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 Posted: Wed May 02, 2007 8:41 pm
I feel weird...
I am like, one of the few girls here who've actually had sex?
I mean, I've had A LOT of sex, mostly with the same person, and none of them were drunk! And I've been on top. Its great. I cared about him seeing my tummy, but you know what, he didn't care. So why should I?
Anyways. Have more confidence in yourself, like Miss Kitty said.
I was in mush the same situation as her. In fact, it's a bit scary... xd
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Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 9:06 am
Looks like my finacee will likely have a few surprises for me, lol. sweatdrop heart
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Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 10:03 am
Avengelynn I feel weird... I am like, one of the few girls here who've actually had sex? I mean, I've had A LOT of sex, mostly with the same person, and none of them were drunk! And I've been on top. Its great. I cared about him seeing my tummy, but you know what, he didn't care. So why should I? Anyways. Have more confidence in yourself, like Miss Kitty said. I was in mush the same situation as her. In fact, it's a bit scary... xd
Considering how many girls are actually active in this group, coupled with the age range of this group, it seems about right to me. At least I hope the younger members aren't having sex, but I'm old-fashioned like that sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 8:52 pm
whoa whoa whoa...I'm big and I've had sex. I haven't had any real issues involving my weight in that part of my life. It's something I enjoy, oh yes, very much so. xd
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 10:08 pm
It takes a lot for me to get physically close to someoen because of my weight. But once I know they're comfortable, I go for it. Once I know I turn them on, I stop caring about how I look, and focus on pleasing my man. I find that really helps me with my self esteem, not focusing on me.
It isn't until the relationship is over that I make myself blush a little with how bold I was, and kind of wish I hadn't.
P.S. The stories in this thread are great!! They made me laugh so hard! 3nodding
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 11:02 pm
SPEAKING OF SEX: Why would someone want to keep a hookup a secret unless they were ashamed of the person they had it with? Neither of these people is in a relationship, they've both had sex before... anyone think of any other reasons for something like that?
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 11:08 pm
hmmmm....
my thoughts:
-maybe they are a person who wants to keep something like that personal so many people wont find out. (meaning: my private life is my private life and no one else really has the right to know unless i tell them)
-it was just a hook up and really didnt mean anything as big as one person thinks.
-fear of judgment from others (?)
i dunno. ive heard all sorts of reasons with an ex-friend of mine who did the same thing.
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Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 4:09 pm
kristinarr SPEAKING OF SEX: Why would someone want to keep a hookup a secret unless they were ashamed of the person they had it with? Neither of these people is in a relationship, they've both had sex before... anyone think of any other reasons for something like that? *wonders if this someone in question is you and if anyone really would have a problem if it was* I can't really. At least not right now sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 10:13 pm
Locke_Dirks kristinarr SPEAKING OF SEX: Why would someone want to keep a hookup a secret unless they were ashamed of the person they had it with? Neither of these people is in a relationship, they've both had sex before... anyone think of any other reasons for something like that? *wonders if this someone in question is you and if anyone really would have a problem if it was* I can't really. At least not right now sweatdrop The question was inspired by my personal life, yes.
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 5:34 pm
my fat was never an issue whenever i used to have sex with my ex.
we were both rather large girls so it was always just there.
it didnt stop the shower or any other kinky sexes XD
however i did fear she would fall out of love with me.. and she did sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 5:49 pm
RainbowSparks my fat was never an issue whenever i used to have sex with my ex.
we were both rather large girls so it was always just there.
it didnt stop the shower or any other kinky sexes XD
however i did fear she would fall out of love with me.. and she did sweatdrop *hugs* that sucks, I know what that feels like, to lose someone you love........
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 6:50 pm
Locke_Dirks RainbowSparks my fat was never an issue whenever i used to have sex with my ex.
we were both rather large girls so it was always just there.
it didnt stop the shower or any other kinky sexes XD
however i did fear she would fall out of love with me.. and she did sweatdrop *hugs* that sucks, I know what that feels like, to lose someone you love........ it was hard at first but then she turned into a drug addicted whore and started dating a girl who looked like a dog. so i just shake my head and know there are WAYYY better out there for me.
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 7:01 pm
That's the spirit!
My friend is going through a breakup right now and I don't really know what to tell him to cheer him up... it's even harder since his ex is my friend and co-worker, too.
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 11:12 pm
I used to be scared to death of what my boyfriend would think of me if he saw me without clothes.
Sex was something I never really saw in our near future, I was scared he wouldn't like me anymore if he saw me naked and/or we ended ip 'doing the deed'.
But eventually it got easier to be around without my clothes.
And we're still together, so I was definately scared for no reason.
He's always saying how much he loves my body.
He tells me I look like one of the ladies from the classic paintings with the chubby women.
It's cute.
I think it just takes getting more comfortable with yourself and accepting your body.
If someone loves you, they won't care about stretch marks or cellulite or how big your thighs are.
(And you seriously need to try the sex in the shower thing, because it's actually really fun...)
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 3:21 pm
Jesus_vs_Godzilla
(And you seriously need to try the sex in the shower thing, because it's actually really fun...)
Oh hell yes. I definitely agree. heart heart
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