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Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 8:35 am
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I would like to ask you to read a very good book on this subject. It is called "Every Young Woman's Battle". The world you live in promotes sex as the answer to just about everything. The pressure to go along with the crowd is greater than ever before, and it's easy to compromise in little ways that are a lot more harmful than they seem. You and your friends may become caught up in destructive relationships or sexual activities without even knowing how you got there. You just want to be normal-to fit in, to be liked, to look attractive to the opposite sex. This book will teach you to: 1. Learn how the sexual battle begins inyour heart and mind. 2. Understand your hunger for attention from guys. 3. Recognize and avoid the potential pitfalls awaiting young women on the journey toward adulthood and possible marriage. 4. Find out how the media, novels, fashion, internet chat rooms, and body and beauty obsessions influence your sexual choices-and waht you can do about it. 5. Gaurd your mind, heart, and body against sexual and emotional compromise. 6. Develope a deeper, more satisfying level of intimacy with God. This book can help you reclaim sexual integrity. It can also guide you through the temptations and pressures of young adulthood while demonstrating how you can live your life to the fullest-without regrets. With Love In Christ.
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Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2007 10:16 pm
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Posted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 10:04 pm
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Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 4:40 pm
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Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 4:59 pm
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Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2007 10:50 am
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 12:25 pm
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Posted: Sun Aug 12, 2007 7:45 pm
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Angel_Nyx I feel like the dirtiest slut right now. I may have just had sex with my ex-boyfriend. And I've sworn to be a virgin until I get married. My boyfriend of two years and I broke up a few weeks ago, agreeing to just be friends. But everytime I'm with him alone he starts getting, well, seductive. Far more so than when we were dating. In fact we've gone much farther physically since we broke up than we ever had before when we were dating. I guess I'm just easy, or maybe incredibly lusty, I don't know. But regardless, the bottom line is that I was on top of him, we were naked, and he claims he got inside me by an inch before he realized he was about to ejaculate and he pulled out. We both feel like trash, me beacause I even let this happen, him because he still wanted to go further and he hates himself for it. Thankfully, he's leaving for army boot camp in a few weeks, and I hopefully won't have to worry about this ever again. Can this truly be considered sex? Am I still anywhere near being a virgin?How did I go from a perfect little on-fire Christian girl to a slut like this? What good Christian guy is ever going to want to marry me after I tell them this? Will God really forgive me for this? Please you guys, give me your honest oppinions about everything I've just said, not what I want to hear. Any advice and prayers are welcome.
first off you have done nothing wrong and you are not a slut having sex does not make you a slut
next you are not a virgin you never were to begin with (since birth) but you could become one some day
and on a side note its ok to admit you still care for the boy why else would you choose to share one of lifes greatest gifts with him
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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:38 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 7:26 pm
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lordstar Angel_Nyx I feel like the dirtiest slut right now. I may have just had sex with my ex-boyfriend. And I've sworn to be a virgin until I get married. My boyfriend of two years and I broke up a few weeks ago, agreeing to just be friends. But everytime I'm with him alone he starts getting, well, seductive. Far more so than when we were dating. In fact we've gone much farther physically since we broke up than we ever had before when we were dating. I guess I'm just easy, or maybe incredibly lusty, I don't know. But regardless, the bottom line is that I was on top of him, we were naked, and he claims he got inside me by an inch before he realized he was about to ejaculate and he pulled out. We both feel like trash, me beacause I even let this happen, him because he still wanted to go further and he hates himself for it. Thankfully, he's leaving for army boot camp in a few weeks, and I hopefully won't have to worry about this ever again. Can this truly be considered sex? Am I still anywhere near being a virgin?How did I go from a perfect little on-fire Christian girl to a slut like this? What good Christian guy is ever going to want to marry me after I tell them this? Will God really forgive me for this? Please you guys, give me your honest oppinions about everything I've just said, not what I want to hear. Any advice and prayers are welcome. next you are not a virgin you never were to begin with (since birth) but you could become one some day I've been trying hard not to say something, but I guess patience isn't a virtue I've mastered.
You give terrible advice and make 0 sense!
