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Raptured Princess

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 23, 2010 6:25 pm


here's this guy in my math class who I find every cute. He looks like a young Leonardo DiCaprio (like in the movie Titanic(1997)). He's six foot three. I don't normally have issues talking to guys but I just seem to get the guts to talk to him at all. Not a word. Last Monday I tried to impress him by wearing high heeled boots that increased my height by four inches. I'm five foot four and a half. Sadly, I ended up having to switch out shoes and wearing my bright yellow and blue Nike's (which didn't match my outfit at all). I was really embarrassed because I couldn't even walk up the stairs at school. I was talking to this other guy at my school who likes acting like my big brother. He said that he was going to tell the guy I like that I like him if I didn't talk to him soon. But I still can't talk to him. Help?
PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 9:01 am


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here's this guy in my math class who I find every cute. He looks like a young Leonardo DiCaprio (like in the movie Titanic(1997)). He's six foot three. I don't normally have issues talking to guys but I just seem to get the guts to talk to him at all. Not a word. Last Monday I tried to impress him by wearing high heeled boots that increased my height by four inches. I'm five foot four and a half. Sadly, I ended up having to switch out shoes and wearing my bright yellow and blue Nike's (which didn't match my outfit at all). I was really embarrassed because I couldn't even walk up the stairs at school. I was talking to this other guy at my school who likes acting like my big brother. He said that he was going to tell the guy I like that I like him if I didn't talk to him soon. But I still can't talk to him. Help?


best bet is just to let him tell the guy or give the guy a note yourself. You can also imagine him naked while talking to him, or just walk up and slap him for no reason, thats a real conversation starter.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 9:06 am


Just talk to him like he's one of your friends. Offer him gum or something, or give him a compliament on his shoes/clothes/backpack whatever.
And hun, don't change yourself to fit his expectations. It's tempting to do, but he should like you for who you really are. *sniffle sniffle, drama* :'D
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2010 4:15 am


oh that's easy... act like he is a normal friend to you like asking him " how are you today"...then ask another question so on and so fort then after you finished your questions....be silent and he will start talking to you.

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2010 12:38 pm


The best advice i can give you is to be yourself. smile I have issues talking to guys, too. XD
PostPosted: Thu Oct 28, 2010 5:24 pm


Just find the courage to talk to him. It's in you somewhere.

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 29, 2010 1:26 am


use the force~~~

seriously think about it this way, he's gonna find out either way and getting someone else to tell him for you is a big turn off, so the best advice that can be given for your type of situation is to just do it. Any fears any doubts forget them and just do it!
PostPosted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 4:50 pm


Be yourself. You shouldn't ever change for a guy.

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