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problematic briefcase Crew
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 1:55 pm
Dear 154, don't white the noises in. No one sees it then.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 3:03 pm
Medeus Owwin This hurtful s**t needs to stop. This is ******** ridiculous. This. =/ While I could care less about things directed at myself and understand that sometimes you just need to get things off your chest, we don't want to scare people off, do we?
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Sharkbutt The Orgiastic Crew
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 3:03 pm
Medeus Owwin This hurtful s**t needs to stop. This is ******** ridiculous. This. =/ Agreed. It's like some of us expect her to befriend us first and not the other way around as it should be. No wonder she talks about what troubles her more than what we would want to talk about. I'd hate to see how 155 deals with Special ED kids.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 3:29 pm
bleu_flame Medeus Owwin This hurtful s**t needs to stop. This is ******** ridiculous. This. =/ Agreed. It's like some of us expect her to befriend us first and not the other way around as it should be. No wonder she talks about what troubles her more than what we would want to talk about. I'd hate to see how 155 deals with Special ED kids. Granted, there was a whole bunch of drama that erupted over something tiny and both parties were to blame for its existence, but still...
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Sharkbutt The Orgiastic Crew
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 3:44 pm
Wantcookie bleu_flame Medeus Owwin This hurtful s**t needs to stop. This is ******** ridiculous. This. =/ Agreed. It's like some of us expect her to befriend us first and not the other way around as it should be. No wonder she talks about what troubles her more than what we would want to talk about. I'd hate to see how 155 deals with Special ED kids. Granted, there was a whole bunch of drama that erupted over something tiny and both parties were to blame for its existence, but still... I don't see the need to add Insult to Injury by making pointed Anonymous Confessions here (though I'm sure we could narrow down who posted THAT one). We have a Drama Bidoof thread. I move that if a Confession is received that violates the "No Trolling" (essentially?) Rule, it be removed from the Confessions list, and treated as if it were never submitted.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 5:27 pm
I don't think it is fair to start doing that now because of this girl when a bunch of other people have been hurt too. And I'm sorry, but that confession kind of hits the nail on the head as far as Swyff is concerned. I disagree with Bleu saying we should be trying to befriend her not vice-versa, like I really think it makes no sense. Why? She came here, we didn't seek her out special, if she wants friends here then she needs to be trying to earn them.
Not that I don't like her because, other than the Reg thing, she seems alright but I'm just stating my opinion on the matter.
Finally, we asked if y'all wanted us to censor confessions. The vote was very much a majority no so we aren't censoring them. There was previous mod discussion of using a democratic voting system, that is what I always try to do. I know there are some people here who prefer to just make the decision themselves for the majority but Zach and I are not like that.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 5:34 pm
I voted against it before and it isn't just because the new girl. We had this discussion before she got here. It is still bullshit.
I will respect other people's opinion about it though. Still when this place collapses like the Cult did end splits off into even smaller factions I hope you guys who voted the other way can bask in your victory.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 5:36 pm
I didn't vote at all and neither did Zach, we wanted it to only be people who send in confessions.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 5:36 pm
-Dessynea- I disagree with Bleu saying we should be trying to befriend her not vice-versa, like I really think it makes no sense. Why? She came here, we didn't seek her out special, if she wants friends here then she needs to be trying to earn them. In 8th grade, I moved to Texas... I was shy, I wouldn't talk to anyone, and nobody talked to me... Some people can't help it if they're too shy or if they don't know what to say. I know what it's like because I was the kid that everybody ignored, and still ignores. I even get ignored on here. It took me about four months to get a friend. He was the only one that even bothered to be my friend. I tried being other people's friend, but they pushed me aside because they already had friends... Now then, is it right that we should expect her to be kind and friendly in our home when she might have a problem with being shy? Are we not going to give her a chance and expect her to do everything? If so, it's people that advocate what you say that creates cliques that make it impossible for others to feel at home.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 5:45 pm
-Dessynea- I didn't vote at all and neither did Zach, we wanted it to only be people who send in confessions. It's not directed at you. It's directed to the anonymous people who don't want people to know their confessions or votes.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 6:07 pm
Medeus Wantcookie bleu_flame Medeus Owwin This hurtful s**t needs to stop. This is ******** ridiculous. This. =/ Agreed. It's like some of us expect her to befriend us first and not the other way around as it should be. No wonder she talks about what troubles her more than what we would want to talk about. I'd hate to see how 155 deals with Special ED kids. Granted, there was a whole bunch of drama that erupted over something tiny and both parties were to blame for its existence, but still... I don't see the need to add Insult to Injury by making pointed Anonymous Confessions here (though I'm sure we could narrow down who posted THAT one). We have a Drama Bidoof thread. I move that if a Confession is received that violates the "No Trolling" (essentially?) Rule, it be removed from the Confessions list, and treated as if it were never submitted. That was essentially what I meant by censoring confessions on a case-by-case basis, but the poll was about as clear on that as the Quebec referendum. Hosting anonymous confessions that constitute flaming or trolling can result in action being taken against our whole guild and the douchebag who sent it in getting off scot-free, so something has to be done about it.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 7:13 pm
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 7:16 pm
155 sounds like Owwin or Allegro to me. But I think Allegro is responding more like this to the situation:
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 7:16 pm
Owwin -Dessynea- I didn't vote at all and neither did Zach, we wanted it to only be people who send in confessions. It's not directed at you. It's directed to the anonymous people who don't want people to know their confessions or votes. I didn't really think you were, just saying.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 7:20 pm
bleu_flame -Dessynea- I disagree with Bleu saying we should be trying to befriend her not vice-versa, like I really think it makes no sense. Why? She came here, we didn't seek her out special, if she wants friends here then she needs to be trying to earn them. In 8th grade, I moved to Texas... I was shy, I wouldn't talk to anyone, and nobody talked to me... Some people can't help it if they're too shy or if they don't know what to say. I know what it's like because I was the kid that everybody ignored, and still ignores. I even get ignored on here. It took me about four months to get a friend. He was the only one that even bothered to be my friend. I tried being other people's friend, but they pushed me aside because they already had friends... Now then, is it right that we should expect her to be kind and friendly in our home when she might have a problem with being shy? Are we not going to give her a chance and expect her to do everything? If so, it's people that advocate what you say that creates cliques that make it impossible for others to feel at home. I have the same problem as her and you, I am super shy and have a hard time making friends. That's why I have had the same friends since 8th grade, but I don't blame the people around me. If I were more outgoing, I would have more friends. I can't expect people to want to be my friend if I don't put myself out there.
Also, just thought this might be interesting to some of y'all who are whining. The Confessions from the guild I took the confessional idea from.
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