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 Posted: Tue Nov 09, 2004 9:11 pm
ClaudiaJade No sleeping! ::jumps up and grabs his hands,pulling him into a dance as a very uptempo mo-town verious of "Ruldoph the rednosed reindeer" plays in the background:: wink
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Posted: Wed Nov 10, 2004 5:50 am
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Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 5:30 pm
I'm accused of being gay all the time. stare I have been a bit wavy on the topic in the past but I think now I am pretty straight, ha but I don't hesitate to taunt the particular guys who make fun of me by going along with what they had to say... The one jerk who keeps taunting I even flirt with in a very open way. Ha I do wonder if it will come back to me someday though... make my mind alter a wee bit back towards the wavy side.
It wouldn't surprise me if being made fun of could affect ones apperant sexuality... kids can have thier sexuality affected by the relationship with thier parents or thier parents relationship in particular... meaning gay couple... why not someone teasing them?
90% of teens ALREADY question thier sexuality because it is just then they ( sweatdrop Should say WE 3nodding ) find themselves interested IN sex and before they have spent quite a bit of time with thier own gender group... guys and girls in thier own little lab groups.
It is a hard question even WITH all of these factors taken out... it takes a bit of soul searching to REALLY find who you are... what you are... and what you feel comftorble doing...
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Posted: Wed Jan 26, 2005 8:37 pm
Right well......New thought.
Just a few minutes ago, my friend Alysia asked me if I was a lesbian. She had been thinking for awhile that I may be. And to tell the truth, I have been too. But.....Can lesbians still be attracted to men? Not just "oh he's cute". I mean attracted in,,,,well. Greg and I attracted. Now, I've been thinking for quite some time that i'm lesbian instead of bi like i had originally concluded. I mean, Greg is the one guy that gets me 'going'. And I have a small crush on my gay guy friend Calvin. But, does this label me *damn.....i hate that term* a lesbian who's in love with a man? Or Bisexual but leaning STRONGLY towards lesbian? I just want all yalls opinions on this matter.
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Posted: Wed Jan 26, 2005 8:50 pm
TenshiDarkAngel I just want all yalls opinions on this matter. You're too damn hellbent on trying to define yourself sexually. By doing that you create barriers for yourself and that's not good. Whatever cooks your ramen, is a good thing. Just take it for what it is, and leave it at that.
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Posted: Wed Jan 26, 2005 8:56 pm
Inscriven TenshiDarkAngel I just want all yalls opinions on this matter. You're too damn hellbent on trying to define yourself sexually. By doing that you create barriers for yourself and that's not good. Whatever cooks your ramen, is a good thing. Just take it for what it is, and leave it at that. Thanky Iny-mun whee Thats the exact answer I would give her
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Posted: Wed Jan 26, 2005 9:16 pm
it's not so much that i'm trying to define myself, as just get rid of confusion. I think i can jsut chalk it up to teenage angst. but *shrugs* i'm just confused in a lot of things right now stressed
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Posted: Wed Jan 26, 2005 9:25 pm
TenshiDarkAngel it's not so much that i'm trying to define myself, as just get rid of confusion. I think i can jsut chalk it up to teenage angst. but *shrugs* i'm just confused in a lot of things right now stressed Us supposed "Mature 20-somethings" are just as confused as you are. I had a friend of mine look at me and say that she would be bisexual...if her parents wouldn't mind. sweatdrop And there are people in their 60's that are probably just as confused. Sexuality is a weird thing. 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Jan 26, 2005 11:18 pm
TenshiDarkAngel Do you find that people who are teased/made fun of/commented on/ect are more likely to think about turning to the same sex? I find that I tend to think about my Bisexuality as comeing around from being teased constantly. I always used to think that a girl would understand what I was thinking about more than the guys and the occasional girl that used to torment me. What sorts of other issues do you think that this causes/helps?
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Posted: Wed Jan 26, 2005 11:20 pm
Jinnari TenshiDarkAngel it's not so much that i'm trying to define myself, as just get rid of confusion. I think i can jsut chalk it up to teenage angst. but *shrugs* i'm just confused in a lot of things right now stressed Us supposed "Mature 20-somethings" are just as confused as you are. I had a friend of mine look at me and say that she would be bisexual...if her parents wouldn't mind. sweatdrop And there are people in their 60's that are probably just as confused. Sexuality is a weird thing. 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Jan 27, 2005 5:25 am
TenshiDarkAngel it's not so much that i'm trying to define myself, as just get rid of confusion. I think i can jsut chalk it up to teenage angst. but *shrugs* i'm just confused in a lot of things right now stressed Not everything can have a clear definition...and you'll drive yourself crazy trying to make clear definitions on things. Until you start to experiment with both sexes on an intimate level to truly find out which sex you're attracted to, there's no way to define your sexuality. So as Inscriven said, relax...don't get wound up trying to put a label on who you're supposed to like...go with the flow and in time you'll find out ^_^
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Posted: Thu Jan 27, 2005 1:04 pm
I think you should experiment with a girl babe, for alittle while, maybe you are just bi who is just alitle 70% towards girls, and 30% towards guy
I will always be by your side until you don't want me.....so if you want to discover yourself go head
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Posted: Thu Jan 27, 2005 7:36 pm
Untamed Toast I think you should experiment with a girl babe, for alittle while, maybe you are just bi who is just alitle 70% towards girls, and 30% towards guy I will always be by your side until you don't want me.....so if you want to discover yourself go head I think she'll always want you, you're a great catch 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Jan 27, 2005 7:40 pm
Tessiebean Untamed Toast I think you should experiment with a girl babe, for alittle while, maybe you are just bi who is just alitle 70% towards girls, and 30% towards guy I will always be by your side until you don't want me.....so if you want to discover yourself go head I think she'll always want you, you're a great catch 3nodding Really? Thanks Tessie heart
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Posted: Thu Jan 27, 2005 7:55 pm
Untamed Toast Tessiebean Untamed Toast I think you should experiment with a girl babe, for alittle while, maybe you are just bi who is just alitle 70% towards girls, and 30% towards guy I will always be by your side until you don't want me.....so if you want to discover yourself go head I think she'll always want you, you're a great catch 3nodding Really? Thanks Tessie heart She's right......You are. heart stare And you're the most patient man I've ever known, for putting up with my girly teenage angst.....
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