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Sara Lee Cheesecake

PostPosted: Fri Jun 16, 2006 3:34 pm


"Hello!"

"...Hello..."

"Do you know who this is?"

"...No..."

"It's Grandma Juanita! How are you?"

"...Good...?"

"Is your mommy home!"

"...Yes..."

That was an ACTUAL conversation between my grandmother and me. Ageism, quite frankly, is annoying. It never ends. If you're older than someone, someone will treat you like a baby. No matter what age you are. It's quite annoying. I try and treat the younger kids I sometimes look after more like adults, because I remember how annoying it was back then to be treated like a baby and I hate how some adults who will help me look after those same kids patronize them like crazy. They understand more than we think.

I'm 15 so I get a lot of ageism. Even younger kids are treated better than me because they're young. I'm 15, a "stupid freshman" in the eyes of many people. ((Even though most people tell me I'm their favorite freshman because I'm the least annoying and "hyper"...And I won't be a freshman anymore on Wednesday)) I get a lot of crap. Everything I do, everything I say is considered 'young' and 'immature' in the eyes of older people. Sure, I'm young. I know I haven't made enough mistakes to know what to do and I know that some of the things I do are dumb and not thought through (at all) and some of the opinions I form are based on the opinions of others, but I still have my own opinions and will stick by them once made. However, some adults treat me like a child and aren't willing to listen to my opinions and my viewpoints because I'm young. They write everything off as 'mistakes of youth'.

So now that my rant is over, here's the question I will pose at you for discussion, which was the point of this whole rant. Even if it got a lot longer than it was supposed to confused

When have you ever felt ageism in your life? Have you ever felt you were considered "stupid" or "immature" by someone younger?  
PostPosted: Fri Jun 16, 2006 6:11 pm


I've never had that problem. My Mom has treated me like a real person my entire life, so I've always behaved like one. And since I've always been "mature," that's the way everybody treats me.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 16, 2006 6:31 pm


Everyone seems to think I look a lot younger than I act, so it's an odd conumdrum, for me. An old man, stuck in a young mans body...sounds like something straight out of a book, doesn't it?
PostPosted: Sun Jun 18, 2006 8:17 pm


Yeah, people have always thought I'm 2-3 years older than I am so I get lots of crap for being "immature" when I am acting my age. Okay, I'm acting immature for my age sometimes, but doesn't everyone have immature moments? It's annoying when, say, I'll be acting 13 and I am in fact 13 and people will stare because I look 15. It's happened. Now I look 16 rather than 15, which is closer to my age, thankfully. Hopefully when I'm looking younger than my age, I'll get props for maturity.  

Sara Lee Cheesecake


Tailos-teichou

PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 3:39 pm


I look about 13-14, which i'm gladdened to be told - means when I get wrinkles, it'll be a few years later, hopefully. On the other side of the fence, my mentality is generally considered a few years older than I am.

Which is a real pain in the neck.

Yet despite all this, i've never once been the victim of ageism. The worst i've really come across is being asked for ID when purchasing alcohol - which is legal at 18 in the UK; i'm only 19, though, so it's probably fair enough.

Plus i'm an arrogant fellow, so in my mind, it's really quite hard to act as stupid as most people around me. talk2hand
PostPosted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 10:12 am


"They only want you when you're 17 / When you're 21 you're no fun"

Sylphi

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