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 Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 5:23 pm
Actually, that's what I meant when I said "yumtastic". But I guess when I think about it...they're both yumtastic.
And it is, isn't it? You and me--we've got a whole wavelength to ourselves.
-Lea
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 6:36 pm
I wasn't sure who you were talking about, hehe. I needed to clarify. XD But yeah, we really do, don't we? Hehe, we're something special, you and I. I have other pictures. Like this one:  I love that he can do that. Its... Hot. XD
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 7:10 pm
Honey, if you don't get all up in that, I will. *licks lips* Happily.
-Lea
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 7:24 pm
Oh, I'm all up on that. Don't you worry. I think the kid is in love with me because of what I know how/am willing to do. XD And I really know what I'm doing, too. I can do a lot of very yummy things without actually having sex. Heehee. whee wink
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:42 pm
Ooh, girl, then work your magic on our pretty boy here! *claps hands together conspiratorially* Wait! *wiggles spirit fingers* Take some fairy dust for whimsy! *winks* A wink for luck! *Cups hand and blows kiss* A kiss for love! And take this knowledge with you: beauty, brilliance, passion--it's all inside you. Let it out, and nothing can stop you! Be a queen to make this one proud!
~Lea
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 9:23 pm
Have I told you recently how much I absolutely love you? To me, you are the physical embodiment of rainbows, and that is truly spectacular. I will, above and beyond what I know I can do, work my magic on our pretty boy. heart And now I'm wishing for a musical note emoticon, because it would be perfect all over this post. whee
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 9:56 pm
I love you, too, Tommy. And I can't think of a higher compliment than that. (More on LRD!)
~Lea, Physical Embodiment of Rainbows
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 10:03 pm
The highest compliment I ever received was in fifth grade, right at the end, when my teacher gave me a little certificate that said I was the goddess of laughs and dreams. I will never forget that.
I have read LRD, I just haven't commented on it. I figure that it would be a disruption, honestly.
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 11:01 pm
Huh. Hadn't thought of it like that.
Oh, by the way...Part Two is coming next weekend.
-LD
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Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 6:29 am
Okay, I'm sorry if I'm inturrupting, and I'm sorry if this is too soon after I've come back, but I could really, really use some help.
My boyfriend's grandmother was taken to the hospital on Christmas morning. Yesterday, she slipped into a coma. She's more of a mother to him then his real one is, and even though he refuses to show it he's upset, of course he's upset.
And I don't... know how to make it better. I mean, I know I'm not gonna be able to make it good again, but I want to at least help. I just feel completely useless right now, and now that I'm at college I'm can only see him every other week. How stupid is that, that I love him so much and I can't even be there for him?
Normally I wouldn't care--I'd just feel guilty for a little bit then forget about it. But with him... seeing him unhappy just hurts, and I don't know what to do.
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Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 9:27 am
Ok, Ok, all that needs to stop. You're making the rest of us either uncomfortable or pissed off. Honey, everyone can do that. Well, okay, all the skinnies out there. Hell, I could do it.
But whatever.
Arrow--men, as I'm sure you know, have this thing where they can't share emotion. And you know that he's upset, as you've said. That said, the best thing you can do is when you're on the phone with him (which if I were you, I'd try to do everyday/night/whenever you have time), say that you're there for him if he needs to talk about it. Show your support, buy him cute, but small, things every once in a while to show how much you think about him when you're away from him, and tell him you really wish you were there for him in such a difficult time. If he really wants to talk about it (which, by the way, is a HEALTHY and GOOD thing to do, some men just have a problem with it sometimes), he will eventually. Don't push it. He'll come around. And even if he doesn't, he'll appreciate your support.
And his grandmother in a coma--look on the bright side--her body knew it needed to work something out, so it probably slipped into that coma to work it out. Sometimes all you can do is hope for the best.
May the Gods bless you and yours, and watch over your boyfriend's grandmother.
Blessed Be, my dear.
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Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 10:04 am
Elv.... My advice to you is simple, and hopefully, as sweet as your intentions.
I disagree with Nola--too much affection right now could actually make him hurt more--I know it did with me and my mom. Don't console him--let him have his grief, and let him know that you're there to share it, if he wants to. Maybe not in words. It doesn't need to be.
Be there for him. That's really all you can do for him--give him the strength to fight his own battles. It might not be easy--it might be as hard as hell not to grab him and pull him into your shoulder. But I believe that part of loving someone is allowing them their own emotions.
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Pain is the price. For him, for his grandmother. For you, for him. But your love and his...these are worthy prizes. Strength, wisdom...we all find these along the way, and lose them, too. But Love, we never truly lose--not even in death.
Love and Vale,
-Andrew
P.S. Okay guys! No more LRD updates 'til Friday. So I want comments! scream scream scream ... redface Please. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 11:03 am
To Arrow -
I'm actually going to have to agree with Varos on this one, seeing as I'm kind of one of those A-typical guys who doesn't like expressing any emotion aside from joy, anger, frustration and... there is one more but I just woke up, massive party last night, head still bass throbbing... merh...
But yes, if you call him every free minute you get, that's called smothering, and only the weepiest, sappiest of men actually enjoy that. Seeing as he's locking everything up, he isn't that kind of guy. Call him a few times a week, tell him you love him, generally avoid the subject. Some times guys feel that if a subject is avoided by others they want to talk about it more. Its a gamble but if you keep bringing it up, he's just going to get mad. And the reason he's going to be mad at you is because men fix things, they will absolutely, 99% of the time, refuse to have their girl friend or wife fix it for them, it makes them feel inadequate. So first off, stop telling him you wish you could fix things, he knows you can't fix anything, you aren't a doctor and neither is he, its frustrating but like he's doing, you have to get over it too.
And men can share their emotions, we're just selective, I share mine at times but usually it heralds the beginning of a mental breakdown (life gets pretty hectic for me). But that's only when I start divulging everything. When you're with him, just try to have a good time, take his mind off the current situation, no one wants to think about the bad.
In other news... I plan on going deaf in the next few weeks, I have a Three Days Grace concert this Friday, next Thursday a Michael Buble concert, then on Feb 2 I get to see Hedley! Wooh! So yeah, should be pretty exciting!
Well, as my life is exceptionally boring right now, and I'm still waking up, I will endeavour to get my sorry, creative a** working on revising chapter 2 of New Fantasy.
Good Day Everyone!
Love Justin
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Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 11:18 am
I believe I have nothing to say. Hence, I may be gone for an undetermined amount of time. Not from Gaia, just from this thread.
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Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 12:03 pm
Ok, obviously everyone has what they would do, now you need to figure out what would work best for you and your man.
It just shows that we care--semi-arguing/disagreeing like we are. We want the best for you, for your boyfriend, and for his grandmother. The bottom line is that you should be there for him in a way that would make yourself and him comfortable.
Love and Blessings to you, darling.
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And Tommy, Leav, I'm sorry for the overreaction. I'm all about not hurting anyone's feelings or making them feel uncomfortable. Maybe I need to look in the mirror for that one.
Sometimes I don't know what to do with myself. sad
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