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 Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 2:04 pm
i know that i am ...... i think if i tell my friends that they will not like me eny more... i know thats weird but i would not know what to say to them... or how to say it... can you people help me do this
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 2:06 pm
I wish I could, but I know my own parents would never in any way disaprove of my sexuality and I'm STILL too shy to tell them.
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 2:09 pm
S.R.Osuna I wish I could, but I know my own parents would never in any way disaprove of my sexuality and I'm STILL too shy to tell them. ya... i feel the same way... .. but i dont know what my parents would think... cuz i am the only one... well the only one that i know of that is bi...... and i dont know how to tell other people
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 2:17 pm
The way I see it, I won't lie about it to anyone, but I can't seem to think it's a good idea to talk with someone specifically to say it.
It would just seem weird. The only reason my brother knows is because of how much I trust him and I still didn't tell him until I had a boyfriend.
So really I guess my only advice could be to talk to one person you trust more than any other to be understanding and start there. sweatdrop
But heck I don't know these things so don't take my word for it.
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 2:31 pm
I told my freinds are they were cool but I could never tell my parents *even though someohow my brothers know now*
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 4:08 pm
I like to tell people that i'm bi, i like to see there reaction, lol
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 4:42 pm
SpellbladeDragoner I like to tell people that i'm bi, i like to see there reaction, lol yeah me too. i have told tons of people just to see what they think of it. some think its fine and some think its strange and "not how things are suposed to be" but i don't care about what they think. i they don't like they can DEAL WITH IT.
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 5:07 pm
Fortunately, I have really supportive friends, so when I told them they helped me out when I was going through hard times. So I guess I can't relate. But I don't think you should keep it a secret forever. That can do some bad stuff to you if you do. eek
I do have to say though...If they don't support you in big things like that, then it's probably best you not grant them the honor of your friendship ^_^
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 5:56 pm
Well i have like 5 groups of friends the sassy ones which are composed of sluts, a group that is composed of very smart ppl, a group of ppl that like punk rock, a group that is anti homosexuality and a group that i hang out with that is cool with every thing so i only told them about me being bi and thier coo like that. But i would never tell my fam because they just wouldnt understand. crying
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 7:56 pm
For me, I'm just an all out very outgoing type of person. So I let people know straight off the bat so they won't freak out later, and hey if they don't like it then they can live with it. Now, I was really scared to tell my dad...because he is really against people liking the same sex. But one day he just straight out said "Are you lesbian?" and I said "No, I'm Bisexual." He freaked out and all, but I felt better that I finally got it out. I'm sure he doesn't accept the fact still, but some day he'll have to. Because really, there is nothing he, or anyone else can do to change the way I feel.
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 8:05 pm
I think you shouldn't have to be shy about telling people that u are Bisexual, Actually you should make it a duty to tell them. All the people I told have been educated and shown that not all Bisexual girls have reidculas amounts of sex with EVERYONE (I hate that stereotype). If you are comfortable with yourself and who you really are you should tell people. the people who don't like u anymore becouse of it isn't worth your time in any way. wink
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 8:35 pm
I'm too shy to tell anyone, unless for some odd reason they ask. Then I'll tell them.
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 8:46 pm
I advertise in subtle ways and let others bring it up. I always wear my rainbow shoe laces and sometimes my wrist band if it doesn't clash with my outfit, and I also tend to dress on the more femme side. People just know, but I am also the main out guy in my school, as president of the gsa for like two years running. I am the one who does the festivals and fights the system and does the student organizing. I am the 'gay' guy, the only one that is really out in school.
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 8:52 pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2005 4:26 am
I have told all my close friends expect one that I am bi. She is against people being lesibian but suppotrs people who are gay. She's a great friend with a couple of flaws and I'm a HS senior, I only have four months left it's not worth ending that friendship with so little time left.
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