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your fiance must suck in the sack or he has a small p***s real is better than fake! what are some sex toys for males?

Excellent way to make friends. Considering you're neither a woman nor, I assume, enjoy the company of another's p***s, I don't think you're capable of making these judgements.



You could go and explain to her that you're a virgin? Maybe, just maybe - if she doesn't break the relationship off with you completely for lying to her - you might find out for yourself? neutral

dammit no one looks out for the desprate virgins! could some one explain to me why girls willingly have sex with guys that they think are assholes but if they meet a good guy they tell him to wait until they are married? this really puzzles me and i am probably going to get some bogus answers

If I may offer my own 2 cents, I have a list of reason most nice guys don't get the chicks(some of them presonally known):

arrow Your social skills suck, and you won't let yourself take any chance to build them.

arrow The women that DO take notice of you, are the women you're not giving the time of day.

arrow You're more focused on your hobbies, studies, or things other than finding a woman.

arrow When women do approach you, you take notice about the wrong things on (or of) their person.

arrow You lack a discernable backspine.

arrow You don't take the initiative, when meeting women.

arrow You focus on yourself, and not the person in front of you, when having a conversation.

arrow Your bodily hygene is not exactly funky fresh(more like just plain f~u~n~k~y)

arrow You talk about things that may interest your friends, if discussed at length, but will BORE the women, if she's not into that herself, and you fail to introduce her to it.

arrow You have nothing of interest about yourself, and seem to have zero outside interests.

I know I couldn't talk to women back in high school for the longest time, because I never could summon up the courage to do so, and my focus began shifting into writing, in my later years. So, in short, start standing on your own two feet, and start getting out there, and living life. Enjoy a sunrise stroll through the park; gain a few outside hobbies, and such; take up some defensive arts; live your life, don't just exist within it. Thanks to some very special people in my life, I'm starting to grow bold and delicious, gaining knowledge about the world and people around me, and taking chances, and taking the lead. If only this site, and those people had been around in my earlier years. *softly laughs*

women tell me i am attractive all the time and want to go out with me then for some reason they say they want to e just friends man females really confuse me, and whaht exactly makes the female bleed when she is on her period?

They might mean, more specifically, that they find you physically attractive, and, quite frankly, most people go for more than just that. What's more, people who are just secure when it comes to their physical appeal, and are insecure about their emotional/intellectual/social appeal, tend to be more prone to criticising others for every little fault. What I've noticed about the people who are insecure about their person, though not always just physically, is that they will generally seek reason to down someone, and view people as the expendable tools for their own furthering. A secure person would recognize the values of other people, and not just do things for the sake of furthering themselves, especially not if it is at the expense of others.

To clarify a bit: Quite frankly, I wouldn't want to be with someone who just wanted to have sex with me, because then it isn't a matter of their concern for me, but their interest in using me as a tool to further their own interests. If you find a girl whom you're interested in, she'll be more likely to return your interest if you will, in fact, treat her as a friend and look to gain her trust, rather than give her the impression, which might be something you do subconsciously, that she's just someone you want to ********. She's a sex toy. No one likes that. They like to be taken into consideration as their own, individual person, and to be treated a certain way because of who they are, not what they're good for.

There's a line in the opera Carmen, by Georges Bizet, that roughly translates as, "Love is like a bird: If you chase it, it will fly away; ignore it, and it will come to you." This goes for sex, (which is arguably a furthering of love.) If you look for sex, chances are, it will avoid you. But, if you look for friendship, it might come to you on its own. You'll need patience, granted, but you'll probably have a more fulfilling relationship if you aren't just doing it to stick it somewhere. Quite frankly, you might as well get it on with a tree, then.

Aiyaiyai.

Are you even paying attention to what we've been saying? Because, you know, it actually is valid, and probably is a reason why people aren't as interested in you. Being mediocre at making out won't affect whether a girl wants to stay with you or not, unless she really wasn't that into you in the first place and just wanted a fling.

For the bazillionth time, however, how much attention do you really give to women as people and as individuals? Do you care more about their personality or their sexual appeal? This is very likely the root of some of your problems.

I don't kno why I'm even bothering anymore. rolleyes