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 Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 12:43 am
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 2:33 am
Aww. Why? D: Also I miss you Dessy, I wanna talk to you more :<
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 5:36 am
There was something I'd wanted to go to the store for as soon as it opened.
But I've forgotten what that something was.
Now I'm mostly just going to get away from the Taylor Swift they are blasting downstairs.
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 5:37 am
I speak in spanish and LPS JIZZED. IN. HER PANTS.
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Sharkbutt The Orgiastic Crew
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 6:40 am
RAAAAGH scream
*punches a wall*
There is nothing, nothing that I hate more than remaining closeted. Yet, by request of my mother, I've kept myself from saying anything to any other family members outside of my brother and father. And it never fails to put me in a seething rage. The only other family member that knows I'm bi is my aunt, who my mother told while seeking advice when I first told her.
It would be so easy, so easy to say something to my favorite little cousin now and wait for her overly talkative ways to get the better of her. And at the same time, I know her brother would suddenly stop looking up to me in the same way.
I just want to be true to myself. Is that too much to ask without too much trouble? crying
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 7:11 am
Decavolty I speak in spanish and LPS JIZZED. IN. HER PANTS.
I have absolutely no idea what you were saying, but that is unimportant.
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 7:18 am
Wantcookie RAAAAGH scream *punches a wall* There is nothing, nothing that I hate more than remaining closeted. Yet, by request of my mother, I've kept myself from saying anything to any other family members outside of my brother and father. And it never fails to put me in a seething rage. The only other family member that knows I'm bi is my aunt, who my mother told while seeking advice when I first told her. It would be so easy, so easy to say something to my favorite little cousin now and wait for her overly talkative ways to get the better of her. And at the same time, I know her brother would suddenly stop looking up to me in the same way. I just want to be true to myself. Is that too much to ask without too much trouble? crying Is it bad that I was moderately reminded of the start of Prisoner of Azkaban?
"Do they use the cane in Straightville, boy?"
"Oh yeah, I've been beaten loads of times."
nobutsrsly have you tried talking to your mom about how much it bothers you to suppress this part of your identity around people you really care about, and that you don't think it's fair that you're being asked to? If she cares more about her kid's well-being than her values, she'll understand and maybe even help you break it to them in a way that won't lose you any brownie points with the family. And if she cares more about her values, well, at least she can't say you didn't warn her if you do get fed up and let the cat out of the butthole.
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 9:43 am
Cabron LaSwan Wantcookie RAAAAGH scream *punches a wall* There is nothing, nothing that I hate more than remaining closeted. Yet, by request of my mother, I've kept myself from saying anything to any other family members outside of my brother and father. And it never fails to put me in a seething rage. The only other family member that knows I'm bi is my aunt, who my mother told while seeking advice when I first told her. It would be so easy, so easy to say something to my favorite little cousin now and wait for her overly talkative ways to get the better of her. And at the same time, I know her brother would suddenly stop looking up to me in the same way. I just want to be true to myself. Is that too much to ask without too much trouble? crying Is it bad that I was moderately reminded of the start of Prisoner of Azkaban?
"Do they use the cane in Straightville, boy?"
"Oh yeah, I've been beaten loads of times."
nobutsrsly have you tried talking to your mom about how much it bothers you to suppress this part of your identity around people you really care about, and that you don't think it's fair that you're being asked to? If she cares more about her kid's well-being than her values, she'll understand and maybe even help you break it to them in a way that won't lose you any brownie points with the family. And if she cares more about her values, well, at least she can't say you didn't warn her if you do get fed up and let the cat out of the butthole. If I were in the same room, I would hug you. xd The problem is, at the bottom of my soul I know for a fact that it would drastically change things with all but two people. Yesterday my innocent twelve-year old cousin said "That's so gay," and without looking up I responded with "You say that like it's a bad thing." He gave me a puzzled look and said "That's because it is." My heart broke so hard, you have no idea.
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Sharkbutt The Orgiastic Crew
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 10:00 am
Wantcookie Cabron LaSwan Wantcookie RAAAAGH scream *punches a wall* There is nothing, nothing that I hate more than remaining closeted. Yet, by request of my mother, I've kept myself from saying anything to any other family members outside of my brother and father. And it never fails to put me in a seething rage. The only other family member that knows I'm bi is my aunt, who my mother told while seeking advice when I first told her. It would be so easy, so easy to say something to my favorite little cousin now and wait for her overly talkative ways to get the better of her. And at the same time, I know her brother would suddenly stop looking up to me in the same way. I just want to be true to myself. Is that too much to ask without too much trouble? crying Is it bad that I was moderately reminded of the start of Prisoner of Azkaban?
"Do they use the cane in Straightville, boy?"
