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 Posted: Tue Jan 04, 2011 2:52 pm
About censoring names: if any censoring is done, I think it should be on a case by case basis, but I also don't think it should be censored.
Yeah, it can be really mean, but if someone wanted to post something about how they hated me or whatever, I would rather see my name there, instead of speculate. There's enough speculation as it is.
That's just me, though.
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Posted: Tue Jan 04, 2011 2:53 pm
Orphie About censoring names: if any censoring is done, I think it should be on a case by case basis, but I also don't think it should be censored. Yeah, it can be really mean, but if someone wanted to post something about how they hated me or whatever, I would rather see my name there, instead of speculate. There's enough speculation as it is.That's just me, though.
I am holding off on voting in the poll just to see how it balances out without my vote.
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Posted: Tue Jan 04, 2011 3:15 pm
I kinda like the "Case by case basis" thing. But I mean, who's to say what's fair and what's not. I mean, there was an example before, that I'm not going to bring up, but Dessy and I said no, and didn't put it up. Usually we do, but that one case, we did not.
Now I think people would think it unfair that we're basically the decision here. I don't think "Case by Case" would work, honestly.
Someone confesses: "I h8 Orphie shes a stoopid bich" right? Orphie is okay with this. She'd rather it than "********* is etc etc"
But who's to say that "I h8 haru he luks like girl and is mean" What if this really hurts Haru's feelings
Who's to say we're the deciding factor?
I think it either needs to be one way or the other.
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Posted: Tue Jan 04, 2011 3:15 pm
I'd rather personal attacks be taken to PMs.
If you're too much of a p***y that you have to confess something like that and not say who you are, then we don't need to see it. Send it to PMs.
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Posted: Tue Jan 04, 2011 3:18 pm
Decavolty I'd rather personal attacks be taken to PMs. If you're too much of a p***y that you have to confess something like that and not say who you are, then we don't need to see it. Send it to PMs. EXACTLY! That's the only problem I have here. If you've got something to say to someone, say it to their face.
@Wylr: When I said case-by-case, I meant that things like 'I find _____ annoying and I feel uncomfortable being around them' can be valid, but things like '______ is a stupid douchebag who will never amount to anything' are just mean and unnecessary. I would just recommend you refrain from posting ones that are clearly just there to hurt feelings.
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Posted: Tue Jan 04, 2011 3:44 pm
Cabron the Swan Decavolty I'd rather personal attacks be taken to PMs. If you're too much of a p***y that you have to confess something like that and not say who you are, then we don't need to see it. Send it to PMs. EXACTLY! That's the only problem I have here. If you've got something to say to someone, say it to their face.
@Wylr: When I said case-by-case, I meant that things like 'I find _____ annoying and I feel uncomfortable being around them' can be valid, but things like '______ is a stupid douchebag who will never amount to anything' are just mean and unnecessary. I would just recommend you refrain from posting ones that are clearly just there to hurt feelings. This brings me to your example of "I think Reg is a total tool" I don't think that was meant to hurt his feelings, I just think it was how someone felt about Reg. Maybe it was. Who am I to decide wether or not it would hurt their feelings or not? Again, some people take things harder than others
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Posted: Tue Jan 04, 2011 3:49 pm
WylrPnufh Cabron the Swan Decavolty I'd rather personal attacks be taken to PMs. If you're too much of a p***y that you have to confess something like that and not say who you are, then we don't need to see it. Send it to PMs. EXACTLY! That's the only problem I have here. If you've got something to say to someone, say it to their face.
@Wylr: When I said case-by-case, I meant that things like 'I find _____ annoying and I feel uncomfortable being around them' can be valid, but things like '______ is a stupid douchebag who will never amount to anything' are just mean and unnecessary. I would just recommend you refrain from posting ones that are clearly just there to hurt feelings. This brings me to your example of "I think Reg is a total tool" I don't think that was meant to hurt his feelings, I just think it was how someone felt about Reg. Maybe it was. Who am I to decide wether or not it would hurt their feelings or not? Again, some people take things harder than others Really? You don't think that was intended to be hurtful? I think if it were just something someone wanted off their chest it would be worded more like 'I feel like Reg is excessively rude and I wish he'd lighten up.' Generally, behaving in a way you don't condone in other people isn't the best way to express your displeasure about the behavior.
