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 Posted: Sun Jun 18, 2006 10:16 pm
I have recently found out that my beloved Rokoko, who I've been with for 7, or so months now, has been in a terrible accident, and is now unconscious in the hospital. Every since I heard the news, I have felt nothing but frustration, and anger, for being able to do nothing to be there for her, and for her feeling alone, as her brother told me she said. Thanks to a call from a friend, I have been able to calm down, and colect myself, but I still hold a quiet anger in my heart for being unable to do anything for her, besides prayer, and sending her get well messages, such as this.
I'm sorry you feel alone, my dear Rokoko. I want you to know, even if you don't get a chance to read this, that I lve you with all my heart, and I would wait an eternity to see you. Just know you're never alone; that I'll always be there with you in your heart; and that I'll never be disloyal to you in your current state of health. If you choose to keep drifting after this event, I will be there for you, and I will not try to stop you. If you choose not to, my sentiments will remain the same for you. I will do everything I can to be with you, and I will do as much as I can to meet you, even if it is your grave. I'm truly sorry for you, and I wish you a speedy recovery.
I hope we meet again soon, my love.
~Koiyuki
What I want to know is...
What would you do if someone you cherished was in an accident?
I know I'll need to time to cope with this, if she does, or does not pull through...
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Posted: Sun Jun 18, 2006 10:24 pm
crying I'm so sorry. I have no clue what I would do or how I would ever be able to cope with it if something like that ever happened to anyone that I love. I cant even imagine how difficult this must be for you to go through.
If you need to talk about anything, feel free- I hope you friend gets better soon. I'll keep both of you in my thoughts.
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Posted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 3:52 am
*hugs*
wow koi
so you guys have met in person right?
What about calling the hospital.
have you guys talked on the phone before?
I ask for a reason all these things.
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Posted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 3:58 am
samsonite *hugs* wow koi so you guys have met in person right? What about calling the hospital. have you guys talked on the phone before? I ask for a reason all these things. To answer your first qustion, we have yet to meet in person, I don't know the number to the hospital she's in, and I'm sure it's out of my calling area; and we have yet to speak on the phone. And it still angers me that there's nothing I can do to be there for her.
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Posted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 3:59 am
That's so sad. Just remain optimistic and keep her in your prayers.
If someone I cherished was in an accident and was seriously hurt, I would become so wrathful. I'm a pretty angry person as it is.
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Posted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 4:07 am
alright, so you have seen her in person. good
If you can get in contact i guess with her brother ask what hosptial. that way you can call. if it's out of your area get a calling card.
The point I wanted to make was if she had heard your voice. and she has if you have met IRL. even if a family member holds the phone to her ear she will hear you. also she is young so she might have her parents as an advocate. The key is getting the hospital information... after that I think you will feel much better. you will be able to send her flowers and cards and the lot. Try and see what you can do for her to hear your voice. her family should be doing the same as well.
If you know her address (home) possibly send a tape recording of you reading her favorite book or something that way the parents don't wonder. you know.
just relax and understand that yes, not being able to do anything is a frustrating aspect... but being there for her in spirit is important.
possibly you could visit her in the hospital. I am sure that will make the both of you feel better.
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Posted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 4:15 am
samsonite alright, so you have seen her in person. good If you can get in contact i guess with her brother ask what hosptial. that way you can call. if it's out of your area get a calling card. The point I wanted to make was if she had heard your voice. and she has if you have met IRL. even if a family member holds the phone to her ear she will hear you. also she is young so she might have her parents as an advocate. The key is getting the hospital information... after that I think you will feel much better. you will be able to send her flowers and cards and the lot. Try and see what you can do for her to hear your voice. her family should be doing the same as well. If you know her address (home) possibly send a tape recording of you reading her favorite book or something that way the parents don't wonder. you know. just relax and understand that yes, not being able to do anything is a frustrating aspect... but being there for her in spirit is important. possibly you could visit her in the hospital. I am sure that will make the both of you feel better.
I think I'll ask him, when I get the chance. And I'll do what I can to get to her, and visit her. Thank you. *hugs*
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Posted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 3:31 pm
Both she and yourself have my sympathies over the ordeal, Koi. sad Hope everything pans out good and Rokoko gets well soon.
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In respect to the question posed, however, i'm not really sure what to say. If someone I cherished got into an accident, i'd feel pretty down and quite sad about the whole thing. Like yourself, it'd take some time to cope with things and pull through, but otherwise, there's not much more to add. sad
Would be nice to have a said cherished person right now, though. sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 3:40 pm
Woah, serious business here. First of all, I hope she makes it out ok. I wouldn't know what to do in your place, since I haven't had that happening to me. Wishing her a speedy recovery is all I can do for now. Here's hoping she's out of the hospital and in your arms ASAP.
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Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 7:37 am
If they are still alive...I'd visit them once in a while to make sure they'd be alright, then hang out more than usual to ease the recovery.
If they're dead; I have to say that, after a few days of sadness, I'd move on.
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 10:08 am
Depends on how much I cherished them... I'd certainly try to call them on the phone... It just really depends. If it were one of my loves, I'd rush to the hospital, hell, I'd sleep on the floor of the hospital just to be near them. (being really needy and codependent helps in that regard.) If it were a friend, I'd try to give them a call/send a card.
I don't pray for people. If god can't be bothered to take the time to help little children in Africa dying of plague and starvation, he sure as hell shouldn't be bothering with Americans who've access to some of the best medicine and health care in the world. I mean, priorities, people.
Besides which, I don't believe in god.
And if they were reasonably close, I'd cry for them. Hell, I cried for one of my professors when I found out he had cancer... Drew him a little card an whatnot.
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