kids are no imoture to take this,so if you think you know one whos gay,slighty nudge him and make passes if he returns then experiment,personally I think you might just be straight.I bet thats confuzed you even more hasent it?
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