"Oh yeah, I've been beaten loads of times."
nobutsrsly have you tried talking to your mom about how much it bothers you to suppress this part of your identity around people you really care about, and that you don't think it's fair that you're being asked to? If she cares more about her kid's well-being than her values, she'll understand and maybe even help you break it to them in a way that won't lose you any brownie points with the family. And if she cares more about her values, well, at least she can't say you didn't warn her if you do get fed up and let the cat out of the butthole. If I were in the same room, I would hug you. xd The problem is, at the bottom of my soul I know for a fact that it would drastically change things with all but two people. Yesterday my innocent twelve-year old cousin said "That's so gay," and without looking up I responded with "You say that like it's a bad thing." He gave me a puzzled look and said "That's because it is." My heart broke so hard, you have no idea. Maybe he just meant 'gay' like the way it's used to express your disapproval of something (which kind of is a synonym for 'bad'), and not actually his opinion on, you know, the other gay. I mean, I call inanimate objects gay and I don't have a problem with gay people. I find it hard to believe that a twelve-year-old would have a steadfast opinion on sexuality unless they've had it conditioned into them or something.
And if not, he's the one that looks up to you, right? What's to say that his opinion of homosexuality wouldn't change before his opinion of you? This could just be from the perspective of a person who once fell in love with a *****, but I think that if you truly care about and value someone, you can understand, tolerate, and respect any difference. And when it's family, I think they'd gradually come to realize that you're still the same person they know and love underneath and get over it relatively quickly.
Alternatively, turn them all into d**k-shaped balloons and run away on a bus driven by a cabana boy.
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 10:36 am
Cabron LaSwan Wantcookie Cabron LaSwan Wantcookie RAAAAGH scream *punches a wall* There is nothing, nothing that I hate more than remaining closeted. Yet, by request of my mother, I've kept myself from saying anything to any other family members outside of my brother and father. And it never fails to put me in a seething rage. The only other family member that knows I'm bi is my aunt, who my mother told while seeking advice when I first told her. It would be so easy, so easy to say something to my favorite little cousin now and wait for her overly talkative ways to get the better of her. And at the same time, I know her brother would suddenly stop looking up to me in the same way. I just want to be true to myself. Is that too much to ask without too much trouble? crying Is it bad that I was moderately reminded of the start of Prisoner of Azkaban?
"Do they use the cane in Straightville, boy?"
"Oh yeah, I've been beaten loads of times."
nobutsrsly have you tried talking to your mom about how much it bothers you to suppress this part of your identity around people you really care about, and that you don't think it's fair that you're being asked to? If she cares more about her kid's well-being than her values, she'll understand and maybe even help you break it to them in a way that won't lose you any brownie points with the family. And if she cares more about her values, well, at least she can't say you didn't warn her if you do get fed up and let the cat out of the butthole. If I were in the same room, I would hug you. xd The problem is, at the bottom of my soul I know for a fact that it would drastically change things with all but two people. Yesterday my innocent twelve-year old cousin said "That's so gay," and without looking up I responded with "You say that like it's a bad thing." He gave me a puzzled look and said "That's because it is." My heart broke so hard, you have no idea. Maybe he just meant 'gay' like the way it's used to express your disapproval of something (which kind of is a synonym for 'bad'), and not actually his opinion on, you know, the other gay. I mean, I call inanimate objects gay and I don't have a problem with gay people. I find it hard to believe that a twelve-year-old would have a steadfast opinion on sexuality unless they've had it conditioned into them or something.
And if not, he's the one that looks up to you, right? What's to say that his opinion of homosexuality wouldn't change before his opinion of you? This could just be from the perspective of a person who once fell in love with a *****, but I think that if you truly care about and value someone, you can understand, tolerate, and respect any difference. And when it's family, I think they'd gradually come to realize that you're still the same person they know and love underneath and get over it relatively quickly.
Alternatively, turn them all into d**k-shaped balloons and run away on a bus driven by a cabana boy. I like this last idea. I know, I've got other friends who do the same thing. And I really hope that was all. But I know that our blind-to-the-simple-honest-truth religious zealot of an uncle (not his father) is right there to teach him things. (Hilariously, said uncle's open-minded daughter, who is my age, is the cousin with whom I feel most comfortable sharing this with, other than little nine-year-old Ally who is wise beyond her years. XD) And I know you're right. His "opinion" will probably change as soon as he learns about me. The kid waited all of five minutes after I told him I was going to be an engineer to announce that he wanted to do the same thing. xd I guess what I'm most afraid of is coming under fire from my uncle and his son. I'm not nearly as close to either of them as I am with the rest of the family. That, and I know my grandmother will have the same reaction that my mother had, immediate and total heartbreak. I'm the eldest grandchild, and she (and my mother) clearly looks to me to begin another generation. To her, the likely prospect of that not happening is earth-shattering.
