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 Posted: Thu Oct 08, 2009 2:26 pm
Sauvie I was wondering if there was any popular/useful coping techniqies for the hardship of a Cross Canada relationship. I mean Right now my girlfriend is rather ill and because I am a couple provinces over I feel completely useless sad Can you send me a PM and remind me about this post? I'll pick it up later, but I'll make a note to see if I can find something for you, if that's ok? When I was in a LDR in my teens, we usually communicated through e-mail and chatrooms. I got to speak to him once on the phone for a few minutes, but that was all. Now that it's several years later, I'm not sure what to suggest. whee
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Posted: Sun Oct 25, 2009 2:37 am
So, I am coping more with the distance and lack of communication with my girlfriend, still hurts a lot but I am dealing with it better. but the Thing is, I have started having some loving, "Loving", confusing depressing and just plain odd dreams, not sure if it goes here or not, but is there any ways to deal with dreams, like prevention methods or something, I love the good dreams because they're all I have right now, but the bad ones are just tearing me apart.
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Posted: Sun Oct 25, 2009 5:32 pm
I'm not sure, sorry. whee Try not to think about it before you go to bed?
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Posted: Sun Oct 25, 2009 5:41 pm
Nikolita I'm not sure, sorry. whee Try not to think about it before you go to bed? Perhaps, but I love thinking about her sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 3:16 pm
I'm curious; what would you consider a good dating experience to be like? As someone working to better myself in social settings and be less prone to burping in public/similar acts, ths is something I'd wish to know, in order to prevent most of my dates/encounters with people who interest me from amounting to this: 
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Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 5:10 pm
If both people come away from the date happy and satisfied, I think that's a success. smile
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Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 5:21 pm
Koiyuki I'm curious; what would you consider a good dating experience to be like? As someone working to better myself in social settings and be less prone to burping in public/similar acts, ths is something I'd wish to know, in order to prevent most of my dates/encounters with people who interest me from amounting to this The definition of a "good date" varies sooo much from person to person. Honestly, if there isn't sex I probably won't consider it a good date for me. A lot of people agree with me, a lot of people feel the exact opposite, others are somewhere in between, and others really don't care. And bodily functions don't really bother me much. So there's nothing that you really have to do or have to avoid to make it a good date. It's more about finding someone who's on the same page. Like Niko said, as long as both people are satisfied with whatever was done or not done on the date, that's probably a good sign! 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2011 3:20 pm
So I'm seventeen, turning eighteen in August with a boyfriend. He's eighteen, turning nineteen in June.
We've been reasonable friends for years, and started dating this past February. Due to school we've only had about two real dates so far...
The first was about a week after we started dating, and was both of our first dates ever. We went to a restaurant that I hadn't been to in years (which made ordering impossible and it turns out I didn't like the style of food anyway, bah) and the movie we saw was absolutely horrible.
Despite all that it was still a great night and I wouldn't have had it any other way.
Our second date was this past Friday, actually, where we went out to dinner and then saw a show I had been dying to see. Only once we were watching it did I realize that it was actually more boring than I thought it was! Oh well. The hilarious commentary we had going during intermissions was absolutely wonderful. Afterward he drove around, pretending to be lost, for about an hour just because he didn't want to say goodnight yet.
Then yesterday I was at his house for about twelve hours and we watched almost the entirety of the Star Wars saga (minus One and Six. One's disc was messed up and I had seen it already, while we ran out of time to see Six.)
For the majority of the movies I had my head on his chest and his arm around my shoulder. It was wonderful, although now my neck hurts...although I suppose I deserve it for the angle I was lying at. It was the first time we had actually had any kind of physical contact. We're awkward children in that respect. His mother came downstairs a few times to check on us, and that was SO weird since I'm good friends with her from before he and I started dating.
I know it's only been a month since we've started going out, but I've liked him for three years and I honestly don't think I'll ever meet another boy quite as charming and adorable as he is. I don't think we're in love yet but I think we'll get there eventually.
