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 Posted: Wed Apr 20, 2005 9:36 pm
only people on Gaia and a couple of my best ever female friends (also on gaia) know im bi
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Posted: Thu Apr 21, 2005 11:23 am
Yes.. I'm scared of how people will react. I'm mostly scared to tell my father, because he is fascist (sp?) in every way, and especially of gay people. What will happen if he finds out? sweatdrop None of my IRL best friends know, because I'm afraid they might change their attitude towards me.
I fancy one of my straight friends (she has a boyfriend) and have done for the past 3 years. That's what's most annoying about it. If I tell anyone.. I'm scared of the consequences.. neutral
All my friends on Gaia know I'm bi, and that's okay, because everyone here seems to be so understanding, and I don't have to worry about how they react, because I don't have to see their faces every day.
Yeah.. so.. I'm stuck. v.v
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Posted: Thu Apr 21, 2005 1:09 pm
I used to be bloody terrified to tell people I was bi. Now I just tell people. Like on Gaia, I tell them upfront. I figure that if people are going to hate me for my decision, it should be from the beginning. Maybe that's just me. Most of my school knows now, mainly due to the Day of Silence last week.
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Posted: Sat Apr 23, 2005 6:42 pm
I admit, I am a little shy about it. I'm sometimes afraid to just tell people that I'm pansexual.
I'm not really afraid to tell close friends at all, and since I've received so many positive and/or accepting reactions. I know in these cases that the people that matter won't care, and those that will don't matter. ^__^
What I'm really afraid of is telling people that I know more passively--an acquaintance-type relationship. I fear that they'll start thinking that I'm a complete pervert and liable to sex up anyone I can get my hands on. I'm a pervert, yes, but I'm definitely nothing like that.
It's because the people I'm closer to, I know I can trust. But the others may spread the information in a negative context, and they're far less devoted and thus more likely to turn away from me.
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Posted: Sat Apr 23, 2005 6:50 pm
im afraid to tell my mom. i know she'll support it. but not at the age i am now
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Posted: Thu Apr 28, 2005 4:08 pm
I used to be but after I started telling people and they thought it was great it didn't really bother me anymore.
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 10:57 pm
well shy wouldn't be the currect term more of fear
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Posted: Sat Apr 30, 2005 9:40 am
I'm very shy to tell people I am Bi. Only 2 people know and that's my bestfriends Danielle and Anastasia. I've seen how Bi, Lesbian, and Gay people get treated around my school and it's scary. They're bullied so much and shunned that it makes me hurt inside because we are no more different than they are. We just like both or the same sex is all.
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Posted: Sat Apr 30, 2005 5:59 pm
no i love being out and open about it i think that the poeple that really care about me should know and well if they dont want to belive that i am and think of mr diffrently well juts just say im not friends that do that ^_^
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Posted: Sat Apr 30, 2005 6:04 pm
^^ I agree with you it is hard but sometimes its better to be out than hiding in a closet...
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2005 2:23 pm
I won't say I'm scared to tell people couse I am not, I just don't think that my personal life has anything to do with other unless I decide to make them part of it... so far only two people that are my friends know that I'm bi (my best friend and a girl I'm chatting with on a regular basis), I choose not to tell people because I really don't want reactions at the time, I'm too exhausted by school to deal with prejudices right now... so until I feel up to it I'll wait and remain in my cozy dark closet..^^
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2005 9:58 pm
well, I'm not to sure how you would tell your friends.. hell I had trouble saying anything to anyone when I finally figured it out and I still have trouble, i'm a very shy person and I get embarassed very easily, it really sucks. sad Sorry I can't be much help.
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2005 11:42 pm
Hello peoples... blaugh
me I'm kinda shy but then again I'm not.. but yeah
I've told some people this past year and they were all right
except my best friend Katie because she was a Homophob. but now shes over it and still hangs with me whee
so yeah I have "Fun" with them xd .. no I'm j.k
well its cool how people don't really care out here
almost half of this little town/city knows so yeah
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Posted: Mon May 09, 2005 2:35 pm
Hmm. If it comes up that I should mention it, I will.
So I'm not scared just not all 'I want to let this random person know right, here right now!' though, I totally respect the people who can do that. (x
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Posted: Mon May 09, 2005 2:48 pm
no, of course not, i'm not shy about telling people i'm bi, i'm shy about telling them im gay ^-^;
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