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Sharkbutt The Orgiastic Crew
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 10:39 am
Wantcookie I like this last idea. I know, I've got other friends who do the same thing. And I really hope that was all. But I know that our blind-to-the-simple-honest-truth religious zealot of an uncle (not his father) is right there to teach him things. (Hilariously, said uncle's open-minded daughter, who is my age, is the cousin with whom I feel most comfortable sharing this with, other than little nine-year-old Ally who is wise beyond her years. XD) And I know you're right. His "opinion" will probably change as soon as he learns about me. The kid waited all of five minutes after I told him I was going to be an engineer to announce that he wanted to do the same thing. xd I guess what I'm most afraid of is coming under fire from my uncle and his son. I'm not nearly as close to either of them as I am with the rest of the family. That, and I know my grandmother will have the same reaction that my mother had, immediate and total heartbreak. I'm the eldest grandchild, and she (and my mother) clearly looks to me to begin another generation. To her, the likely prospect of that not happening is earth-shattering. I have a suggestion: Instead of coming out by using the words, "I'm Bi/gay/whatever", tell them what's been going on in Life in the last however-long. Tell them your Story. That makes it easier for them to forgive you for the past and simultaneously opens the door for them to accept you for who you are Now, based on what you've been (which they'd have already forgiven). 3nodding Worked for me.
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 10:53 am
Wantcookie Cabron LaSwan Wantcookie Cabron LaSwan Wantcookie RAAAAGH scream *punches a wall* There is nothing, nothing that I hate more than remaining closeted. Yet, by request of my mother, I've kept myself from saying anything to any other family members outside of my brother and father. And it never fails to put me in a seething rage. The only other family member that knows I'm bi is my aunt, who my mother told while seeking advice when I first told her. It would be so easy, so easy to say something to my favorite little cousin now and wait for her overly talkative ways to get the better of her. And at the same time, I know her brother would suddenly stop looking up to me in the same way. I just want to be true to myself. Is that too much to ask without too much trouble? crying Is it bad that I was moderately reminded of the start of Prisoner of Azkaban?
"Do they use the cane in Straightville, boy?"
"Oh yeah, I've been beaten loads of times."
nobutsrsly have you tried talking to your mom about how much it bothers you to suppress this part of your identity around people you really care about, and that you don't think it's fair that you're being asked to? If she cares more about her kid's well-being than her values, she'll understand and maybe even help you break it to them in a way that won't lose you any brownie points with the family. And if she cares more about her values, well, at least she can't say you didn't warn her if you do get fed up and let the cat out of the butthole. If I were in the same room, I would hug you. xd The problem is, at the bottom of my soul I know for a fact that it would drastically change things with all but two people. Yesterday my innocent twelve-year old cousin said "That's so gay," and without looking up I responded with "You say that like it's a bad thing." He gave me a puzzled look and said "That's because it is." My heart broke so hard, you have no idea. Maybe he just meant 'gay' like the way it's used to express your disapproval of something (which kind of is a synonym for 'bad'), and not actually his opinion on, you know, the other gay. I mean, I call inanimate objects gay and I don't have a problem with gay people. I find it hard to believe that a twelve-year-old would have a steadfast opinion on sexuality unless they've had it conditioned into them or something.
And if not, he's the one that looks up to you, right? What's to say that his opinion of homosexuality wouldn't change before his opinion of you? This could just be from the perspective of a person who once fell in love with a *****, but I think that if you truly care about and value someone, you can understand, tolerate, and respect any difference. And when it's family, I think they'd gradually come to realize that you're still the same person they know and love underneath and get over it relatively quickly.
Alternatively, turn them all into d**k-shaped balloons and run away on a bus driven by a cabana boy. I like this last idea. I know, I've got other friends who do the same thing. And I really hope that was all. But I know that our blind-to-the-simple-honest-truth religious zealot of an uncle (not his father) is right there to teach him things. (Hilariously, said uncle's open-minded daughter, who is my age, is the cousin with whom I feel most comfortable sharing this with, other than little nine-year-old Ally who is wise beyond her years. XD) And I know you're right. His "opinion" will probably change as soon as he learns about me. The kid waited all of five minutes after I told him I was going to be an engineer to announce that he wanted to do the same thing. xd I guess what I'm most afraid of is coming under fire from my uncle and his son. I'm not nearly as close to either of them as I am with the rest of the family. That, and I know my grandmother will have the same reaction that my mother had, immediate and total heartbreak. I'm the eldest grandchild, and she (and my mother) clearly looks to me to begin another generation. To her, the likely prospect of that not happening is earth-shattering. Yeah, see? Kids are impressionable. This could be your chance to instill a bit of tolerance in him. Or turn him gay, rofl.
Hmm. I'd say 'don't feel guilty if they're let down, it's not your fault they placed that expectation on you, besides it's not like you're the only person capable of reproduction in your generation' and 'don't let a view that you believe to be flawed and nonsensical get in the way of what you want', but I know how much easier said than done that can be. Maybe there's a way to tell them one by one, and leave out the ones you don't want to upset or inflame?
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 11:09 am
Also, Tolerance is probably the last thing you want to instill in Anybody, especially when it comes to the people you live with. @_@
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 12:34 pm
>LPS jizzes about wrestling
>mi cara cuando
rofl
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 12:37 pm
Decavolty >LPS jizzes about wrestling >mi cara cuando rofl STOP THAT
I WILL j**z ALL OVER YOUR FACE WHEN
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