/wall
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Posted: Tue Apr 05, 2011 2:01 pm
Who is Puffer Fish So I'm seventeen, turning eighteen in August with a boyfriend. He's eighteen, turning nineteen in June. We've been reasonable friends for years, and started dating this past February. Due to school we've only had about two real dates so far... The first was about a week after we started dating, and was both of our first dates ever. We went to a restaurant that I hadn't been to in years (which made ordering impossible and it turns out I didn't like the style of food anyway, bah) and the movie we saw was absolutely horrible. Despite all that it was still a great night and I wouldn't have had it any other way. Our second date was this past Friday, actually, where we went out to dinner and then saw a show I had been dying to see. Only once we were watching it did I realize that it was actually more boring than I thought it was! Oh well. The hilarious commentary we had going during intermissions was absolutely wonderful. Afterward he drove around, pretending to be lost, for about an hour just because he didn't want to say goodnight yet. Then yesterday I was at his house for about twelve hours and we watched almost the entirety of the Star Wars saga (minus One and Six. One's disc was messed up and I had seen it already, while we ran out of time to see Six.) For the majority of the movies I had my head on his chest and his arm around my shoulder. It was wonderful, although now my neck hurts...although I suppose I deserve it for the angle I was lying at. It was the first time we had actually had any kind of physical contact. We're awkward children in that respect. His mother came downstairs a few times to check on us, and that was SO weird since I'm good friends with her from before he and I started dating. I know it's only been a month since we've started going out, but I've liked him for three years and I honestly don't think I'll ever meet another boy quite as charming and adorable as he is. I don't think we're in love yet but I think we'll get there eventually. /wall Yay! heart
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Posted: Tue Apr 05, 2011 5:52 pm
Oh yeah! I forgot...that thread I posted here and closed months ago? Same guy. Turns out the whole prom thing was a huge misunderstanding since there was one huge detail he couldn't tell me about at the time. So, yay indeed. You were right, everything worked out after I gave it a while. biggrin
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Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 10:08 am
Who is Puffer Fish Oh yeah! I forgot...that thread I posted here and closed months ago? Same guy. Turns out the whole prom thing was a huge misunderstanding since there was one huge detail he couldn't tell me about at the time. So, yay indeed. You were right, everything worked out after I gave it a while. biggrin Woohoo, congratulations! mrgreen So you guys are together now?
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Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 12:25 pm
Nikolita Woohoo, congratulations! mrgreen So you guys are together now? Yep! 4laugh Everyone I know in real life either says we're adorable together, or they're extremely weirded out by the idea. It's kind of hilarious to see people freak out when they find out that A: I am dating someone (I'm apparently notorious in my grade for being an "uptight, picky b***h" or something, I don't know) and B: that it's him. XD
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Posted: Thu Apr 07, 2011 9:31 pm
Who is Puffer Fish Nikolita Woohoo, congratulations! mrgreen So you guys are together now? Yep! 4laugh Everyone I know in real life either says we're adorable together, or they're extremely weirded out by the idea. It's kind of hilarious to see people freak out when they find out that A: I am dating someone (I'm apparently notorious in my grade for being an "uptight, picky b***h" or something, I don't know) and B: that it's him. XD
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Posted: Sun May 20, 2012 10:28 pm
wow...I looked on this thread for just general dating advice i might not of known just in case, and well...it made me cry. Im 15 and my boyfriend is 18..... he loves me and respects me so much and I feel the same towards him but reading all it says about relationships with age gaps...wow crying
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Posted: Mon May 21, 2012 9:34 pm
Staring Berry wow...I looked on this thread for just general dating advice i might not of known just in case, and well...it made me cry. Im 15 and my boyfriend is 18..... he loves me and respects me so much and I feel the same towards him but reading all it says about relationships with age gaps...wow crying I'm sorry this thread upset you. If you check the date of the first post, it's from 2005, making it one of the oldest threads/stickies in the guild. Some of the information might be a little outdated, so take it with a grain of salt. A lot of the information on age gaps (whether in the first post or from later discussion) comes from many of us who've been in your place. And just because you and your boyfriend have an age gap doesn't mean you're automatically going to break up. Just for many of us, and for many teens in general, having an age gap in a relationship often leads to a break-up. BUT not all relationships are like that, so if you and your boyfriend are getting along great and you love each other, then that's wonderful! heart
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