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Posted: Tue Jan 04, 2011 3:49 pm
I feel like that doesn't make sense.
Like it seems like I'm just making the same point over and over
Basically this:
Step 1) Confession
Step 2) I decide its okay, and post it
Step 3) ....J decides it hurts his feelings
Step 4) I'm in the wrong.
Edit: Okay, really, I can see why that'd hurt his feelings
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Posted: Tue Jan 04, 2011 3:59 pm
It's all a matter of wording. I agree that some people can take anything as hurtful, but I'm sure you're more than capable of telling the difference between "so and so is a ******** douchewad and needs to leave" and "so and so behaves in a way that makes me feel uncomfortable". That was what I meant by case-by-case; we can't completely avoid butthurt, but we might as well not help it along.
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Posted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 10:30 am
The ******** is the point of Anonymous confessions if errebody puts their name in the confession....? [/#151]
Also, 152- what's with the &'s?
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Posted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 10:32 am
Medeus The ******** is the point of Anonymous confessions if errebody puts their name in the confession....? [/#151] Also, 152- what's with the &'s? Maybe it's somebody else's name.
DUN DUN DUUUN
Also <3 becomes &3 when you gift something to someone.
EDIT: Also, 152, if that's the biggest reason you want a girlfriend, it's probably also the biggest reason you don't have one. xd
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Posted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 10:37 am
Cabron the Swan Medeus The ******** is the point of Anonymous confessions if errebody puts their name in the confession....? [/#151] Also, 152- what's with the &'s? Maybe it's somebody else's name.
DUN DUN DUUUN
Also <3 becomes &3 when you gift something to someone.
EDIT: Also, 152, if that's the biggest reason you want a girlfriend, it's probably also the biggest reason you don't have one. xd :O OH god mebbeh yur right! Except didja check the context? lol <3wife<3....? Who types like that? lol! xD That just made me have a terrible thought.....
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Posted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 10:46 am
Medeus Cabron the Swan Medeus The ******** is the point of Anonymous confessions if errebody puts their name in the confession....? [/#151] Also, 152- what's with the &'s? Maybe it's somebody else's name.
DUN DUN DUUUN
Also <3 becomes &3 when you gift something to someone.
EDIT: Also, 152, if that's the biggest reason you want a girlfriend, it's probably also the biggest reason you don't have one. xd :O OH god mebbeh yur right! Except didja check the context? lol <3wife<3....? Who types like that? lol! xD That just made me have a terrible thought..... Probably or something like that, since there were no 3s.
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Posted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 10:50 am
Cabron the Swan Medeus Cabron the Swan Medeus The ******** is the point of Anonymous confessions if errebody puts their name in the confession....? [/#151] Also, 152- what's with the &'s? Maybe it's somebody else's name.
DUN DUN DUUUN
Also <3 becomes &3 when you gift something to someone.
EDIT: Also, 152, if that's the biggest reason you want a girlfriend, it's probably also the biggest reason you don't have one. xd :O OH god mebbeh yur right! Except didja check the context? lol <3wife<3....? Who types like that? lol! xD That just made me have a terrible thought..... Probably or something like that, since there were no 3s. ......What? lol In theory that makes sense, but not in Context....it'd be What else changes when you gift somebody?
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Posted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 10:53 am
Medeus Cabron the Swan Medeus Cabron the Swan Medeus The ******** is the point of Anonymous confessions if errebody puts their name in the confession....? [/#151] Also, 152- what's with the &'s? Maybe it's somebody else's name.
DUN DUN DUUUN
Also <3 becomes &3 when you gift something to someone.
EDIT: Also, 152, if that's the biggest reason you want a girlfriend, it's probably also the biggest reason you don't have one. xd :O OH god mebbeh yur right! Except didja check the context? lol <3wife<3....? Who types like that? lol! xD That just made me have a terrible thought..... Probably or something like that, since there were no 3s. ......What? lol In theory that makes sense, but not in Context....it'd be What else changes when you gift somebody? Well, if the left bracket changes, the right bracket probably does as well. I dunno, I don't use the gifting system much. xd
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