How are we not or never were virgins, but can become one? Please enlighten me. I would like to know how one has sex before they are born but then at some point in life attains that status, like Zen Buddhists achieve ultimate enlightenment. And we are not all bi. Last I checked, I have never felt ANY sort of attraction to the same sex. I'm not going to say whether being gay or bi is a choice, but if you're going to make ridiculous claims like that, give some sort of anything to back up your claims. If you would back up what you say, even if it was ridiculous, I wouldn't mind, but you just post random crazy unhelpful things without saying way. It really makes me start to think you're a troll.
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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 8:31 pm
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Sieg Reyu.2 lordstar Angel_Nyx I feel like the dirtiest slut right now. I may have just had sex with my ex-boyfriend. And I've sworn to be a virgin until I get married. My boyfriend of two years and I broke up a few weeks ago, agreeing to just be friends. But everytime I'm with him alone he starts getting, well, seductive. Far more so than when we were dating. In fact we've gone much farther physically since we broke up than we ever had before when we were dating. I guess I'm just easy, or maybe incredibly lusty, I don't know. But regardless, the bottom line is that I was on top of him, we were naked, and he claims he got inside me by an inch before he realized he was about to ejaculate and he pulled out. We both feel like trash, me beacause I even let this happen, him because he still wanted to go further and he hates himself for it. Thankfully, he's leaving for army boot camp in a few weeks, and I hopefully won't have to worry about this ever again. Can this truly be considered sex? Am I still anywhere near being a virgin?How did I go from a perfect little on-fire Christian girl to a slut like this? What good Christian guy is ever going to want to marry me after I tell them this? Will God really forgive me for this? Please you guys, give me your honest oppinions about everything I've just said, not what I want to hear. Any advice and prayers are welcome. next you are not a virgin you never were to begin with (since birth) but you could become one some day I've been trying hard not to say something, but I guess patience isn't a virtue I've mastered. You give terrible advice and make 0 sense! How are we not or never were virgins, but can become one? Please enlighten me. I would like to know how one has sex before they are born but then at some point in life attains that status, like Zen Buddhists achieve ultimate enlightenment. And we are not all bi. Last I checked, I have never felt ANY sort of attraction to the same sex. I'm not going to say whether being gay or bi is a choice, but if you're going to make ridiculous claims like that, give some sort of anything to back up your claims. If you would back up what you say, even if it was ridiculous, I wouldn't mind, but you just post random crazy unhelpful things without saying way. It really makes me start to think you're a troll. xp Ouch... sweatdrop
Dude, I agree.... lol rofl
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Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 10:43 am
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Sieg Reyu.2 lordstar Angel_Nyx Please you guys, give me your honest oppinions about everything I've just said, not what I want to hear. Any advice and prayers are welcome. Continued... next you are not a virgin you never were to begin with (since birth) but you could become one some day I've been trying hard not to say something, but I guess patience isn't a virtue I've mastered. You give terrible advice and make 0 sense! How are we not or never were virgins, but can become one? Please enlighten me. I would like to know how one has sex before they are born but then at some point in life attains that status, like Zen Buddhists achieve ultimate enlightenment. And we are not all bi. Last I checked, I have never felt ANY sort of attraction to the same sex. I'm not going to say whether being gay or bi is a choice, but if you're going to make ridiculous claims like that, give some sort of anything to back up your claims. If you would back up what you say, even if it was ridiculous, I wouldn't mind, but you just post random crazy unhelpful things without saying way. It really makes me start to think you're a troll.
You would need to have read some of my other posts to understand what I was taking about
Didn’t really think anyone would understand and that’s ok because the point was just to get the brain turning again and maybe start looking for more answers
Anyway Not everything is what it seems
Like the word virgin (I have a long list)
The word had nothing to do with sex until relatively recent
So what did the word mean? Holy. Holy as associated with completeness. Like how a Buddhist attains enlightenment.
Am I making more sense now
Now put yourself in my place What do you think I think about virgin = no sex
If you answered with bullshit you would be right
I also don’t believe in absolutes
How can you be absolutely sure about anything?
“The only certain thing is uncertainty.”
So if you’re not 100% one way or the other than you must be bi
Does that mean 50/50? No, silly person, it could be 99.99999…. Might as well be 100% but is it…not technically
And if things weren’t complicated enough You mind is very powerful You can will yourself into seeing, being, or believing without even knowing your doing so
So how do you know for certain what is and what isn’t
You don’t So why do you care Isn’t believing enough
I give advice with reference to what I believe usually being more thought provoking and less in your face with about what I believe.
Perhaps you do the same
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Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 12:30 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2007 7:31 am
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